Menewsha Avatar Community

Menewsha Avatar Community (https://www.menewsha.com/forum/index.php)
-   Hangouts (https://www.menewsha.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=99)
-   -   Menewsha's Androgynes [And Everyone Who Wants to Throw a Wrench at Gender Stereotypes] (https://www.menewsha.com/forum/showthread.php?t=154177)

sarofset 08-20-2011 04:29 AM

The stress disorder is pretty much permanent. However when the stress goes away, I feel better, and all the problems with it stop.

The_Crow 08-20-2011 10:02 AM

sarofset- Which stress disorder? According to Disability, NO mental disorders are permanent, even the most severe cases of schizophrenia. I have Major Depressive Disorder (Moderate), Genrealized Anxiety Disorder, Anxiety-Panic Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, and aspects of Disassociation, PTSD, and Adjustment Disorder when it applies. However with all of these the government that declared me permanently disabled based on the downward spiral between this and my permanent physical disability (the metal rods in my back), my mental disabilites ALONE are not 'permanent' and therefore my Psychiatrist refuses to sign of for a 20,000 student loan when the federal government thinks I can survive off of 700 dollars a month in Silicon Valley, the most expensive part of the country where a PARKING SPACE costs 300/month. That 700 is meant to cover housing, bills, transportation, food, clothing, hygene, and entertainment. -_-;

So 'technically' your stress disorder is not permanent according to the fine print. DEVELOPMENTAL disorders, on the otherhand, like Autism and such, may be.

Just the fact that:
+The government DID declare me permanently disabled
+They give me peanuts with the right hand to live off of
+They expect me to pull $20,000 out of my ass to put in their left hand

This situation has been driving me ABSOLUTELY. FUCKING. NUTS.

This does belong in my life issues thread, and I apologise, however since it is a reply to posts in this thread... it found its way here. My sincere apologies.

Lavender le Fay 08-20-2011 11:00 AM

Hello. I think I belong here because I have been indentifying as a femboy for years now. I like the idea of this thread, so I would like to get to know the people who frequent it. How is everyone?

Kah Hilzin-Ec 08-20-2011 11:01 AM

Crow, dude, that's so fucked up (and so are you </blackhumour>) :hug: If only I could help...

---
Hey there Lavender~! Welcome to the thread :D I'm not exactly feeling fine. I fell asleep on my sister's bed and she didn't wake me up (she never does, not even when I tell her to) and ended up sleeping in tight clothes from 4pm to 5am. But yeah, it will pass in some hours, and when she wakes up I shall have my revenge, mwhaha~ What about you? :)

Lavender le Fay 08-20-2011 11:05 AM

Oh, wow. That sounds uncomfortable, like the time I fell asleep in my corset... I support your revenge, though!

Doing fine. Happy to see such a thread. Very happy.

The_Crow 08-20-2011 11:13 AM

Kah Hilzin-Ec:Want to know WHAT ELSE IS FUCKED UP IN MY LIFE?

@Lavender-le-Fay- I'm sorry if I have yet to welcome you in person. This hangout is sort of like 'oddities united'. We all have some things in common, yet some of us rub each other a little wrong, but deep down we all mean well and as long as I'm not locked up (heh heh, might not be for very much longer), this is and will remain a safe place for anything you may be unsure, insecure, pissed off, etc about. Welcome.

Lavender le Fay 08-20-2011 11:22 AM

That sounds pretty awesome. There is nothing wrong with a little tension between friends, as long as you care and respect each other in the end. I really love your avatar, especially the hair.

ljosberinn 08-20-2011 04:35 PM



Hey Lavender, I often identify as a femboy too - my gender is pretty fluid so it regularly changes, but that's one of my more common ones to come back to. :P Welcome to the thread!

Crow, I don't even know what to say anymore. I read your post in the life issues thread too, and I am so, so sorry. I really really hope your mum will be okay, as well as you. >.< *hugs*



sarofset 08-20-2011 05:45 PM

@Crow: Well like in most cases, the government is wrong. They know nothing. They are complete douche bags. I'm sorry for your troubles with them. In my case I'm not going for disability, because there are people out there who need it much more than I do. You actually need the money, so you deserve it. I don't right now, and thus I'm not taking it. I know others who deserve it and still don't get it because of the governments constant douche baggary.

