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Old 03-22-2008, 07:02 AM

i Think im Starting to Like One of My Best friends.
But He Sings.
And lives in another State.
Sure We still talk on cells Sometimes But Hes Been Busy now.

I Did tell Him i liked Him. and when we talked alot He started to like Me To but i pushed him away Because i knew Hed Get busy With His Band.

So Mene Friends. D: how would you handle this?

[And to Anyone this Isnt my ex. o.o]

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Old 03-22-2008, 07:14 AM

I THINK I KNOW WHO YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT? 8D

Hmm.

Like in what way?

You better learn to put things into perspective. I noticed from our talks you have a tendency to just jump into things that make you feel good and warm. It's not a a bad thing but really---I'm also like that. At the sign of being loved and needed, I jump and offer it all.

Unfortunately that's not a very good strategy either.

Remember "Just because they're kind doesn't mean they love you."

: /

And it's so easy to mistake this for the other and such.

Just take things in strides.

Are you sure you like him for what he is or for what he makes you feel?

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Old 03-22-2008, 07:22 AM

Rofl -pats head.
xD

Well. Lets say Hes Better then alot of guys ive met.
and im Not all. "omfg i love him so much"
But its Just that Feeling i think im Starting to.
itll prob Fade But idunno. n_n the more he sings the more i want him to myself. xD
but he did say he liked me thats when i pushed him away.
and for the last Question im not sure from my last break up im no sure what to think about love xD

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Old 03-22-2008, 08:01 AM

You see...

The problem with people when they're fresh from heart ache is that they tend to cling to the first thing that makes them feel good.

And when they do plunge into new relationships all too soon without being sure they're done and over with what has passed, they are actually taking advantage and perhaps hurting their new partners without knowing it.

You know what 'Rebounding' means right?

It's a basketball term but it's also being used in the realm of romance and dating.

It means...

When you don't make it, you look for an elsewhere, an alternative to make up for the loss.

That's why people do not advise you to go into relationships right away if you're not fully healed or at least over the guy/girl of your previous relationship yet.

Other than rebounding, there's also the danger of just wanting to be in a relationship to prove maybe to yourself or others that you're still sellable. Still worth it---since some people when they've been dumped feel so worthless and being with someone means someone actually cares and would still want them.

I would want for you to think about it deeply now.

Don't rush.

._.

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Old 03-22-2008, 08:02 AM

Aww... *hugs* I fell in love with my best friend ^^ and it's online... and she does sing (which also makes me want her more cause it's so pwetty)

But we're taking it slow... waiting until she's 18 before we decide to "date" or anything...]]So yeah... I know how you feel but just take it all slow... ^^

Also, have you met him in person? Because if not... you might want to take it even slower as to make sure you really do know each other...

Hope everything comes out the way you want it to ^^

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Old 03-22-2008, 08:05 AM

Kaze; Nope.
to scared and shy
-_-;
and thank you though. -cuddlesnuggle. <3

white;
well the weird thing is.
I guess were two people May/could like another But Never date.
-shrug.
i know ima take it slow for him though
but i havent been Thinking about it Lately when he sent me this one text msg -will tell you in Msg.

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Old 03-22-2008, 08:05 AM

Oh god, I know what you mean by the more he sings the more you want him. The voice is just so 'attractive' and makes you all warm and fuzzy. :oops:

And that last question that whitebeast said is quite good. I ask that to myself often on my relationship.

Well I'll say, we only have one life. So we should live it to the fullest don't have any regrets of what you didn't do, those are the worst in my opinion. If you think he's better then the rest, then why let him pass on by as just friends? But there are also a thing that you want to keep him as a friend and not loose him that way. ;x

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Old 03-22-2008, 08:08 AM

Ailyse;
Hes a good Guy.
;3
i dont even like him for his singing though.
Yes its Sweet to hear but eh.
i like him for himself. >__>

Hes Friends With His Ex's though. xD
so i wouldnt have to worry abot loosing him ^^

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Old 03-22-2008, 08:09 AM

You know?

One of the things I love about him is his voice too.

I haven't heard him sing but he sounds so deep and...husky. I like listening to it. I feel like I'm listening to a local version of Akira Ishida or something when I hear him speak.

And his laugh? I love it.

Knowing how stressed and paranoid, easily worried he is, I feel it's such a break to hear him laugh, Lacy. @[email protected]

I don't know if I should encourage you or not but:

You may not be okay for dating now but who knows in the future right?

But seriously?

I want you to heal first.

I would suggest that you start fixing and helping yourself, make yourself whole first. Love and care, look out for yourself first.

You can't give something that you don't have.

: /

Is there a Lacy you can give and share with him given that you go into a relationship or would it all be about admiring and being entranced about the light that is your Singer?

...Is so tempted to say 'Lunar Bard' since he sings and Lunar is a reference to 'Moon'

*cough*

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Old 03-22-2008, 08:17 AM

shush whitei dont want anyone knowing his band name
o_O

I dont think ill get over My Ex though. lmao he Made me happy alot x_x
lmao you know what sucks? He tryed his BEST to get me to stop crying when i told Him My ex Cheated on me and Broke Up with me.

sure He made me feel safe but When i Talk to him I sure do smile alot and you know from my past problems thats a rare thing o.o i dont wanna date either right now. and im not sure about future. i got Fucked Badly this time. <.<
well you know what. o.o i really wished he didnt sing. i get jealous Because i cant see If Hes hurt while hes singing and i never know if hes okay or not. ><

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Old 03-22-2008, 08:20 AM

Wait a minute.

How many ex boyfriends are we talking about? XD;

Can you be specific?

I'm...getting confused.

O.o

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Old 03-22-2008, 08:28 AM

explaining in msg.
>__>

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Old 03-22-2008, 08:54 AM

No no... I'm confused.

About just how many guys are we talking about.

There's the Ex.

Who is comforting you regarding your Ex.

Then the singing one.

HOW MANY GUYS ARE THERE?!

O_o

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Old 03-22-2008, 09:01 AM

Two. XD

the ones i told you in msg.
Btw white am ganna sleep. n__n <3
its four in the morning :/

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Old 03-22-2008, 09:04 AM

So there's the first boyfriend... who is now the ex boyfriend.

The more recent ex is the one you don't want to be around with and the first boyfriend is comforting you about the more recent case.

Then there's the singer who you think you're falling for.

GOT IT. THREE GUYS.

Okay that makes more sense to me.

GOOD NIGHT. GO GET SOME SLEEP GIRL. We shall talk more later. <3

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Old 03-22-2008, 07:05 PM

oh fuck it.
My Ex is Seriphy Aka septimus/sam.
-.- Nate = Singer.

xD.

Nate is the one who was helping me that night.

and im up.
people kept calling my cell which ticked me off.
n__n.

 


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