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Flying Wings 09-13-2007 11:48 PM

NEW TITLE: I don't want him to know that I have a crush
 
I definitely have a crush on someone. But I don't want to have a crush on him, it'll effect our relationship. And I don't want him to know that I have a crush on him..Help? ;.;

Spencer 09-13-2007 11:53 PM

It might just be a small crush since he's in a lot of your classes.

But good luck with the hugging thing. :D

Flying Wings 09-13-2007 11:58 PM

[email protected]@ Hopefully it's that.

Thanks..xP

Stephanie 09-14-2007 12:15 AM

I'm sure when you hug him you'll get a better idea if you like him or not. If your stomach drops or you get really clammy, then you might have a thing for him.
Alas, best of luck! :D

Cherry Who? 09-14-2007 12:22 AM

I'd say you have a crush on him, yes. But it is most definitely not love. You barely know him.
You could always try asking him out, or getting to know him. But it depends on why he's "annoying". If he's just a little immature or something, he may not be like that around someone he likes and wants to impress. But if he's honestly a jerk or something, I'd suggest keeping the crushy feelings inside and not hassling yourself with him.

Flying Wings 09-14-2007 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Stephanie
I'm sure when you hug him you'll get a better idea if you like him or not. If your stomach drops or you get really clammy, then you might have a thing for him.
Alas, best of luck! :D

Hehe, thanks! owo
Cherry-I know him, we just don't talk to each other much. *Shy* ^^

He's just really immature. x.x

Thanks!

Cherry Who? 09-14-2007 12:47 AM

That's what I meant. You know HIM, but not much about him. Like, his personality and all that. ^^
Just for an idea, how old is he? He may grow out of the immaturity soon. Some guys don't in their teen years, but many at least know when to be serious, and when to be goofy.
And don't judge how mature or immature he is when he's with his guy friends. He's just goofing off then. ^^

Flying Wings 09-14-2007 12:50 AM

Ohhh! x3
14. owo

He's always teasing my friends and I. Dx I mean, air hugs are awesome! xP *Does the shame shame to a stick figure of him* >F

Cherry Who? 09-14-2007 01:00 AM

Mm, yeah. Chances are, he's going to do alot of maturing in the next few years.
So even if he's not quite boyfriend-material yet, he may be pretty soon. ^^
Take advantage of this time to become his friend and get to know him.

cleric sarah 09-14-2007 04:21 AM

x3 awww young crushes...


I remember my first crush from middle school...Derek Veray..mm..mmm he was so hawt @[email protected];

Unfortunately he only like Asian girls, but I got to plat in band with him for three years!

Winter Wind 09-14-2007 06:03 AM

I dunno, there isn't enough information to tell. It might just be temporary infatuation.

Best of luck with the dare!

` Nitemare 09-14-2007 08:48 PM

The word Love gets thrown around so many times that it's slowly losing the main purpose of it.
I think you just might have a crush on him or even just like him.
It happens a lot, someone who is so annoying will get attached to you and you'll slowly start to like them for it....or something.
I dunno. D:

Flying Wings 09-14-2007 10:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cherry Flavored Antacid
Mm, yeah. Chances are, he's going to do alot of maturing in the next few years.
So even if he's not quite boyfriend-material yet, he may be pretty soon. ^^
Take advantage of this time to become his friend and get to know him.

