My boyfriend moved a couple a months to Florida and won't tell me much, plus his next door neighbor is his ex-girlfriend who spends way to much time in his house, I kinda trust him but not her so, Please Help.

Wow. That must be annoying. Do you have any friends or does your boyfriend have any siblings? Maybe you can ask them if anything is going on but don't seem to snoopy because your boyfriend probably won't like that...

He doesn't trust his family and the only person who lives but not near him is his cousin but we don't talk.

If I ask one of his friends at the campus or family members they go and tell him everything. I know sometimes what happens around there because his ex- girlfriend posts it in her Journal. And some days ago I posted a thread with the same topic as this one at another site where one of his friends saw it and replied on it and later on told him about the thread, he went to the thread and acted like a third person.

Well then just read her Journal for updates. If she talks about something that apparentally happenned between them that you didn't/wouldn't like call you boyfriend and tell him your worries. Or better yet call him up and tell him your worried about waht;s happenning between them. Say that you wat him to tell you that nothing's happenning between them. Show him that you trust his word but are worried about the possibilities.

This is sad I think your boyfriend should give you a feeling of security on this since he loves you and he supposedly wants you to feel alright and not obsessive, it is him the one that needs to act on your behalf and be better bf than ever so you dont suffer, otherwise he can just break up and continue with his life, but if he really loves you then he has to talk to you about everything and take care of you A LOT in this situation...I hope everything goes alright girl, good luck

why doesn't he tell you much? god I'd hate that kinda situation.. I agree with Trinity, he should deffinitely tell you all about what's going on to make you feel secure and to let you know you can trust him.

One, how old are you and how long have you been together?
In all honestly unless you have been together a while, plan to stay together and have had your share of relationships long distance isn't the way to go. My boyfriend and I are splitting when he moves away for work and just going to do the friend thing until he comes back, and see how things go from there.
In all honestly unless you two have a very dedicated long term relationship you can't expect him to keep seeing you and keeping you up to date on everything that goes on in his life. I'm saying splitting it off would probably be best for both of you, is he even planning on moving back? And how far away do you live? Do you ever go to visit or offer too?

Well we're both 20,I live in Puerto Rico,we've been together for 6 months.And he left to study in Florida on December.And I did offer to go there if he could not come back to visit.

Honestly Linda, I've heard he "I trust him but not her" thing a billion times and either he can be trusted or he can't. If he won't tell you anything that's going on in his life, he might be trying to hide something. Have you asked him any direct questions or do you just ask what's going on with him? I'm not trying to make you paranoid or feel like you shouldn't trust your boyfriend, I'm stating things I've learned from my own experiences and other people's. If you really want to find out something, try direct questions, if he is evasive he is hiding something. I hope things work out for you.

Unfortunately, the only advice I can offer is to be open with boyfriend about how you feel and to trust your instincts.
If you feel something is going on and you can't shake the feeling, regardless of what he says, something needs to be done.
I've actually had this problem with my boyfriend. He was going to school in the town that I lived in, but he was staying with his ex at the school during the week. I HATED it!! He didn't do anything wrong, in terms of being faithful and all, but I wasn't allowed to have the number so I couldn't even get a hold of him if I needed to. Then he started giving up time with me to do things with her: there was a show that he liked and I kind of liked to, but he wouldn't watch it with me because "they watch it together." So that was an hour that I could have had with him and didn't get to because he chose to watch it with her.

I can't tell you what to do about your boyfriend. He's your boyfriend, it's your feelings, it's your decision. I can tell you this though: my boyfriend is moving in June to go to a law school-the SAME law school that she is at-and we're breaking up because I decided the moment I found out she was there that I was done with the whole situation.

I hope that you and your boyfriend can work something out, and that things go well for you.

I would talk to him and make sure that you are correct and hes still in love with you. Assure him of your love and try to talk to him everyday, whether it be on the phone or internet. I have a boyfriend who lives in Ohio. that is over 6 hrs away from me. we still manage to see each other every so often when he isnt working and i dont have any projects for school. i think perseverance and trust in him is the best way to go right now.

I agree with Cho Cho. It's hard to be in a long distance relationship and I hate the be the bearer of bad news, but it doesn't sound like this is going to go anywhere. You have to have absolute trust in someone to know that they won't try to cheat on you, and if you suspect he's cheating on you then I don't think that's happening. Minor qualms about your relationship can quickly get out of hand and make everything fall apart. It might be better if you just broke it off now, y'know?
Good luck.

If you trust him, then i dont think anything can happen =/