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omg!!!!! misunderstanding
ok thers this guy that iv been friends with for 3 years now and one day we were talking on the phone and i had to go and i say " ok go to go luv ya bye" but heres the this he likes me alot....alot alot and i think i sent the wrong message when i sayed that i think of him as a littlie bro im older then him...so then at school everyone was all like you go out w/ jeff im like wtf how told you that there like jeff did so now im creeped out and thinking to myself why would he say something like that after school i asked him about it and he sayed "you dont rember last night you sayed i love you bye" me>"yah so" him"earlyer that day i ask you out " me> :shock:"oh i didn't mean for you to take it that way im sorry(( and i didn't hear himask me out))" he hasn't talked to me after that i think i lost a friend what should i do?? |
I've had to deal with the awkwardness of telling a few of my guy friends I only want to be friends; it's not a fun situation. ^^; Just explain to him how you feel exactly and apologize for the misunderstanding. It's understandable he wants some space, but if you really are good friends you'll pull through.
Lucky for me one of them got himself a girlfriend shortly after that, so he quickly moved on. :3 |
He obviously took it the wrong way. You need to explain the situation to him.
Also, don't throw the word "love" around so easily. Thats the main reason it was a misunderstanding. |
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He's a guy. A lot of them misunderstand. Especially if you say the word "love" It's like you gotta be careful who you say what to.
Just explain that it was a misunderstanding. That's really the best thing you can do. |
Well... one thing about the word "love" is to some people it can mean absolutely nothing at all, mean the world to them, or anything in between.
Just maybe try explaining to him that you meant it like a friend? |
yah ok ill call him now hope hes home ...hope he picks up the phone XP
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Tell him that your really sorry but you don't look at him in that way. Also maybe tell him your hurt that your not talking any more and you would still like to be friends.
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*shrug* Guy was sensitive. Talk to him and get things straight. No matter what. :D
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Well, I was going to come in and give an overly-long, flowery and detailed post on how to fix your problem. ... But everyone beat me to it. Dxx So I'll just repeat; even though you may say "I love you." to your guy friends (or girl friends) all the time, it's not exactly wise to say it to someone who likes you as more then a friend. Not calling you unwise or stupid or anything! Just saying; because I did that once with one of my guy friends two years ago- -holds up fingers- And he took it the wrong way. Luckily he's pretty understanding, so he just shrugged it off and said that deep inside I had the hots for him and some day I'd realize it. LOL. Funny one he is. Anyhow; just try and explain to him nicely that you didn't mean it. And if that doesn't work; fill his locker/pigeon-hole/school bag with cookies and muffins. Coz no-one can resist cookies. Or muffins. I just realized that this post actually was quite long, maybe not detailed or flowery; but very long. So I'll shut up now. -shuts up- |
0.0 wow look at her go ~looking at Valkyrie_Valentine~ oh i forgot to tell you guys i didn't know he liked me like that >.< but i called him and were friends now were going to the mall on tommrow ^-^ thx guys
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Sadpanda::
Oh, dear! I've got almost the same problem! (I'm a girl) |
( I had to re-read your post..May I kindly suggest using punctuation in the future? :sweat:)
I suggest that you just sit the guy down and tell him exactly how you feel and sort out the whole thing. |
Try and talk to him to see if he really is avoiding you because of that.
But you shouldn't toss the word "love" around like that, I know someone that did and because of that she got me and a bunch of other people invovled with her, now everyone hates her guts. But yeah, just see if that IS the reason he's not talking to you |
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