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Flying Wings 10-13-2007 12:31 AM
WTF? D:<
 
OKAY, I have like 4 friends! THEY HATE EACH OTHER! 2 of them are like,
"I HATE YOU BECAUSE YOU HATE MY FRIEND!" And then at lunch, they get mad at me if I don't sit with them or whatever! u___u AND THEY'RE ARGUING OVER SOMETHING THAT HAPPENED IN SEPERATE MIDDLE SCHOOLS! D<

The other two are like,
"YOU'RE A FRIEND STEALER! DIIIIIIIIEEEE!" I mean literally. And it's the SAME situation! >:F Since I'm not allowed to curse..I'll use the initials: WTF?

I NEED HELP!

Lilim 10-13-2007 12:38 AM
What I'd do... Is tell then we're not in middle school anymore. It's time to learn to share and till then I wont be sitting with any of you! Then I'd go eat by myself XD bring a book to read or something. Thats what I did it seem to all work its self out.

tentenpuff 10-13-2007 12:59 AM

My friend was in a similar situation, but a a much smaller scale...

What if you tried sitting with them every other day until it blows over??
If you sat with two of them Monday, sit with the other two on Tuesdays, etc, etc.

If it doesn't blow over, try talking to them? Tell the first two you really wish you guys could stop with the fighting, etc, then tell it to the other two...
Maybe you could even get them together one lunch and just talk it out?

littleaes 10-13-2007 01:04 AM
The best thing you can do is talk to them about it.

If talking doesn't solve it, I don't know what peaceful communication will. Peaceful communication is always the best solution in these situations. It doesn't always work, but it gets the point across.

And, if worse comes to worse and they won't mellow down, I'd say choose neither and make a whole group of new friends instead, because it's clearly no fair to you. But that doesn't help much. Sorry. ._.

Flying Wings 10-13-2007 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Lilim
What I'd do... Is tell then we're not in middle school anymore. It's time to learn to share and till then I wont be sitting with any of you! Then I'd go eat by myself XD bring a book to read or something. Thats what I did it seem to all work its self out.
XDD Thanks! <3
Tentenpuff-Ooo, that might work. owo
Thanks! <3
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woopdidoodoo 10-13-2007 05:50 PM
Maybe just back away from the problem and try not to be so involved in it otherwise they will all be like who do you like best which will just make you feel bad. I think try to ignore their bitterness and just work out the friendships as evenly as you can.

Zombie Secks 10-13-2007 10:37 PM
  • Yikes.. kinda sounds like something that would happen to me if i stayed in school.

    You should smack the four upside the head, tell them to get their stuff sorted and to work on trying to be friends for your sake and your mental health. Tell them if they don't behave around you atleast then your ditching them and finding new friends.

~Purple Love~ 10-14-2007 12:57 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lilim
What I'd do... Is tell then we're not in middle school anymore. It's time to learn to share and till then I wont be sitting with any of you! Then I'd go eat by myself XD bring a book to read or something. Thats what I did it seem to all work its self out.
agreed, they shouldn't be putting you in the middle of their childish fights, just tell them to grow up, they're not in middle school anymore and if they are too childish to do this then to leave you out of it.

Mizukage Senjiin 10-14-2007 03:26 AM
wow :shock:
I have the same problem! I have one set of friends that hate the other set. I's annoying because all they can do is argue and talk about each other behind their backs. both sides are always like: "Why do you hang out with THEM?" Why can't everyone just get along for once! I hate being in the middle of two groups it sucks.

so yeah I know how you feel. xD

Fetus Cakes 10-14-2007 03:32 AM
That's really pretty immature.
Tell them that a friend is not a possession, therefore it can not be stolen.

Kiralisha 10-14-2007 05:05 AM
Oh, I remember the drama over friends as a young teen. Thank goodness that is over.

Try just talking to them. Getting angry, as they have proven, doesn't work, and both sides are probably making more of this than it actually is. Ask them to explain the issue to you clearly, without insulting the other girls, and try to see if they can reach a solution. They don't have to like each other, but it would be much nicer to you if they didn't argue and fight all the time. After all, this is clearly putting a strain on you and they may not realize how bad it is. As your friends, they can at least take the time to listen and understand.


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