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Er, you know...I think I'm starting to agree with her. Most guys who pray that they love you on the net in the end have you wrestled and pinned onto the floor and shirtless. o-o
So eh...maybe real guys are more assuring. Yo know the ones that you actually know face to face? I'm sure there are lots of guys out there that will never take advantage of you and are equally nice. The catch is to get them before another girl does. That happened to me, and now I want to beat that girl senseless. Or maybe I'm jealous? I don't know. he didn't say he liked the girl either. So i'm pretty neutral about this. People who HAVE nice boyfriends are so lucky though. |
Greta, your 15 your emotions and feelings at this stage are a new experience to you, but think of your age, i don't think your ready for a commitment, focus on school, get and education focus on your life, and where you want to be in life, it may be too much to ask but you have to learn about yourself once you understand and love yourself, then you can look for a love, there is no need to rush just have fun for now.
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Well....!!
For one, yes you are definitely too young to get married...I am 19 and I am not ready to get married in the least. And it may not be because you are immature or too young...but more so about the relationship that you have with bob, money etc... First, you have not met bob...there are so many cheaters and scammers out there. Yes you did talk to him on the phone, good for you, but for all you know he is a great guy who wants to 'marry' you. But in reality he could really be some creepy old guy trying to trick you. And you can say no bob wouldn't do that, but young girls like yourself are tricked every day into 'meeting' someone and they getting attacked and raped etc...Before you even CONSIDER saying yes, you NEED to meet bob face to face...and usually I'm really against this sort of thing, but if you 'love' him like you say that you do...which from the looks of it I think it may just be lust or an obsession. And if you DO decide to meet him then make sure that your mom or dad goes with you. Just incase he does turn out to be some kind of freak....you honestly never know. Second, do you have a full time job and are finished with college? If you two are married then obviously you'll want to live together, can you support yourself as well as another person, don't count on bob being the one that provides for you. First step back and see what you have saved up in the bank and say...do I have enough money to get my own apartment, pay the rent, bills etc...you don't even drive yet. You MIGHT be taking drivers training but you can't even think about getting a drivers license until you're 16...you're 15. In my personal opinion this is a huge mistake...What do you parents (mom/dad/guardian) think about this? If they don't know, tell them. |
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