you didn't make him leave?

i wanted too. but he had no way of getting home unless i took him. :/ i'm not wasting gas on his sorry butt.

that sucks.

so stayed the night again.... he was up most of the night and so we got up and you know what he did?? when to go back to sleep on kaleb's bed. :( that's what you get loser for staying up all night.

this guy reminds me of my cousin.

Hey Kat-ness and llonka-llonka! :D *waves*

hey ter! how are you?

I are tired.
And I burned my tongue! It sucks! *headdesk*
How are you?

hey terrena!! :hug:

kat- but is your cousin annoying?? i think i'd rather my cousin be here than him!!!! so freaking annoying and i can't talk to my own husband and i feel like he thinks he is possessive over the boys. he's always kissing on them and hugging on them. i'm about to go bat sh** on the boy.

ooh, burning your tongue sucks!!!

hey llonka!
my cousin is annoying and amusing. I view him as a brother and therefore love and hate him at the same time.
he sounds way too annoying though, llonka. kick him out!

i say go off on his butt llonka!
maybe he will get the picture.

he is annoying!!!!! :illgetu: i wanna tell him to get his ass outta here, but then i know hubby will get on to me about it. *sigh*

its just a really bad situation llonka. it's like you against the world/family.

it is, well right now anyways, everyone i else i talk to agree with me. even hubby's dad. (brother in law doesn't belong to hubby's dad)

Is he staying-staying there? If so, when he's not around, just go pack up his stuff and leave it outside...in the rain is preferred...
That should make the message clear and you technically did not say anything.
Although...this may be a bad idea...but it would probably get the job done...and hilarious...although probably not to him...

no he's not living here, as of now. the idea was tossed around and i even offered. but then hubby blew up at me for offering so i told him never mind. so then hubby starts to feel bad and now he's thinking about letting him move in.

after all this that has happened that last two weekends i am sick of him. he doesn't have a car to go home with, no job, and i guess his mother doesn't give a crap either. i feel like i have to hide in my bedroom all by myself so i don't say something to "run him off". well you know what, jeremy married me, not aaron. i think every once in awhile is ok to come over, but not for days and days at a time. he has out stayed his welcome. i feel like to hubby this is just a big joke to him and my opinion doesn't matter. but this is my house too and this boys needs to go home or find somewhere else to go. :talk2hand:

i say when the boys are alseep *they should be by now* put something smexy on and jump in husband's lap.
then whisper in his ear, 'see if your brother was not here we could be having some fun right now!'
then go to sleep or at least go to your room and lock the door!

:/
That sucks.
*is trying o think*
The only thing I can think of is telling him off. Lay everything out for him straight. And tell him he needs to stop coming and staying.

I like Hummy's idea!
But yea...go to your room and lock the door and refuse to let your husband in until he agrees to say something to make aaron go away. Although...this could blow up in your face...or work...who knows...

oh the boys won't go to bed while he's here. that's another problem. >.> he's up half the night with the tv blaring and nobody can sleep. and then the boys think they have to sleep with aaron with bothers the heck out of me.

and i've been hinting, but apparently he doesn't care.

well at least he would know you are the one hw wants to 'be' with and not his smelly olf brother!

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wow, your brother-in-law is one lonely guy.
a pain in the butt, but still lonely if he has to keep the boys up all night and then have them sleep with him.
i would feel uncomfortable if my twenty year old brother was sleeping with kids, even if they are his nephews.
just gives me the whillies.

You should make it a rule that once someone is heading for bed at night, he HAS to leave. Also enforce the boys to go to bed when they are supposed to or otherwise take something away from them or ground them.

it does me too. at the apartment, he'd go in our room or the boys' and close the door. :/ so i'd go in there and see what they were doing. he always gave me strange look. over here, he thinks he has to lay on the floor so the boys jump on him. he did that last night while my parents were here and made my mom uncomfortable.

he doesn't have a car though Terrena. and his mother won't come into town to get him.

i agree.
bro-invader has to leave when the boys have to go to sleep.
explain if he wants to stay the night he has to go to sleep too.
no television or video games because the boys won't go to sleep if he is blaring them all night.

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ah, that is right.
oh well i guess he can't spend time out at y'all house since he disrupts everyone's schedule.
*waves*
see ya bro-invader.
don't come back now, ya here?????

Make him get a taxi, or ride a bus, or walk...bicycle, skate, something...or make him call a friend to get him.

Because his mother won't come and pick him is not a reason he has to stay. And yall do not have to take him anyway because his lazy self doesn't have a job or car. If he can't go, make him sleep outside...like in a tent or something. Make it uncomfortable for him so he doesn't want to stay all the time or he actually does something about it so he can get places.

LOL!
i could just see a pup tent in the back yard for his brother.
that would go over like a rock but would be seriously funny!