Oh shit babe that's a horror story if ever I heard one. You poor thing.

Was your family supportive of you in this time?

Originally Posted by Pearl

• I really, really want kids, but if I somehow got pregnant now I would definitely have an abortion. I want to get some a-levels, go to university and be in a stable relationship and a happy home before I give birth... hopefully at least 25.
  
  If I was 22 or 23 I'd think about the abortion. I don't know whether I'd go ahead with the birth.

well i think having kids is great i tell you something though ,i would not have a kid after 25.i agree about a happy home though.

no opi they werent,my mother went mad.at the time i didnt tell her until i was 8 months gone.she went apeshit.but shes got over it and loves emma to bits in fact she is her fave grandaughter lol

Wow that must have been rough. How did you manage to hide it for 8 months?!? That's a damn long time!

I'm happy you reconsiled however. I don't imagine she could be mad at you forever. And it seems your little girl has been a real blessing for you.

well i never used to see my mom much when i moved out so i didnt tell her
i didnt think she would be bothered seeing as she kicked me out more or less at 16.

and thanx she is i love her loads

She kicked you out? That's almost the same age as me suprisingly. I hate how parents do that. What the hell did she kick you out for?

well i finished school at 15 and she told me i had to make my own way in the world.

in england we do our exams in y11 and then leave and get jobs,i got a job as a care assistant helping the old folks.and she said well when are you moving out,but i think it was ,mainly down to my stepfather who i hated and who hated me .

Sounds like you had a tough childhood T_T I'm sorry to hear that.

I'm glad Emma has a mother like you. One who will be genuinely interested in what she is up to (not in the nosey way) and one who will support her through hell. You have been through a lot for her.

yeah but theres noway in hell i would ever treat emma like how they treated me.

i love her to death.and will do anything for her.

so tell me a bit about yourself?

Myself? Urm...what cha wanna know?

anything you wanna tell me lol,how is it you work and live so far away?

Well, my mother kicked me out at 15. My Boyfriend (now my fiance) had gone to Taiwan for 4 months to see his mother (who works here) and he rescued me from a life of the streets by paying my air fare to Taiwan and taking me in. It's really a very long story lol.

But basically, we broke up cos of his bitch of a mother and I went back home. 6 month's later my boy came back home and we saw each other again and got back together yada yada yada . Moved here and got jobs.

That's basically it lmao

ooh so do u get on with the mothe in law ?

and what do u do over there? your job i mean lol

i hate parents who treat there kids like burdens why the fuck have them in the first place.

Nah I hated the stupid hoe. Still do. She is a complete hippie flake and a real waste of space. The stupid woman comes to her son for cash ffs! Who does that?

What I do over here? I'm an ESL teacher for cram schools. It's a neat job that pays well with good hours. I love kids (the eldest of 15 cousins) so I am glad my job is with kids and not adults. Adults never take me seriously but I can crack an entire class of children up with a single "fart" on my arm. (you know...blow and prrrrrrrrrrp?)

i would never ask for cash of emma.that would be well weird lol.

teacher how cool is that.you must make them laugh i find your a really funny person iam glad i met you lol.

and yeah i know what a arm fart is hehehe

No parent should EVER ask their child for cash. That woman has a serious issue with money. She earns twice as much as my fiance and I put together yet she comes for loans off us. Stupid bitch. I would love to back hand her. Oh! And she is dating some guy (it's getting rather serious....again) and he thinks shes fucken 28! She's 50!!!!!!!!

Teaching is piss easy. It's amazing how children are amused by flatulance lmao.

I'm glad I met you too Miss Rose!

haha she likes her young bits then lol.

i would love to see you do that lol,she sounds like a leech ,is she on drugs or something lol

Nope. She is anti drugs like no one else I have ever met, yet all her friends are ex junkies. She's just a complete flake aye. There is nothing about her that is admirable and she surely doesn't deserve the children she has (not saying anything about her other son who is a complete waste of space...still lives with daddy at 23 years old and has never had a job. Lost his virginty last year too)

Curse her!

omg she sounds well weird lol.

so did you live in america when you were younger?

No god no! I was born and raised in New Zealand. And damn proud of it -puffs up chest with hand pump-

oooh nice i love the all balcks i think thats what they are called anyway

Indeed that is what they are called!

You know, most of the All Blacks are made up of the Canterbury Crusaders (my home team) so I am really REALLY into rugby.

I'm suprised you know of the All Blacks!

I'm sorry opi... but hand pump?


why dont' ya... "raise da roof" 8)

the all blacks are famous.i love the thing they do before they start a game,hehe once emma was in a play at school and some of her friends did the all blacks dance

Lol wish I could but...I must..I must...I must increase my bust!