*hugs the thread*

I have a headache and I can't take anything for it. :( Well I can but what I'm allowed to take won't help any.

Thanks Moon. Its just he is usually what gets me through the hard times and I hold on to him but he isn't here to hold on to anymore. I just feel so lost without him.

[hug] I know it's not the same --- at all --- but when I found out that I Was pregnant with Norah - my entire life as Iknew it came crashing down around me. And all I wanted was someone to hold onto to make the pain of it all to go away but no one was really there.

Now I know it's nothing what you're going through, but I understand the struggle of major unexpected life changes that come without warning and make you re-think how things are going to go.

It's REALLY hard. But sometimes it just takes a day at a time, or an hour or even a minute at a time. That's how I got through those days. It's not easy.

There are days when I still struggle, despite it all - despite the fact that my life has gotten way better. [hug] I just wish I could make it all go away - the pain hurts and burrows deep inside.
Of course mine was getting out of an abusive relationship, not losing a loved one - but I understand change and how hard it can be.

I am sorry to hear that Moon

Kirin: this was a few years ago and it did give me my sweet daughter.
But it was a rough time - that whole part of my life.
And I know it's nothing like what Silver is going through, but I totally know how unexpectedly life can change.

I am going through my own set of problems though not as bad as Silver.

We all have our own set of problems that life hands us.
It's about how we deal with them that counts.

I found out I have high cholesterol. And I am surprised I spelled that right the first time. I am hoping I'll be allowed to try and control it with diet and exercise first before medicine. Or be allowed to find a natural way to treat it.

I'm stuck on bed rest for roughly a month (or whenever Biscuit decides to come) due to high blood pressure with an over active 2 1/2 year old who only seems to want mommy to play with her....

Like I said, we all have our problems... we all deal with the ups and downs of life. It's how you go about dealing with it, that matters. [yes]

I am also almost 36 with no husband/boyfriend and I desperately want children. Just feeling all bummed and such.

This is the life is rough bunch, aren't we? But then I guess we couldn't truly appreciate the highs if we never felt the lows.

That is very true Silver.

Though I still wish I didn't have to experience this particular low.

*huggles Silver*

Thanks Kiri. [hug]

No problem dear.

And the event is over. Welcome back to the main refuge friends.

:( I meant to get the event items. :/ I totally didn't even mean to. :( Bad mood keeping me off and forgetting. :(

Oh that's a bummer.