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Lo\/eShrin|< - ADVICE <33
I don't know if I'm allowed to do this, but I'm going to do it. Stop me, if you want! (Don't worry, I know I'm a newb but I'll give you some good, wise advice <3)
When I was younger - think grades 6-8 - I was confronted with ALL of my friends seeking advice. Everyone fell around me with problems and worries and apparently I was the one to help them out. In grade nine, my friends only wanted people to listen, to let them vent to. I realized that not everyone wants clear advice, they may want to a simple shoulder to lean on. That's why I'm giving you the choice! Below, you can choose what you want: advice or a shoulder. Please give what you want under Type, and I'll be sure to comply. I know it would be weird to trust a stranger with your ideas, but that's why I have an easy-to-use-form. I understand if you don't use me, because I'd do the same. Code:
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I'm actually not super sure if that's allowed either, but I personally think it's a pretty good idea. :)
I have many problems...I may be back later to seek some much needed advice. <3 |
Thanks for the support and I hope I won't need to help you.
I mean that in the best way. xD |
lol yeah, I just have a lot of stupid things going on my life right now...nothing that's like OMG horrible I'm going to die or my mom is going to die...or my family is broke...I think of those as REAL problems, my problems are dumb things like school....but w/e. It's nice to have advice sometimes. <3
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Oh, don't worry. I don't discriminate ^^ Come to me with whatever you need. After all, every problem counts! I agree that school isn't as big a deal as your mother dying, I'm glad she isn't, but don't hesitate to rant.
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I'm good at giving advice as well. You're the second person to make a thread(No I didn't make one XD) Personally, I think someone should make an advice thread and have four or five people on there that help give advice. That way you get different opinions...Unless they all agree.
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Oh, am I? Well, that's funny. ^^ I didn't know at all. I think The advice thread is a good idea, everyone needs variations, after all!
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Ha, I have access to your -actual- shoulder. In fact, it's like thirty centimetres away from me at this current point in time.
The multiple-person thread sounds like a good idea. I... actually do have a question to ask you, but I think I will just do it at lunch. xP harrt. |
Oh, I got this message late. o: Please, ask me! I didn't even think you could, after all, I dashed off pretty quickly. <33
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Oh, I had my Math thing, anyway. T'was tres terrible, but fairly easy. I shall talk to you about it on Monday during one of the rare moments when the teacher shuts her face~
Edit: Actually, I'm just going to ask you. xD Okay, so me and Erin, right? You sort of know a bit about us xD Do you think it's too intense and creepy and WEIRD of me to get her a little something on the thirteenth, 'cause I asked her out on the thirteenth of November? P: I do not want to be a weird clingy girlfriend who is too intense about the relationship. C: okay, that is all, see you Monday xD |
Hmm... this thread sounds interesting, I don't know if its allowed as such but I don't see why it shouldn't be really. I might hang around and see what advice you give out and then I might actually ask for some advice as I am having some issues right now. So hI to thready, I will be back
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Dear Satah <33,
I know what you mean! Okay, I think that remembering a one-month-anniversary is important, but not as important as everybody thinks. Something small wouldn't be weird, but remember the keyword. Small. You don't want to come off as obsessive, but you do want to show you care, it's important to any relationship. Maybe a small bracelet or candy! Most people are flattered to be doted on, especially if it's little, cute things like toffee or their favourite coloured ear-rings. Humbly, Lo\/eShrin|< Thanks for the greeting, Woopdidoodoo. xP Glad to have some support. |
I always like to support
my fellow Menwshans where and when I can. I hope your thready goes well anyways |
o: Yay, good, that's what I was thinking. <3 Even though she already knows I'm a bit creepy and weird and intense, I don't want to be too much so. C:
Thank you dahlink~ Good luck with your thread. C: |
Enamor,
here is my problem, my mother thinks my fiance is too old for me. He is ten years older than I am but we are on the same wavelength and totally understand each other. I live with him, he is 33 and I am 23 and I am very mature for my age, always have been so never liked dating guys around my age. So do you think I should worry about what my mother thinks or just be happy with how we are? cheers, woop |
Dear Woop,
I think you're mother cares for you. That may not be what you want to hear, but she's only looking out for your well-being. Remember, she loves you and is simply afraid the age difference could hurt you. Keep that in mind when you explain to her how you feel. This should be done carefully and respectfully. Say that you understand how she feels, but you really do love him and don't think the age difference matters when you know who he is and how you feel about him. If she still disagrees, let her know you'll marry him either way. You certainly should. If your mother dissaproves, she may be right, but what's really important is how you feel about him. Not her. Go get him! I hope it helps, Lo\/eShrin|< |
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