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Old 09-29-2007, 01:57 PM

For the past few nights, I've been having horrible dreams about my boyfriend and I.
They're all about accidents, death, accidents CAUSING death, him being offended every time I kiss him or hug him, losing eachother...

I understand that they are just dreams.
But they're so bad, and they happen so often, I can't help but to be afraid of them.
They make me so sad. I wake up the next morning, and want to cry.

I don't know if there's anything I can do to stop these bad dreams, but if there is, I'd like to know!

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Old 09-29-2007, 02:09 PM

I feel for you, I have bad dreams all the time but just know they can't hurt you no matter what. I think its best to talk about the dreams coz at least then it gets them out of your head. Try not to freak out about them too much and I am sure things will work out for you and your boyfriend o_0

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Old 09-29-2007, 02:24 PM

Thanks. :]

I might talk to him about them today...
He'd probably just tell me I'm weird, though. xD

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Old 09-29-2007, 03:38 PM

Have you changed your daily routine lately? Nightmares often come from an outside source like eating before you go to sleep, not getting enough exercise, being sick, being on medication, insomnia, stress, or changing your diet. If your body isn't used to a change you've made, it could be reacting by giving you some problems with your REM cycle. If you can figure out what the change was, you could probably stop the dreams.

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Old 09-29-2007, 08:01 PM

I had the exact type of nightmares.
My boyfriend and I losing each other and I end up committing suicide in some of the worst ways afterwards.

They started to go away once I started to think "Nothing like that will happen ever, it's all in my head."
And my boyfriend kept on telling me they're not real.
That helped a lot.
I haven't had those kind of nightmares very often but they still do occur.
(Just last night actually.)

If you believe that something like that will happen then it just might.
Keep on doubting it and don't think twice about them!
You can't let them scare you or they'll win.

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Old 09-29-2007, 08:27 PM

The only thing I've really changed in my daily routine, is staying up later than usual, talking on the phone.

I will try to stop that, and I'll try to forget about the dreams.
I'll try and keep my mind some positive things, haha.

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Old 09-29-2007, 09:28 PM

To go against the grain here in the wave of opinions, maybe you should look at your relationship with your boyfriend. I've had similar dreams and had other stuff happen that were an unconscious result of being upset over my relationship. You should ask yourself if your boyfriend is making you uncomfortable. Some examples would be: if he's trying to pressure you into sex before you're ready, not valuing your opinions, ignoring you, or otherwise treating you in a manner less than that of what you deserve. If none of this is occuring, then it probably is just a random occurance of strange dreams due to a changed daily schedule. <3

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Old 09-29-2007, 09:40 PM


When I was young, my mother continuely had dreams that I would die. She was afraid and nervous all day. She'd been told I would never be born, the doctor's gave me a 1% chance of making it and then I rolled off a counter really young before I should have been able to roll and she could have lost me then as well.

When you fear something very much, you will keep having nigtmares abou it, but that does not mean there is ny truth in them. I'm alive.

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Old 10-06-2007, 06:09 AM

[align=center]but sometimes dreams are also premonitions... >_> just pray so it won't happen iRL...
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Old 10-06-2007, 07:45 PM


Just because you dream of death doesn't necessarily mean that what will happen will happen in that form. Death represents anger and frustration in dreams and usually when a person sees a loved one dying it means that you are lacking a certain quality your partner represents.
I suggest you talk to someone (preferably your boy friend) about your dreams, and if they get worse or your dreams begin to start to control you, seek professional help.

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Old 10-06-2007, 08:36 PM

Rather than a physical cause, have you considered that the source of the dreams may be insecurities in the relationship? Are you afraid of losing your boyfriend, or is there something about him that bothers you? Even if the relationship is good, no relationship is ever perfect. Talk with him, see if there might be some issues whether real or in your own mind that are causing the nightmares.

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Old 10-08-2007, 02:03 AM


insecurities cause your bad dreams.
everyone is fearful of losing the best things going in their lives.
theres nothing you can do to stop the bad dreams.
maybe get a dream catcher,
somehow, i found that it calmed my head a bit.
but i actually got rid of my dream catcher.
i loved having nightmares.
when you wake up, you can be happy the nightmares are not reality.


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Old 10-10-2007, 04:45 AM

My osh, thats horrible!
I've been having pretty bad dreams too..they varry though, from friends leaving me, to my dad trying to kill me, to my fish dieing O 3o"
they're all scary and I usually wake up early in the morning sweating from such dreams..
I have NO Idea how to 'cure' them, I wish I did. I haven't had a good dream for a long time now. D:

Edit: Ah yes, as iViolent said: There the feeling of waking up and knowing its not reality.
As much as I hate having the nitemares, I love the feeling of waking up and just feeling safe. :3

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Old 10-10-2007, 10:01 PM

Hm... I read somewhere that if you have bad dreams, something good is about to happen. Yeah, I don't know if it's true or not, but it's a nice thought.

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Old 10-10-2007, 10:31 PM

  • Im not sure how to make them stop completely. Ive always viewed dreams to be somewhat of a myster to me >______<.

    Maybe youre thinking of something disturbing before you sleep? You could try to listen to something peaceful or watch funny videos before you go to bed =3. Then maybe your dreams will be positive too. Like when I listen to Misfits before I sleep, my dreams arent exactly all that bright xD. So maybe if you reverse it itll work ^^;;

    Good luck :]
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