Lavender le Fay 08-20-2011 05:58 PM

Oh, something bad has happened?

`Kitami 08-20-2011 09:41 PM

Crow:: Kita has borderline personality disorder, severe depression, post traumatic stress disorder, social anxiety disorder, separation anxiety disorder, and a dissociative disorder. And you know you gotta love the government. :sarcasm: Not like we have enough issues on our own, let us throw money problems into the mix. :roll:

Kah Hilzin-Ec 08-20-2011 10:52 PM

Wow, I read the thread and... your life tops all brazilian soap operas. And hell does the government suck. Well, at least you don't live in my country - you could have lost a limb in a car accident and the public hospital will tell your bleeding self they're too busy to attend you (in fact a guy had to go to a charity clinic because the two public hospitals didn't even have spare trolleys).

I really hope your mother's able to defeat the cancer. And even though this could sound cruel, if you can't do anything for her, then maybe you should concentrate on your own problems. Like cutting all ex-SO as relationship possibilities. They're exes for a reason, and even in your case it's better to be alone than be in bad company.

TanaChan 08-21-2011 05:29 AM

If Tana could help she would. When she likes people, she likes people, as rare as that is really.
But I am rather silly at times. I crush on people I know I can't have, like a friend of mine, he's gay...but I still want him, personality wise atleast. I've never seen a picture of him either.

PapillonCameo 08-22-2011 12:12 AM

@Tana- That's exactly what I always do. XD It's happened so often now that I'm determined not to do it again! The hard part, for me anyway, is trying to notice when someone likes me because.. I'm absolutely, completely, oblivious! My mom actually had to tell me how to know when someone's interested in me.

Hi everyone, how are you?

TanaChan 08-22-2011 02:36 AM

people are interested in me....it's just more of a matter that i'm not interested in them
i'm a tad oblivious to, but when someone likes me cause of my looks I get kinda pissy

Kah Hilzin-Ec 08-22-2011 04:22 AM

@Tana: It's worse when they like you because of your boobs. I like honest people but there are things one should not be so brutally honest about :roll:

Someone on facebook said "Hey [friend] is it true you like [Kah]? [Person A] told me [person B] told him [person C] told her [person D] that you did and that if I could tell all of [His high school class]..." All the [] were fb tags. I predict a bad weather with a chance of shitstorm tomorrow :sweat:

sarofset 08-23-2011 05:34 PM

I actually have that problem, but with just generally being nice to people. Apparently it's become so rare nowadays for someone to treat people like human beings, that when I do it, people think I am... er... interested. You know? Mind you sometimes I am, but I'm always nice to everyone, regardless. ...Unless of course they've done something to make me not want to be nice, in which case they will be ignored.

...also some people tell me I'm pretty,but I do not believe them most of the time.

`Kitami 08-23-2011 06:50 PM

You are pretty, Saro.
:ninja:

sarofset 08-23-2011 08:42 PM

lol. you have to say that though sweetie. ;)

`Kitami 08-23-2011 08:50 PM

I don't have to do anything. :lol: I want to say it. ^.^

sarofset 08-23-2011 09:02 PM

Thank you sweetie. :) It means a lot. :)

Kah Hilzin-Ec 08-23-2011 10:47 PM

So this couple I'm friends with, who are in my Physics Lab classroom, the ones I cosplay with... turns out they're bi too! :eager: I'm not alone! x);;

sarofset 08-23-2011 10:55 PM

of course you're not. ...wait, is that less common in places not Colorado? lol. Here it's almost the norm.

Kah Hilzin-Ec 08-23-2011 11:02 PM

I live in Ecuador, where being gay is looked down upon but being bi is like being the Flying Spaghetti Monster - nobody really believes "your kind" exists :rofl:

`Kitami 08-23-2011 11:07 PM

Saro:: :heart:

Kah:: Well that's nice. :) I know it was nice for me when I found out my best friend was bi, because I could talk to her about stuff that at the time I couldn't talk about with anyone else.


All times are GMT. The time now is 06:14 AM.