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i already suggested an alternative *shrug*
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Cold meds and sleep for me Say you're coming down with a cold |
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Sal: There isn't much to do here at home. [sweat]
Easty: And the alternative of just going out anyways, and risking the headaches and the over-stimulation I know will happen? And if there was something else - I just looked back up and I don't see it. Going out anyways, and giving in even though it isn't what I want -is not something I am ok with doing... |
*hugs hummy*
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Listen to cloudie I was 51 BG earlier |
Cloudie, I think Eastyy meant watching a movie at home, instead of going outside ^_^ <3
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Hums: How's that cold treating you - has it started to let go any more to leave you alone yet?
I may be coming down with a cold. I just also feel like we've been doing a lot of running around doing stuff - and I don't get a lot of just down time doing nothing days when I'm at school. I think that's another reason why I'm hesitant to go out too. |
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*hugs sal* |
Hums: How's that cold treating you - has it started to let go any more to leave you alone yet?
I may be coming down with a cold. I just also feel like we've been doing a lot of running around doing stuff - and I don't get a lot of just down time doing nothing days when I'm at school. I think that's another reason why I'm hesitant to go out too. |
yeah that was what I meant.
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yeah... that is not an alternative... that is just doing exactly what my parents want... -.- No. An alternate is something that doesn't go with the actual plan. -.-
Just forget I ever said anything, it's not important anyways.. -.- I'll just really leave... bye. |
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It has. I just have to keep taking the meds. And sleep more. And eat. So I'm going to make some, eat then sleep.....again =3 I wish they understood relaxing is in short supply during the semester *hugs* |
But it's staying in doors and thats what you want cloud? *shrug*
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I wish they understood it too. *hugs* But apparently it isn't just them who doesn't understand (I get that you do, no worries), and I'm just going to go because honestly I'm regretting saying anything to start with because apparently I'm just the stupid one who should just do what my parents want even though it goes against EVERYTHING that I feel right now. *sighs* It just makes me feel like how I feel doesn't matter, so I'm just going to walk away. I can't do this right now. I do hope that you keep getting better. [hug] ---------- Post added 01-11-2015 at 02:03 PM ---------- Quote:
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Oh, I see...so it's not only staying indoors, but it is also alone time that you need.
Hmm...how to appease parents while maximizing alone time? |
cloud; i think i know what I said, I said 'why don't you say you want to stay in but later you could all sit down and watch a movie togeter (i.e. inside) so you're still all together and spending time together but you don't have to go out.
edit; I know you don't want to leave your bed, but isn't it a comprise? you can get all snuggly and warm still but you're also letting your parents spend time with you, which clearly does mean a lot to them |
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Hope it works out somehow <3
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i second this onsenmark
it does |
There was a period during which I had to stop eating pizza :o
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Last post here for quite awhile...
Sorry if I missed that post, I didn't see that, Easty, despite going back to look. [sweat] So now I'm the bad person because I have been giving them time with me, going out doing stuff etc... but the one day when I need to just not do anything suddenly I'm a bad person for needing quiet time to myself, by myself... without going out into the world where I know I'll get a headache, because I'm on the verge of one at the moment, and I've not even left my bed - hardly much today at all. Sorry, but I'm not sorry. I have been giving them as much time as I can give them... And right now I can't do anything like that, even movie watching - which we do often, apparently that isn't enough for them. We watched a movie together as a family last night. Yet they are pushing to do something out of the house... despite all of that. And pizza is not an option... we live in the middle of nowhere, and no place delivers, and the one pizza place down here is only a seasonal pizza place as it only makes money during tourist season, but mom doesn't like pizza anyways, so that isn't even an option because she won't eat it... So no, pizza doesn't make everything better... -.- |
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Bake cookies :D
and just tell them this then, be honest kind, but firm. |
Any way to distract them, Cloudie? Like...maybe tell them you want to eat waffles and other foods, so they go into the kitchen to work on that while leaving you with your alone time :) but that also appeases them, because they'll feel like they're doing something awesome for you in the meantime!
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