lol. I just meant that I can never find one that I really like. They don't have one nice factor like smart or attractive.

Or I find a guy I like, try to get to know him only to discover he'd been crushing on my friend the whole time...they're together now. I'd never had so much drama with guys until college.

I never had any drama with guys until the military.... they're generally idiots and go gaga over big boobs :stare:

lol. maybe that's why I never had drama til now. Most of my friends in high school were larger (stupid D's). Now we go to different schools.

And perhaps I'm just a silly girl, but I'm yet to see what is so fastinating about round hunks of fat.

yea I know, my boobs have gotten a bit bigger since I joined the military and sometimes I use them to my advantage >.> but I'm only a C

my friends and I were of the few with actual personalities in my school so the guys pretty much lacked the balls to approach us. not that we wanted them to, god the guys in my high school were icky

*is taking a break from cleaning*

I've never really had guys approach me. I know I'm not some beauty queen but I'm not ugly either so I don't know.

And unfortunately I'm too shy to try to use my boobs. I just never tried but that's because I lack the confidence. Also might have to do with some unwanted attention (yes in that way) when I was really young from one particular person.

And hi pyro. You're in for a real treat. we're having a nice girl conversation :)

I noticed. :)

pyro-chan! :glomp:

haha, I don't think I'm attractive but military guys tend to have lower standards >.> and I know they like my boobs so I'll use them when I want to =3

:stare: If I wear something other than a sports bra my boobs get in the way when I try to do stuff. :(

haha, I have some old shirts that I can't wear unless I wear a sports bra, it sucks since I really like those shirts....

I prefer sports bras so it is really annoying when I have to wear a different type of bra.

I used to prefer sports bras but now I prefer regular bras o.O

It's hard for me to find regular bra's that fit properly.

when I need bras I go to victoria secret, they're expensive but nice

I feel out of the loop. I've only worn sports bras (because they were more convienient). Should I have others or what?

Originally Posted by Yamiko

smack him upside the head then XD vent here vent here!

Sorry, there was some sort of glitch and I didn't see the message until now. ^^;;

Anyway, a little back story, there's this guy I met at a con who seemed like a really nice guy, and we talked a lot by email and then aim and were really close, and I was head over heels for him for awhile, but then he started getting mean and saying some pretty nasty things to me so I eventually gave up on him. It was then that he decided he really like me.

Fast forward a few weeks, he gave me the silent treatment for weeks and now came back on aim and is mad at me now for accusing him of verbal abuse.

*headdesk*

O.o wtf? tell him if he's gonna be all multi-personality on you then fuck off

I can't tell much about what's really going on, but I'll give you some advice from my mom. Even if the problem seems small and they still get really upset then the person probably has anger issues. She had (well has...its my dad lol) and they once had a misunderstanding about where they were meeting for their date. This was before they had cell phones of course and he flipped out next time he saw her because he thought she stood him up. This is my dad. He is normally fine but sometimes he just can't control it and really yells.

Her advice was basically do not shrug things like this off. If he acts like this before you get married or start seriously going out then he'll probably do it a lot more later. If you don't like it, keep away.

@Chibi You can, I mostly wear sports bras cause I don't like under-wire bras.

@Luna Can you ignore him?

@pyro. ok. I was just wondering because my mom sorta fails at advice like that and I never really got a good conversation about it.

under-wire bras are for support, sports bras are for strapping them down so they don't bounce when you're exercising.

Are those basically the only choices? And maybe I should look into wired then. As my boobs grew my posture has gotten worse and worse.

I really have no interest in marrying this guy. He's a total git. But we were friends for so long I didn't want to end things on a bad note. And yes, I did accuse him of verbal abuse because of all the cruel things he said to me. I was kind of hoping he might realize 'oh crap, maybe I shouldn't say that sort of thing to a girl I really like. Maybe it's a little counterproductive to act like a 6 year old and insult her.'

well there are wireless under-wire bras, they're for comfort to those that don't like the wire there but they're the same category of support, and I dunno if they help your posture... but they prolly would... o.o

yea.. he's an idiot

Yep, doesn't mean I have to like them though. :illgetu: