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You shouldn't need to worry about that. You're still quite young. I didn't even have my first real boyfriend until my freshman year in high school. To be honest it was troublesome and we didn't even last 3 months we didn't even kiss ( that was my fault though) . I'm not going to go through great detail but, you're still young and rushing into things that you might not be emotionally & mentally prepared for might cause you to make really bad decisions or ones that you'll regret.
I hate to admit it, but I do have quite a few things in past relationships that I rushed into that I regret, A LOT. Especially after it was over. But since I can't change the past I can only look forward. Hmm, as for wanting a boyfriend or love...it's like that saying: "Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love, because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall." Where or who it was originally by, I do not know. But it's true. It'll end up sneaking on you when you least suspect it. [: |
boyfriends=trouble at a young age.
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Don't worry about it...you're only thirteen. xD
i had my first boyfriend at fourteen...but we never really did anything. xD Just held hands and such... it was just that cute-ish puppy love stuff. :P But yeah, we were too young. xD We just sort of drifted? Just friends now. xD;; Don't be influenced by everybody telling you need a boyfriend to be cool or something. :/ Everyone else I know hasn't had one yet. xD; And we're all fifteenish. xD |
why do you feel bad? i know 18 year olds who have never had boyfriends. its pathetic that people think they have to have a guy on their shoulder to be happy, functional, and normal. im sure all your friends dont have boyfriends. especially at youre age! youre only 13. i didnt have a boyfriend at 13. most of the 13 year old girls with boyfriends are just whores, anyway. |
Durr~!
As most people say, yes, it is very young for you to get a boyfriend, most likely.
My parents said I couldn't get a boyfriend till I was 25. I'm GLAD. I'm not going to tell you how old I am, but I'm old enough to get a boyfriend. I don't even like having to get a boyfriend at all. Even though I like this guy, I don't even know what to do in a relationship. I've read HOW TO WIN A GIRLS HEART guides (I'm not bi/lez, but I'm not against it, either.) to figure out to win a girl's heart, to not fall for it. And yet, it helps. My friend-- she's 11, she's not boycrazed. She wants a boyfriend. Trust me, it ain't pretty. My enemy, her parents-- pregnant at 16. It ain't pretty, even her grandparents are only 32. I have to admit, their family are s*uts. I actually feel loud and proud that I don't have a boyfriend. But-- most guys, they hate boy-crazed women. Trust me. This girl is getting new crushes every HOUR, and every man hates her. I'm serious. She thinks she's all cool and gothic, because she painted her nails black. She doesn't even know what goth is. SERIOUSLY. Pretending to be someone or something you're not is an extra and big minus. It's true and you know it. Don't ask to get a boyfriend, no matter what. Let life bring the boyfriends to you. I may want a boyfriend some day, but I'm not boy-crazed and I'm proud to be single. Honestly. Sooo.. and yes, 13 is pretty young to get a boyfriend. Most relationships get broken at that time, you get heartbroken, you don't even have boobs, you stuff 'em to get boys. Weeeelll, that doesn't work. It lessens your rep. Big minis. |
u__u You do NOT want one, I remember my best friend who got a boyfriend in 5th grade and she always got Straight A's, yet..SHE ALMOST GOT HELD-BACK! You're WAY too young! I mean waaaay too young! xP
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Whoa, whoa, slow down. I know people who are 17 and have never had a boyfriend. You don't need a boyfriend, and you aren't going to die if you don't get one.
ARGH. This is a huge pet peeve of mine, when people under the age of 16 freak out/worry because they desperately want a boyfriend/all they want is a boyfriend. It drives me CRAZY. Garhg. |
Cry me a river.
Try being 13, living with your abusive father, and unstable mother, no breasts, and your failing school. "Wanting" a boyfriend is wanting a boyfriend for all the wrong reasons. You don't genuinely "Want" a boyfriend just because. You love someone, than you decide things like this. And quite frankly, just "wanting a boyfriend" gives off the impression of shallow intentions. Eye candy, arm decoration, social status. You're too young to be fretting over this anyway. |
If someone does ask you out, please don't say yes just because you want a boyfriend. But many people don't get a boyfriend at 13, be patient. You will find someone, but maybe not right away, but you will.
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I'm 17 and embarassed to say that I've never had a boyfriend. Your only thirteen and at that age a boyfriend was the last thing on my mind! If you start dating at that age, nothing good will come of it. Maybe a broken heart, maybe not. Just wait till you and guys mature a bit more then put yourself out there.
I'm personally waiting till college since I know all the guys around here and they really don't spark anything with me. Can't say I've ever been in love or had a crush either. |
boys at that age most of the time don't know half about us girls. Just how cute we are or whatever. I mean don't just say yes to the first person to offer.
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Boyfriends aren't all that. Wait till your a bit older :]
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You shouldnt worry... I havent dated yet either and I'm 15. Wait till you find some one that you realy like then ask him out. Dont just get a boyfriend just to have one.
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I Don't Even know why boys are in this world girls can do mainly anything they can do most boys are jerks so why do we even need "boyfriends" we do most of the work while they watch shows. The Only good boys are the ones that actually try.
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Don't worry 'bout it. If you totally forget about it, then you never know, when you least expect it, you might find out someone is interested in you. I remember when I was thirteen (all of...3 years ago xD), and even younger, I daydreamed all the time about my crushes, hoping one would actually ask me out one day. I wound up actually getting the courage to sending them a carnation one year, and I was lucky because he liked me back, but then we started realizing we didn't like each other that way, and we were more of best friends.
But as I see some people have said already, boys are extremely immature at that age. Trust me, wait until they are older, at least a few of them will gain maturity...while others seem to stay young boys forever... My philosophy right now is basically I'm going to wait until college until I get involved in any kind of relationship. But even then, I'll wait until someone actually approaches me. It's not the most important thing in the world, and the older you get, the more you see that. |
I never kissed someone for real until I was 14 1/2... in 9th grade.
Don't be so eager. Seriously. |
Love, please don't fret.
I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I always tell myself I'm too intelligent for the boys from my town :wink: |
hi how is everybody?
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Oh yeah, and think about it this way. Single is better, you're more free to flirt with as many guys as you want! :mrgreen: |
A boyfriend is not something you aquire, it's a person that you get along with first, then move on to something more.
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This might make you feel better:
I'm 18 and still single. It's not oo big of a deal really... dating will only break your heart. |
well, you shouldn't really want one just because. You should want a boyfriend because you know you want to be with them and that there is a purpose of the relationship.
Some people who are young should not be in relationships because it can only hurt themselves and leave them confused. I myself am only 14 and I do have a boyfriend. I did not choose my boyfriend by friends telling me he liked me or anything. I just talked to him and told him about how I felt about him and he told me the same. I took me actually some time to tell him how I felt about him. He had told me that he liked me but I put off whither I wanted to be with him or not until awhile later[[about two months]] made up my mind. Also, I don't allow him to keep me off focus at school and other important things.Nor do I make him do such things for myself. But, he isn't the maturest guy I've known but he isn't too silly or anything. He mostly just acts goofy because thats just how he is and same with me. So if you want a boyfriend, find someone you like to be with, dont be in a rsh, and take your time with love and everything should possibly be right we would hope?^_^; |
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