I feel horrible right now, and I don't know what to do about it. I made a friend on Roliana, who hooked me up with my current girlfriend (and yes, I'm a girl... for anyone who couldn't guess. >>) I've been having a lot of dating issues recently, but at the moment, I'm very happy... But...

Right after me and my girlfriend got together, she got dumped by her own. She's really blue now, and I just don't know how to help her. I feel hopeless. It just pains me that now I'm happy, thanks to her, but now she's not.

I don't like seeing people upset. My ex girlfriend was really hurt when she had to leave me... Though I left her first more or less. But she left physically. I'm a little lonely without her, because even if we broke up, she was still a close friend.

I still have some feelings for this one guy I'm trying to get over too... He rejected me already, but I can't seem to stop these feelings from bugging me. I'm hoping they'll be erased over time with the love for my girlfriend. I really do love her so much...

But now here's the question... I'm almost totally happy... But how do I make the one who made me happy become happy as well? Is it even possible?

I sympathize with you. I really do. When I'm happy and my friends aren't, I always want to help in any way I can.

Regardless, you didn't cause what happened to her. All you can do right now is be her friend and a crying shoulder if she needs it. She needs to mend and heal. Friends can help speed the process along though.

Give her a call or something and just let her know you're thinking of her, and that you appreciate all that she did for you in regards to your current relationship. Perhaps tell her that if you could make her situation better, you definitely would. Just talk to her. :)

Good luck!

Hi Ashley, Im so sorry to hear what is going on, *hugs* Look you can always draw her something, you are good at it, and tell her you miss her when she is not, and make her feel special by doing something for her n_n I hope that works, if not I'll think of something else ok? =)

Aww... Well you could always take her out to town, one on one, and just hang out. I would loved to meet her if you lived in the same state as I do, but I doubt that, lol.

It's never good to dump one partner for another. It's never easy and really a crappy thing to do.

I've found that asking someone exactly how they feel works. It's always good to have insight onto how someone is feeling. Sometimes they say they're lonely, or depressed about one thing, but it could be a number of things. Then help them through it. Even if there's not much you can do, giving someone a shoulder to lean on can always be a good start. =]

I feel the exact same way.

My friend hooked me up with my boyfriend. We're both happy as hell, her love life sucks. It's terrible.
Just try to be there for her as much as you can. Be a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen to.

Don't beat yourself up over it, though. You can't help it that she doesn't have someone in her life at the moment. Rest assured that things will get better over time.