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Cass: Oh, I hate when people do that. My phone almost gets thrown across the room in those cases.
My ex and I are on alright terms, now that we've actually talked. He seems happy, and is living back east with his boyfriend. :headdesk: ((Don't get me wrong, I don't have anything against Gays, nothing at all. Just had to be my luck though, that my ex - who I was with from the age of 18 till 22, and knew since I was almost 16 - just ended up being gay.)) |
Cassie makes nice cookies *sprays crumbs everywhere* Are there any more? :oops:
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@Iku: Can I still pretend it's an igloo? I like igloos... :ninja:
@Nemo: My ex dumped me for some bint at his work, then dumped her from some bisexual bitch from his politics class. I've been nothing but kind to them and I've wished them all the best and yet -they- have the cheek to be mean about me, spreading all sorts of shit 'round college. They've only agreed to be civil to me because one of my friends told everyone what they've been doing so now no-one likes them. Aw, at least you and your ex are still cool with each other. And it is nice he's moved on with someone more to his...preference. C: |
-gets the vacuum cleaner- :gonk:
Messy Vicky... > A>; |
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Thank you! :') Of course! *gives platter while brushing crumbs off my wings* |
@Cass: Oh sure... imagine whatever you like~
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Cass: Oh, wow! Some people are just immature and all that jazz... drives me absolutely mental when people are like that.. like come on now... Grow up people! :P
Oh for the first six or so months after we broke up, I ignored him completely, and if I'm being honest - I am still rather peeved with him (considering that he basically kept me waiting, after he proposed before he left for Boot Camp, and basically left me waiting while finding ways to postpone our wedding... and leave me hanging till I broke things off with him because of all of that -- long story short). But I'm willing to try to see through my annoyance and re-kindle our friendship. Yeah, I just wish I was able to move on. But it's good to see him happy. =] Even if I'm not totally happy myself. |
I didn't mean to make a mess, sorry :oops:
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I dated one of my exes for four years, and haven't spoken since the day we broke up.
And I'm happy not rekindling that friendship. We're just two people that should not be near each other, and sometimes that's just how things turn out. x.x |
@Iku: Phew, that's good. For a moment I thought you might have thought I was crazy! Haha, we all know that's not true though. :sweat:
@Nemo: I know, right! The guy's supposed to be 22, so you'd think he could have mastered being civil to his ex and bitched in private. Clearly not. :roll: He already said that he'll never be my friend again, which is a little gutting to say the least. *sigh* Oh well. Aw, I'm sorry he acted like that. I can see why you'd be pissed off. *snug* Though I do hear you on happy for them when you're still not. |
Some ex's aren't meant to be friends. My ex was my best friend before we started dating, so when things went downhill - it felt like losing the one person who knew me almost better than myself.
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I was friends with my ex, albeit not for long, before we started dating. But we became best friends really quickly. So when I lost him, it was even more horrible than just losing a boyfriend, because after that I don't really have a best friend now. Well, not one near me. My soulmate (bestie) lives in Carolina. C: |
I'm feeling a bit sorry for myself, so messy cookies are just what I wanted :oops:
I dated this silly man back on Amorus, but all he wanted was some slave in the kitchen >.> |
Nemo : That's how we were too.
But at the end the relationship just got bad enough that we were both glad to be rid of each other. At least I was, he made a small attempt at first to have a civil friendship, but I made it clear I wanted him nowhere in my life. I honestly think that may have hurt his feelings a bit, since what was a kind of mutual break up, since we both knew how miserable we made each other turned into him making stuff up and saying it to mutual friends behind my back. Anyway, I just stopped talking to them as well and he stopped saying shit pretty quickly, and we've both been much happier pretending the other never existed. ;] Although, I've heard from coworkers that he's stopped into my job a couple of times since then. I'm just thankful I've never been there. :3 Vick: That bastard! :illgetu: |
Cass: Some people just don't grow up - just like my last roommate. :headdesk: Not going into that, but I'll just say - she was rather immature and self centered.
*huggles* Yeah, but also at the same time, I am really proud of him for finally coming out of the closet and figuring out who he was meant to be. :heart: Exactly! It hurts even worse. I'd always text him when I just wanted a laugh and the smallest things reminded me of how much I missed him. D: It's still hard... I asked him on Saturday "How's Hope?" who's their new puppy... oh my gosh, adorable little girl! And he goes "She's sleeping with daddy! ;)" Which just felt awkward to me, I didn't ask him to clarify. As much as I'm glad that we're slowly working things out. I'm still trying to wrap my mind around everything... Amelia: It just doesn't work out for some people to remain friends, even if you do really want it. |
My friend has a puppy, it's fun to play with. When it's not trying to chew my fingers. Sharp teeth! O:
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@Cass: Of course you're not crazy. Of course. c:
-scribbles some notes on- -- Hmmm. My opinion on all that is, short of marriage and deep relationships, you shouldn't have to overexert yourself trying to make any kind of relationship work, mostly friendships. Despite what kind of relationship you may have had, the fact is that people change. Just because someone was your friend or you dated them for a while, doesn't mean they need to remain in your life forever. Especially if it's not as easy. To me, it's just energy being wasted when it could be used in a better way. Not trying to diss anyone that does want to remain friends with their exes! Just, I've seen a lot of people try that and it's just.. it's not really worth it, to me. Not if it's a struggle. But I know each person can gauge where their relationship is with people. :yes: -- @Vicky: That's... very... odd. o Ao;; |
blaggh relationship talk. Must resist joining in xD
I thought me and my ex would be able to stay friends. But he blocked me on facebook so i can't even spy on him xD Massively gutting though. I loved his family, i lost a whole family when we split up, not just him. His neice and nephew were my world! Apart from him of course xD I miss being auntie donna....another reason im so broody D= |
Vicky: Awes, yeah - puppies do have sharp little teeth.
Lavi: :hug: Awes, that really does suck! Do you not have any other way to get in touch with them? |
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At least he's comfortable with who he is and who he's with now. It's just a shame he had to leave you to realise. D; I hear you! So many things remind me of my ex or the little jokes we had. :cry: He was the one person that could make me laugh whenever. I don't know if I'll ever find someone with a sense of humour like he had. |
I suppose a guy might not like you keeping in touch with his family. Because he'll think you're doing it to try and stay connected to him >.>
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@Lavi: Ooh, yeah that does suck! D:
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I loved my ex's mum, but I was never sure if she liked me since I was younger than him. She did seem to love me too though, and she still waves if she sees me. (: I'm still good friends with his little brother, mainly because I knew him for three years before I started dating Chris.
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I guess it's a good thing I've hated all of my exes families...I at least only lost a boyfriend, and not and second families. xD
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My ex's mom was a beeeech. So no loss there! :lol:
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