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That's a little socializing then. Not always the funnest though.
I dunno. You don't want to lose the friendships you have, but there's nothing wrong with staying in. It's different for everyone if you need that face to face socializing. |
mmm, i guess i will see how i feel.
I should really get to bed soon actually, but i dun'wannaaaa |
sounds smart.
neee how late is it for you?! |
Lavinia I feel the same way. I really must go to sleep.
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5am here Kat, yeah i think i'm gonna go bed after this cuppa <3
2600 - Sleep well when you go! |
cuppa. I just love that word. XD
night ya'll! |
Well thats what it isss a cuppa'T!! xD
Night kat, i'm off too sleep well |
Yeah, but we just don't say that here.
I thought I was saying goodnight to you... |
Hello anyone here? I been bus lately got a new Christmas tree on sale
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Mmm, I'm kinda here, but probably headed to bed soon.
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Sorry I left randomly last night. i crashed shortly after I posted. [sweat] So how is everyone doing this lovely morning? |
Morning everyone *cleans up the room and gets things ready* So is it cold where everyone is at?
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Morning again Fuu, do't worry about it, if you gotta sleep you gotta sleep!
I think i'll tidy up a bit then walk the dog and see how i feel :) Not quite yet though the dog just decided to sleep on my lap xD ---------- Post added 12-02-2014 at 02:21 PM ---------- Hey immy! It's quite cold here too but i still gotta try and walk the dog D= |
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Hehe yeah. We didn't even get to decorate the tree because I passed out so early. I once again slept through dinner. At this rate i am never going to be able to taste that delicious turkey we made ;3; Quote:
It is 33 degrees where I live but it feels much colder. But I am not super cold because I have a heater right behind me so I am very toasty right now.[:B] |
It's about 32 I think over here.
I'm confused, can I ask you guys something? |
Ask away Immy :3 |
Okay there is something I've never cared to do. So even at 24 people believe I should have a long time ago.
I'm still with this guy I've been best friends with 7+years, but the problem isn't trust. It's the fact I don't think i'm ready. If you know what I mean. He asked for a birthday gift...um involving nothing but birthday suits if you get what I mean. |
If you are not ready, then your not ready. I say don't do anything until you are ready. Not when he is ready. I hope I am not jumping to conclusions to what this is about but it isn't wise to do something when you aren't ready as it can scar you for life and become a traumatizing event or just be a bad experience. |
If you've been together so long already then he is clearly a patient man and is willing to wait for you. THe world needs more of them! He's given you the option to decide if you are ready i doubt he will be mind if you are open about it and say you're not.
Just be honest, and tell him you are not sure you are ready yet, and see what he says :) |
We've been friends for that long, we recently have been dating for two months and barely see eachother. In fact he asked me out over text and we don't video chat or talk on the phone >.> So communication is slim. When he tries to plan for a date for us, I can't do it because of work, when I try he tells me "I'm sorry I can't come over tomorrow because I have to help my mom clean the house" by the way he had three days to plan this and tell his mother, he also does majority of the house work, and I don't even know what to think about that.
Our relationship hasn't been that easy lately >.> |
I think you guys should just focus on communication. Without communication it can be a bit of a rocky relationship. I have had relationships where communication went down hill and so did the relationship. [XD] So maybe try to communicate with each other. Even if it is just a small message before work to tell him how you feel etc. ^^ every little bit counts. [heart] |
Honestly Fuu, I have tried that. I've told him before how I feel about our lack of meeting up or talking. How I feel like I am the only one who texts him morning and night. How I text him in the midst of the day. There was a time I didn't like his response when he was playing video games when I called him out of the blue just to talk to him and he said "I'm sorry I really just want to play my game" so either talking with his gf he doesn't talk much to or playing his game, he chose the game >.> which is always going to be there...saved...I could be making a bit of a deal out of nothing, but...
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Oh guys...How they always chose video games over their own girlfriends. I have literally been there. Depending on how you feel, if you feel like you need someone to give you more attention than he does, maybe you should be with someone else? One of my ex's never gave me attention. it's not selfish since you are his gf. And it's not wrong to want attention from the person you are dating. I had broke it off with that ex because he just paid too little attention to me, never messaged me and he was always busy with games or talking to his friends and not me e.e And I do not want you to feel like how I did when I was in a relationship like that. In my opinion if he thinks a game is much more important then his own relationship with his girlfriend the relationship has become too one sided and only one is only fighting for relationship then it just isn't a relationship worth fighting for or having and you deserve better. :3 |
Wow your ex sounds like my current at the moment. Mom said the same thing lol
Well she didn't read about your ex, she just understands the situation between me and zen. I didn't think it was a good eye to date your best friend >.> I was told they always end badly, but I ignored that thinking things would be different. I think I have made up my mind though. |
The whole lack of communication and no video texting and all that... makes me think of my VERY short relationship with my ex... I was the one who had to initiate contact most of the time through text (we were Long Distance), but he also played video games all the time. And would ignore me - and in the end ignored me for almost 2 weeks, and then finally confessed that he felt he needed to get away from me (not totally sure why he never told me what I did wrong), and he couldn't handle long distance, and a week after that he faked attempting to kill himself (which I know now is totally fake because he went back onto the site we met on trying to meet more people... -.- And I called him out on it.) But anyways, not that your bf is like that, just saying that this situation really is bringing up not so good memories of how my ex treated me.
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