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HIM_ROCK has a love issue
So I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years, we met on holiday and because we live quite a long way from each other we haven't met up because neither of us has any money. So anyway we keep in contact via email and IM services and normally most of the time we're just telling each other how much we love the other. But recently he just doesn't seem bothered about talking to me. This probibly sounds like a really stupid problem. But I don't know if he still feels the say way as I feel about him.
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Maybe you should talk to him about it? And..it's possible that you are thinking these things because you aren't as in love with him.
You could try spicing the relationship up. Give him pictures of you in sex clothing, roleplay dates, stuff like that.. Well..Of course, the first one is only okay if you are old enough to do that XD |
yeah hunni, best thing to do is probably just to talk to him about it
ive been in long distance relationships before myself, and you may find out he's a lot quieter coz he's bummed out why would he be bummed out? coz he cant be there with you in person... tis kinda what it sounds like to me, just ask him <3 :) |
I think it could be because I'm really insicure and after what I've been through this year I don't trust people very much. I'll email him now seeing as he's offline.
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i personally know exactly what you're going through. i had a long distance relationship before as well. the problem is that very few long distance relationships work out because you can't be with each other physically. mine was basically us just talking through AIM everyday and realizing that we weren't acting any differently then when we were friends. i would personally suggest talking it out with him and see what he really wants. because relationships have to be both sided. whether you guys stay together or just be friends depends on what you want and what he wants
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I think another thing could be that nearly all my friends have had bad relastionships and most of the time they come to me for advice. One of my friends kinda of did boyfriend hopping she went through quite a few guys in a few months, another of my friends nearly got used and one of my closest friends had a boyfriend who was just using her as a bit on the side of a relationship he was already in.
Well I've emailed him and now I just have to wait for a reply. |
Relationship.
It could just be a phase. I went through something like that with my boyfriend. We met online and about a year or more into the relationship I felt like the whole thing was impossible and that we'd never see each other in real life. I got bored with "hugging and kissing" in IMs and wouldn't do it for a while. I just felt frustrated, bored, and fed up with the whole thing. But I got over it pretty quickly. I don't know if he ever even noticed it at all. Your boyfriend might just be upset that he never gets to see you.
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Now, now. Don't jump to conclusions.
He could just be upset about something, or possibly very busy. Talk to him before getting all scared that he doesn't love you anymore. |
Maybe he kind of sees it if he is only
talking to you then he will just miss you or something and so he doesn't want to talk to you as much if he is only going to miss you out of it, or maybe he isn't just a big talker or something. I think you could write him letters and that might help you become more connected, I did that when I had a long distance relationship and I got to know him really well through doing that so perhaps give that a try, either way I hope it works out for you ^^ |
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