That's true. ^^
Thanks!
Celric-XD
Aww!
Nice! x3 Thank you! <3
Winter-Maybe it's that!
I got to ditch it. xD Not to mention that I have to do it infront of my friend who dared me. xP Thanks!
Nightmare-I didn't know that there was a difference. xD

Hmm..;o
Aww, thanks for the advice! x3

Cherry Who? 09-14-2007 10:29 PM

Oh yes, there is a HUGE difference between crush and love.
A crush is just that giggley, stomach-knotty liking of someone. Blushing or getting nervous when they're around. The urge to talk to them more, and do things to impress them (even subconciously. Like doing big dramatic oral presentations in a class you have with them, wearing more makeup when you see them, dressing better when around them, getting into things they like so you can talk to them about it, making jokes around them) etc.
Love is... Love is deep. You know it when you're in it. Love is wanting that person to be happy, even if it means you're not with them (I.E. They'd be happy with someone else). Love is not letting a disagreement or argument ruin or taint things, but rather wanting to overcome everything. Love is knowing you'd feel like dying if you ever hurt that person in any way. Love is having a best friend, not just someone you think is cute.
Love is calmer than a crush. Stronger than a friendship. Love is huge. And great.


Uhm, sorry for the rant type babble thing. Just... Love and crush are totally different things. XD

xX Nightmare Angel Xx 09-14-2007 10:47 PM

  • I know the feeling :3. Sort of anyways, I had a little crush on a guy in my piano four years ago or so xD. Except our piano class was an after school thing. So we had practices on weekends and whatnot. Mine was on Saturday mornings, I never did like that O____x. He was my partner for the duet recital, and he did pretty good <3. Except he was really nice and funny =D.

    It was just a small crush though, wasn?t much. Hugs aren?t that bad though, right? I mean, I hug people all the time. I just really like hugs for some reason >____<. Maybe you will like him someday, you never know! ;O

Flying Wings 09-14-2007 11:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cherry Flavored Antacid
Oh yes, there is a HUGE difference between crush and love.
A crush is just that giggley, stomach-knotty liking of someone. Blushing or getting nervous when they're around. The urge to talk to them more, and do things to impress them (even subconciously. Like doing big dramatic oral presentations in a class you have with them, wearing more makeup when you see them, dressing better when around them, getting into things they like so you can talk to them about it, making jokes around them) etc.
Love is... Love is deep. You know it when you're in it. Love is wanting that person to be happy, even if it means you're not with them (I.E. They'd be happy with someone else). Love is not letting a disagreement or argument ruin or taint things, but rather wanting to overcome everything. Love is knowing you'd feel like dying if you ever hurt that person in any way. Love is having a best friend, not just someone you think is cute.
Love is calmer than a crush. Stronger than a friendship. Love is huge. And great.


Uhm, sorry for the rant type babble thing. Just... Love and crush are totally different things. XD

xD Now I understand! >w>
Angel-Aww! x3 That's so cute!

True, but I'm really shy. ^^ I normally don't hug people unless if I know them really really well, or they're one of my good friends. @[email protected]

I hope! I think he hates me though. x.x I don't want him to hate me!

Flying Wings 09-16-2007 12:22 AM

I just noticed that his Chinese Class at Chinese School is next to mine. *Blush* ><

Verucca 09-16-2007 05:04 AM

Good luck with the hug hun! Crushes are a lot of fun, but if it doesn't work out it isn't the end of the world. Love will roll around later, don't be in a hurry, throwing that word out there without really really knowing is just never a good idea.

How old are you if you don't mind? It seems like so long ago for me that a hug meant so very much! It is very cute. ^_^

Flying Wings 09-16-2007 02:47 PM

Thanks! > 3>

Yep! Very true! x3

I'm 14. n.n
Yep yep! x3

Flying Wings 09-28-2007 10:45 PM

NEW PROBLEM! x.x

kimu 09-28-2007 11:54 PM

Whuts the problem?!
Lol, Im 13 : D We are almost the same age~

Flying Wings 09-29-2007 09:34 PM

I don't wanna have a crush on somebody! ;__; But I do! Is that insane? ><

Otohime 09-30-2007 03:37 AM

I have a crush on someone too... and I'm worried that admitting it might make things awkward. He's older than me... and flirts back... so wtf men amirite? :c

Basically... just try not to worry about it too much. You're still very young, I'm sure you can find someone else to crush on? XD SORRY THATS NOT MUCH HELP!


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