*runs in and hides*

Skittles!!!~ *goes looking for Skittles*

Planning parties is hard. Dx

I've never really planned a party before....the closest thing was my birthday last year but that was a picnic in a botanical garden, so just needed some food and picnic rugs and so forth to sit on. Then it was like tell the 'guests' to come at such and such time. on that day.

Thats basically the easy way of planning a party.

If i throw a party, i do it at my place, and i get food and soft drinks sorted out plus clean the place up so ive got room for beds for people to crash on. I tell people what time and when and they can bring their own alcohol and any food they want plus something to crash on/in if theyre staying.

Then, we let the good times roll!

Well, by party I meant a formal-ish affair for my sorority. I kind of wish I hadn't even bothered with having a committee seeing as the majority of them were useless.

Isnt that just women in general though?

*ducks for cover behind nearest hard object while laughing* :P ^_^

:roll: What I see is that people in general are equally useless, regardless of gender. The guys were of little help unless given direction from me AKA I'm going to be kicking your butts if you don't help me cart all this crap inside.

Ooh, yeh, a party on that scale would be hard to organise. Good luck with it Dae!

It already actually happened. That was more the backlash of my freakout. And part of it is the whole "I can't trust anyone to do anything" syndrome. And my instinct is usually right of course.

Yes, sometimes if you want things to be done the way you want them to be done you have to do it yourself.

No, you just gotta whip the minions harder is all! :P

Yeah, that would require trust... And I don't really trust people. ^_^;

Any, Dae graduated from college today... And it's kind of hitting her now that she's all alone in her apartment...

Well Congratulations!
I have trouble trusting people to do things to, that's why planning my own wedding nearly killed me. I don't think i slept more than 10 hours total in the 7 days leading up to the big day.

Thank you Thulhu!

Yeah, if I ever get married, I'd prefer a Las Vegas wedding [sans Elvis]. If I had to plan my wedding, I'm certain someone would not survive. ^_^;

And where did you get that icon thing under your avatar? It's cute!

Congratulations Dae on graduating from college. ^^

Conga rats Dae!
*watches rats conga dancing in fascination*

The I heart mene thing? I 'm not sure where it came from...?

Congrats Dae!

Wow, it's been really slow moving here, I use to not be able to miss a day and not catch up and now, gone for a month and it's only moved 2 pages. What happened here and where has everyone gone?

Ugh, planning and moving away is going no beuno and I can't get people together to hang out, everyone keeps flaking and being dicks. Also, got some random guys number the other day, trying to decide if I should text him or not.

Totally should text him Aka! He wouldnt have given you his number if he wasnt interested himself! What have you got to lose?

Well, moving out of the area in little less than 2 weeks, so at most it's going to be a new friend, not sure if I am interested in doing him. But yeah, know what you mean there, he has my number too so wasn't sure if he was going to try texting me or not.

Does he know youre moving? If not, you could make him a 'farewell f**k?'

No, didn't really make that much of a mention when we were sitting and talking that I was moving, so no at the moment. I mean if I do make the effort to talk to him, then yes he will find out. My main issue right now is that I am tired of pursuing guys and don't really want to put that much effort in something if I'm unsure if they are going to put the effort into it.

Yeah i can understand that. How long ago did you get his number? I usually go by the 'week' rule. if you dont hear from some one youve just given your number to inside a week, presume you never will. I also go by the 'three days grace' rule. Meaning that the three days is acceptable and respectable time to make contact with some one whose number youve gotten, and not seem too keen either.

I got it on friday, after meeting said person while doing video game testing, and we sat and talked for a while after getting noms. So, tomorrow would make it the second day, he did know that I had class early all day on saturday, so IDK there.

Yeah, I get what you mean there with a grace time. Generally I try about the next day or 2 during the afternoon sometime. Enough to say interested in at least being friends and a respectful time. Too late in the evening and then it comes off as looking for a booty call, and too early, well, I'd kill someone who tried calling me before noon.