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Why can't I just be happy with it?
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Aaaand it goes back to the boyfriend issue. :< Only, for a completely different reason. (I got over my mistrust of him fairly quickly, actually.) But now I'm just being a pessimist. >> I have a really sweet boyfriend who I talk to a lot and I like him, a lot. But all I can ever think of is the fact that we're fifteen and bound to break up sooner or later, and I can't just focus on being happy with him now. I'm scared to get too close to him. ;w; Why can't I just be happy with what I have? :< |
Well, 4 months is a little hard to tell. Someone had once said to me that you usually "know" about a guy. But I don't know.. I'd give it some time really. Thankfully, you have a nice guy who'll stop when asked.
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After only four months, when you've already broken up once? No, don't trust him. By the way, pinning you down on the bed etc leads to bigger things a lot faster than you think. Honestly I think you should find someone else, but that's just my opinion.
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I think that you should sit down and just talk to him about how you feel and all. You should also do what you feel comfortable doing and follow what you believe in you heart. The way that you put it, he sounds like a nice guy and shouldnt mind just talking with out the whole make out section. Hope that helped you some.
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Insane Cricket - He didn't really pin me down, and he's apologized for it multiple times since (even though I've told him it really didn't bother me that much). (The story behind this was actually that my dog kept trying to hump us every time we started to kiss, but when he did that she couldn't.) And ... I dunno about the breaking up thing. Thanks for the advice~
Yamapi-Ttun - I'll try to think of a way to say it to him. I'm not really good with saying stuff like this to people. |
I don't know, I might be wrong but it sounds to me you have a really nice guy!
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Well, it could be possible that he made a mistake. Teenagers make a lot of mistakes relationship-wise and he might be trying to amend for them by getting back together with you.
Give him a little bit of trust, but not too much just yet. And heck, if you want to french him, give it a shot. You'll never learn from chickening out. n__n' |
Purple: well you done a very good job about telling all of us about that. So i think that you will be fine on telling him. You could just let him read this if you cant find the words to tell him but that would probably just make him mad because you asked for advice about him to other people. Hopefully you will find a way to tell him and not hurt his or your feelings. Good luck
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well, your realtion ship doesn't seem too stable for me. only four months and one break up.... -.-
also, you don't seem ready for it. he seems like he's not trying to rush you, but you seem like you aren't ready for anything more than kisses, right? so you need to tell that to him. |
I completely re-wrote the thread, so... help? x_x
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just try being there for her. listen to her. it's not that hard to listen. :)
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Listen to her if she ever brings up the topic. If not, just be a good host and make her happy and help her enjoy her stay. And if she gets emotionally upset or starts to cry, just give her a shoulder to cry on. There's not much you can say but assure her things will be alright.
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Sometimes, sympathy is all you can give - but just being there for her will do plenty.
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It makes a world of difference just knowing someone cares.
Be there for her. There isn't any advice for this, really. Just having a shoulder to cry on is good enough. |
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Boyfriend.
I think you should just try not to worry about it. You end up breaking up and you might not. Just because you're fifteen doesn't mean you absolutely will. I've been with the same person since I was fourteen. I'm an adult now. So yeah, it works sometimes. And sometimes it doesn't. You're young, even if this relationship doesn't last I'm sure you will find someone else eventually. Just try to be happy about it and if you really like him and want it to work out with him then just try your best. :)
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I wouldn't worry too much. Two of my classmates started dating when they were 13/14 and are still together now six years later. For some people it just works, and even if it doesn't you have a lot more time to find the right person.
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