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i need help with relationships
im currently dating a guy ive known for a bout three months and ive just dumped a guy ive been dating for three weeks but of all this i still have feeling for my ex before the guy that i dumped and well shit okey my current boyfriend is named TJ my ex in Spencer and my ex before him is Casey Spencer cheated on me so i never want to speak to him again TJ is really nice but i still feel somthing for Casey ive never had any problems with realtionships because ive almost never had a boyfriend casey was my first and we dated for about a year our realtioship was secret because the only way we could ever see each other is when he satyed the night with my brother on the weekends and my brother would be mad at him if he ever found out that his best friend was dating his little sister. Spencer always wanted to talk me into haveing sex but i dont want to do it until im married and ive done pretty well keeping that way. TJ has been really shy for the past four days that weve been dating. ok i still feel something for casey even though he got drunk off his ass and cheated on me i understand that he wasnt in his right state of mind then but it still hurt me and i know he knows it and from what my friends say he still feels somthing for me because of the way he acted when i went to homecoming with my brothers other friend steven. ive never been flirty or anything around guys so i dont know how to act in this situation. im already in high school and i still can barely talk to guys that arent just good friend
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Advice make your story and questions readable. Use periods.
People who say they're drunk when they did something, need an excuse to justify what they did. They probably already had the inclination to cheat on you before they got drunk anyways. Big brothers? do they date men? No...well why listen to them? |
oh my god, please use some periods and something to make the text more readable next time..
but anyway.. I wouldn't suggest being with anyone who has cheated on you.. they wont change, and the fact that he got drunk is no excuse. |
I agree with sagitar...don't be with anyone who has cheated on you...in my book even if they only did it once and 'promise' to never do it again, the relationship is over...that's definitely a, 'no no'
If he's going to act like that while he's drunk, then he shouldn't be drinking. |
Advice.
Yeah, that was a really hard to read post, no periods made it extremely confusing. Your brother should not have any say in who you choose to date, whether it's one of his friends or not. You shouldn't have to keep a relationship secret because of anyone. That's pretty much allowing your brother to control your life. Like everyone else here said, getting drunk is no excuse for cheating on you. Just because he was drunk doesn't mean he lost complete control to the point that he cheated on you. He was still sober enough to have sex, therefore, he could have chose not to. Getting drunk is just an excuse people use so they can get away with things like that. Don't let people use that excuse on you.
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i am very sorry for not using periods. im in computer class and i only had like five minutes to finish the post before the bell rang.
thank you for your advice i think i should stay with the guy im with and try not to think about casey. |
Don't hang out with guys that cheat... It's not good.
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I'm sorry, but that hurt my brain. Please divide it into sentences and I'd be happy to help.
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Hey if you need any help with any future relationships just let me know . K?
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