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Old 07-21-2008, 04:40 AM

Hallo everyone my name is Amanda but you can call me Ako.

Okay, here is my problem. I live in Hamburg,Germany and my boyfriend lives in Los Angeles, California. I love him a lot and i have been with him in real life but i don't know if a long distance relationship is the best idea. Has anyone ever had a good long distance relationship on here? Should i stay with him or should we break up and just be friends? I don't really know what to do. I want a boyfriend who will be here in Germany for me but i don't want to break up with him because i really do like him. Any advice on what to do?

P.S. Amanda(me) = 15
Jake(boyfriend) = 17

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Old 07-21-2008, 06:07 AM

If you really like/love him a lot, there's always waiting to see if you guys can sometime live together in the future. [I don't know your age].

I've got a new fling with my ex whos in England right now, and I love in Florida. And I plan on seeing him sometime soon.

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Old 07-21-2008, 08:56 AM

I honestly think you should just stay with him and see how it goes.

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Old 07-21-2008, 10:53 AM

Well considering me and my girlfriend were going great for a year, I say you should give it a try.
Just be aware that it canget pretty hard.
No contact seems to bring up fights more often and such, for me anyways.
Just follow your heart though.
You know what's best for yourself, even though you don't know it, or so I think.

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Old 07-21-2008, 10:13 PM

It depends on how serious the relationship is and how much you love him. There's nothing wrong with having an online relationship, and they do work. I've been in one for seven years now and we visit each other when we can. I'm actually getting ready to leave to go see him on Thursday. I live in Florida and he lives in New Jersey. Not a huge distance compared to people living in different countries but it's still far away. We visit each other as often as possible which is usually during summer or at Christmas, but we went a long, long, long time before we even actually met in real life because we were too young to go off by ourselves to see each other. So now that we're adults we do it as much as we can, at least until we're able to live together eventually. You could always try to visit him if your parents will let you, and since you've already met him in real life that's not quite so bad.

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Old 07-22-2008, 10:31 AM

Well, that depends. Are you the type of person who can handle a long distance relationship?
Some people can, some people can't. It takes a LOT of trust, dedication and patience to be able to maintain an internet relationship.

If you're up to it, there's no reason not to try. You could always just let it pan out, and see how it goes. No harm can come from it. If you're not cut out for it, you'll probably realize pretty early on.

 


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