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In Need of a Little TLC...
My twin brother just called me gay and told me to throw myself in front of a truck this morning...
Why? Because I asked him if he could do the vaccuuming. I'd done the dishes, washing and swiffering... All he had to do was vaccuum two carpets. ;~; I feel sad now... ;^; |
How old is your brother?
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Same age as me.
15 in September. T-T |
Tell him to go play in traffic. Maybe throw in some insult about the size of his manhood. e_e
You shouldn't let things like that get to you. n.n |
Well i am about that age i am 16 And i also get this pissed off feeling for no reson and it isn't pretty i hate it sometimes my parents do as little as ask me how my day was then i just loose my head, it sucks cause they didn't do anything, and neither did you he is just blowing off some steam and he can't control it you just gotta stay calm and he will calm down, trust me.
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@Burnt- Hehe.
Naw, I couldn't do that, then I'd feel bad or get in trouble from my parents. He's the angel child... @Mamoru- I'll try that. I guess he was just really upset about something. ;~; Still, it was pretty mean. |
My brother is much the same. Only he's been that way all of his life and I'm afraid will always be because he's ADHD and dislikes being asked questions because he gets confused at most times. Even when I come to claim my turn on the computer he glares at me and sometimes before I even say anything he says "Fuck Off" to me. It's bloody annoying and we used to get in physical fights a lot. Literally beat the crap out of each other fights. My life was bliss when he lived with my dad for five years but he's back now. He will be returning and then I'll be back in said bliss without having to tip toe around or avoid him.. I'm scared for my kitten though... he gets angry very easily. And when my kitten wants to play.. he can play very rough and I fear my bro will hit him or injure him in some way. :( |
WTF? Kick him in the nuts! No, but seriously, don't listen to him, he's obviously immature. Have a cookie! *gives*
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My brother says stuff like that to me all the time - I just have to learn to ignore it - it works a lot better than getting all riled up and depressed about it (something I used to do), believe me.
You could ignore him until he apologizes if you want? Or just pretend nothing happened and that what he said didn't affect you at all. |
That sounds like something any sibling would say to another. I'm sure my brother and I said similar things to each other when we were young. Just ignore him, or ask him if something is bothering him.
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I know it's tougher when you're twins because you really do get a sort of bond as you grow up. But let me say this brothers and sisters WILL fight. Especially when you get into your teens years - that's when twins tend to go their seperate ways for the first time. I actually know this because my cousins were twins and she and him started to grow apart once they reached high school.
That, and because he's fifteen, he's going to behave that way because it's "funny" and "insulting" to tell someone their "gay." It's an immature thing that most guys go through. My older brothers use to harrass the crap out of me and I got really upset. You just gotta' remember to let it go and I don't bother reminding him of what HE needs to do, just do what YOU'RE supposed to do and let your parents deal with him not doing things. Don't give him any reason to try and provoke anger out of you. |
That's like my little brother. He is quick to just throw insults like there is no tomorrow. He is quick to use any and everything against you to make you hurt. That's dying down a bit with me being in college and him never being home anyway >.>;
Actually, I can lead this back to psychology! In the brain, there is a spot called the amygdala. Basically, it is part of the brain that controls judgment. In the teenage years, it is still developing and can sometimes cause such behavior like your brother's behavior. It's part of the reason that teens and adults don't really think alike.</digression> It would probably be a good idea to go with what Estrella was saying, just worry about what you need to do. |
There's nothing wrong with being gay. :?
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Throw some creative insults at him and ignore him for a few days until he's over it, or faces up to his responsibility of doing his chores ;3
Unfortunately with siblings, their immaturity and arrogance is something you'll have to deal with from time to time ^_^;; |
God...sounds like he woke up on the wrong side of the bed. Maybe the best thing to do when he acts like that would be to just ever so subtly make a kind comment about his amazing maturity? ;)
It IS pretty normal for teenagers to be immature, but all that for being asked to vacuum two rugs is pushing it. Maybe you should have asked him if he was PMSing. That might have given him a good shock. XD |
Hmm. Is there carpet in his bedroom? Just plug the vacuum in in his bedroom, then scatter a bunch of stuff all over the floor. XD Like, I dunno, cheerios or something.
That'll get him to vacuum.... XD |
just stay calm...
i am sure he was just angry or something... just try to talk to him... and if it doesn't work.. ignore him.... |
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