Hello there, dear users of Menewsha.
Lately I've been pretty upset.

At school I have a close group of friends like most people do. There's like eight people I'm really close to & we all sit together in the morning.
Lately, this one friend has been very mean//rude. :|
she's 4'10" with very few muscles, but a really snappy bossy attitude.
This morning Alex & I got into a heated discussion about whether a moose or a bobcat would hurt my dog worse. ]:
She's on the other end of where we sit, we're using like basically, below inside speaking voices.
She starts yelling at us.
She said we argue over stupid things.
She's the one that argued about if a tomato was a fruit of vegetable with her five year old step-brother while melting a giant toy truck in a bonfire. :|
Alex & I were discussing living in the mountains or Canada & I was worried about my dogs security.
So yeah.
Annoyed at that.

Mad at my art class for making us weave baskets.

Tired of dad telling me I'm ugly & I'm not good at anything I try. :|
Mad at my mom for trying to get me to do dishes when I only eat at school and my friends house.
Plus there's meat stuck to the plates. I've been a vegetarian for seven years, it's obvious that I don't eat their dinners.
Plus I do the dusting & laundry.
My other sister doesn't do anything & she has a cellphone, $80 jeans, expensive purses, fails most of her core classes & they don't care.
I get a C & they take away my paints. :|

Do you guys get angry over how people treat you?

I am so sorry that is happening to you.
Luckily I only live with my mother, who is a decent one.
My boyfriend has somewhat the same problem.
He always has to do so many chores, and his mom sits around.
Once she called him from her cell phone to the home phone.
While she was in her bedroom, laying in bed, to go upstairs and turn off HER bedroom light.
>__>; Sometimes she really gets my goat.
Especially now she's saying he doesn't hang out with friends too much.
And always blackmails him to do things because of me.
"You won't be able to talk to her if you don't.
You won't be able to see her if you don't do this.
Do this and I'll let you go over."

>_< People like that should be smacked upside the head.
Really.

I get annoyed at work. There are so many double standards there it's not even funny. My bosses son works there and he never has to do anything. He just stands around downstairs in the back room playing with his cell phone for his whole shift. His dad always scedules him on the morning shift too and schedules someone else 12-8 just he can send his son home early.

But then I get yelled at for stupid things. The other day I got yelled at for doing a type of special order that we're not actually allowed to do anymore. Well NO ONE told me it's no longer allowed until after I do it. I always get stuck running the register for my whole shift. I also get yelled at for being late. I am late quite a bit, but it's never by a very large amount of time. One of my coworkers was like five hours late once. He's almost always on time but when he is late it's by a LARGE margin.

I feel bad for complaining about this since I am 24 and I still live at home but I sleep in the living room and no one is very considerate of my sleeping patterns. I actually have a real medical condition that prevents me from going to sleep at an early time so I stay up at night. I'm very quiet though. I make sure I am not waking anyone up. But bright and early in the morning when I'm the one trying to sleep no one bothers to keep their voice down. It's very frustrating.

Wow, your friend sounds like this girl I used to go to school with. Same hight and bossy attitude! She would pretend to be peoples' friend, then stab them in the back. Eventually no one liked her. I ended up punching her because she made me so mad and was so small, but that doesn't really solve things, so I'm not suggesting it. XD What I do suggest, is if she is going to be bossy and mean, is just stop being her friend. People like that don't need friends if they're just going to treat everyone badly.

I do get annoyed by how people treat me. But maybe they have reasons why they treat us that way. Maybe they are tired, annoyed of other people as well or have secret problems they didn't tell you. It's a wonder why your friend changed right? Maybe you should try to think if your friend is gong through some problem.

Originally Posted by joih

I do get annoyed by how people treat me. But maybe they have reasons why they treat us that way. Maybe they are tired, annoyed of other people as well or have secret problems they didn't tell you. It's a wonder why your friend changed right? Maybe you should try to think if your friend is gong through some problem.

I know her grandfather is dying, that's about it.
Other than that her life seems easy.
Her car was payed for by her grandmother, her mom gives her gas money whenever she wants, & she has a cellphone that she doesn't have to pay for.

I wish my grandfather was alive this long, actually, no I don't. He had alzheimer's so bad that he was basically like a 6'5" tall infant. He would've just been miserable. :x

I see. Did she see her grandfather differently? Did she care for him? Maybe she's just acting like she's not bothered but she actually is that's why she's being annoying. You may see her grandfather that way but she may not see it in the same way. If you are really her friend, I think you should support her when she has a problem.

In case it is not based on her problem. All I can say is that people have moods so they can bitch out from time to time.

...why is your parents being so unfair to you o.o That is horrible >.< Gah, gah gah, hearing that makes me mad =[ I don't know what to tell you since i have never experience such thing T__T

I'm sorry. That has to be really hard, especially if it's all happening at the same time.
But you're not alone in a lot of it. I've had friends just as annoying and stupid. And my Mom was all about making me do dishes (she made me do dishes when I wasn't even living there, I had just come over to visit!)while she never made my little sister do anything.

All I can say is that I'm truly sorry and I hope things get better for you.

w0w it really sounds as if you are having a really stressful time at home at the moment. I think this is normal family behavior though but I think if things get too tough you should be able to have someone to talk to and vent to properly. I have had similar things happen with my family and friends and in the end with family I have found that just trying to get my own space and time to myself has helped alot. I hope that you can talk to your mum about your problems though. My sister and I don't get along and so I moved out because I was the one who had to do basically all of the housework because mum made me and everyone else was just too damned lazy too do anything about the mess they now live in. I ended up moving out of home (but saying that I am 23 years old) so I think what you need to do is try to work out who you can trust and talk to them and just be yourself and do what you normally do, theres sadly not much you can change I don't think

I get annoyed at stuff like that too - and I'm actually very similar to you. My dad used to tell me the same thing - when I come home from college my mom makes me clean the whole house...when I don't live there. But there are times that I just have to suck it up and go with it you know?

You could try talking to your parents about your concerns.

and as for your friend - perhaps she isn't as good a friend as you thought? I knew people like that - they are my friend but then all of a sudden start to get annoyed at everything I do...so I hate to say it -but we just stopped talking. D: It was bad at first - but after we stopped hanging out - I felt so much better.

What does she want you to do, have a fully organized debate about nuclear weapons? I don't know about you, but as a junior in highschool, I tend to discuss stupid things with my friends. It's kind of what we do. Furthermore, she wasn't even in the conversation, so it's really none of her business, and if she doesn't want to hear it, really, she can just go somewhere else. It reminds me of one of my friends, who's not really my friend... >.>

I sympathize with you. There is no justice at my house either. I'll admit I probably don't have it as bad as you, but it's still not a great example of the justice system. My younger siblings get away with so much more than I do that it's unreal. My sister talks back to my mother with no reserve and has no respect for other people's property. She's disrespectful on the whole and doesn't take other people into account at any time. But she doesn't get reprimanded for anything, because she totally freaks out about it. My brother gets physically violent with us, throwing things and pushing and such, and he's a big kid for his age. He also loves the verbal abuse >.> And I think he's failing a couple of his classes.. but he still goes out with his friends and spends all his time playing video games. I'm no saint myself, but I'd like to think I turned out better than my siblings, as far as children go.
I'm lucky though. My parents try to support me in everything I do, so I'm grateful for that.