Lol, me too sometimes.
Just try your best.. she'll come around and see that you care about her enough that you worry about her and will see you can help her cheer up a bit and feel better about it all.

She makes me feel like a pointless person that depends on HER!
Well, screw her.

Kale: I understand wanting to shorthand thngs wen possible - I'm lazy :D

Justin: Patience is NOT easy, but if this girl is your friend, you need to have it, or she will think that she can't really go to you with her problems. I know you are worried about her; simply PM her that you are reacting the way you are out of concern and care for her. You understand that she needs to handle this how she feels is best, but you are there for whatever she wants to talk to you about, whenever she's ready to speak about it.

daaaah! ive finished sketching! XD im gonna color it now

I wonder why I bother. :3

Originally Posted by Marissa D

I wonder why I bother. :3

Because you are a good person with a fantastic heart.

First thing hun, never depend on anyone but yourself. Well with the exception of your boyfriend, he seems like a good person.

Well right now she's depending on you to keep your calm. She's hurting and in pain and she wants someone to lean on even if she can't get the full story out... She turned to you and you're just shoving it in her face.

Jessi - Lol, yeah.. How are you?

She didn't turn to me. She 'randomly' mentioned it in the thread and I seemed to be the only one that asked on about it.

Well she still did tell you some of what happened so that is turning to you.. if she didn't want to tell you she would have ignored your concern all together.

She's doing that right now.

I tried, she didn't want my help.
Forget about it then, I'm not going to be there waiting days later.

Yes, I'm that much of a bitch.

Kale - I'm not too bad, trying to make time for Mene and Zan (being my newest home) while I'm at work. Not an easy thing to do.

Justin - She wants help, or she would not have mentioned it (unless she's just looking for attention, but I dont' know her, so I can't say one way or the other, nor would I). Give the girl time.

Justin - She wants help..
Listen to what I'm saying okay?
If she can't get through it herself, or understand it she doesn't want anyone to know until she's come to terms with it. SHE TOLD YOU WHAT SHE COULD GET HERSELF TO COME TO TERMS WITH. She just can't get herself to say the rest yet and she's just hoping you'll still be there when she CAN. You've helped her now already and in time she'll tell you the whole story. Now she just needs your support.

Jessi - haha, yeah that's a bit of a bitch lol. I can't stand Zanti right now... way too slow for me.

If she'd be on, that is. Her boyfriend threatened to kill her. >.>;
Or no, he said she'd be better off dead. SO maybe she's dead and that's why she's not replying to my PM. :roll:

Or maybe she's just offline and dealing with it by herself, with her family and friends...

Just give it time hun.

No thanks.

Whatever...
If you're too blind to see reasoning then I shan't pressure you.
I'm gone.. need to do something for Mene and this has distracted me enough.

Ja, ik ben hartstikke blind. Snap je dan niet dat persoonlijke ervaringen er ook iets mee te maken kunnen hebben? :roll:


Okay then. :3

Originally Posted by yanyan13

i shall use my jedi mind trick powers to pull in jelly unto this thread... *uses mind trick XD*

You rang??

Sorry the message took a while to get through, your mind must be a bit warped :P

I'm just saying that sometimes people just can't tell the whole story at once... Especially when they're really upset about something. I know I'd be too upset to say anything to anybody even if I trusted them a lot...

Just imagine your boyfriend telling you the same things... wouldn't you be too upset to talk about it? Or even just say the full story..

The fact that she managed to tell you some of the story means she needs to talk about it and hopes that you'll be there to listen not bitch...

*is not too sure what you said, online translators are useless*

If my boyfriend would tell him his boyfriend would tell him to die, I'd kill him. Because I'm supposed to be his boyfriend, you see?

And I said: "Yes, I'm totally blind. Don't you think personal experiences could have something to do with this? :roll:"

No I mean if your boyfriend told you you were useless and better off dead, how would you react.

Yeah.. got something along those lines but still with untranslated words in between.. >.>

Originally Posted by Kale Dragonheart

No I mean if your boyfriend told you you were useless and better off dead, how would you react.

Yeah.. got something along those lines but still with untranslated words in between.. >.>

My ex told me he'd kill himself if I wouldn't be nicer to him. He stalked me and told everyone I tlked to tto stay away from me or he'd kill them. He also did that when we wre still together, but ok. >.>;


And if Max would tell me that I'd kill myself and leave a note blaming both Angelique's parents and him for all the shit in my life. He's all I've got anyway.

I'm sorry you had to go through that, but it doesn't mean that your friend has... she is stressed and devastated that the person she thought cared about her told her those things, this is only the beginning of her personal experience...


In that response you basically admit to being devastated but in a different way... I hope it doesn't come to that though.. there are other boys out there.. just need the chance to find the right one...

If Max turns out to be such a prick it's over. I'm tired of this shit going on. I'm willing to listen to other people's crap, but I'm not going to wait for it. Tell me now or tell me never. Simple as that. She and I are talking about these wings she was going to sell me like nothing happened now anyway, so that bit is over. If she wants to bring it up, she can go ahead. I'll just nod and smile and that's it.

Then I hope she has someone else to talk to since you've become so closed up since she can't get herself to speak of it. She's trying to move on by herself....

But let me ask you this.. if you're so worried about her.. what if the next mood swing, because there will be, she says she's going to take her boyfriend's advice? Would you just nod and smile?