I was thinking that if I ever get the "balls" to, I'd like a tiger portrait on my back, but I can't decide if I want full color in a jungle, or just the tiger in black and white. It's a tough one considering it'll last, you know, forever. Haha.

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The Egyptian eye thing is a cool idea, Lavinia.

Anyone want a working pair of overies never been used ?

You can get tattoo pens and so then you can have it stenciled on and see if you like it.

I'm never getting my koi coloured in I coloured it with felt tip and I didn't like it.

Thanks guys! *loves tattoo* <3

I want to get a tattoo of Mark Bolan on a white swan on my lower back and an Ed Sheeran tattoo on my shoulder. I have the Ed Sheeran one drawn up and the concept for the Marc Bolan one. They follow this song and this song.

I was on the pill for a little while, but I always forgot to take it. I just stopped entirely. My sex drive was never effected though. :ninja:

Mm, good suggestion, HIM. I'm good without the ovaries, but I'll give the tattoo pens a try. Now I just need a good artist to do a sketch on my back.

No thanks, HIM. With working ovaries I'd have to be more careful about contraception in future. Well, I should do that anyway...

Lucky girl, Cassette. I missed my sex drive. Even now I only get it back a few days out of the month, usually a week after my cycle, when sex is all. I. think. about. I'm nearing that phase now, I can feel it. It'll be a hellish couple of days soon.

Like the episode of South Park when Cartman's cat was in heat.

But it's not like HIM's ever going to need them. No one's interested in HIM that way never have been never will be.

I'm glad Yumeh's not a girl kitty O: Them being in heat is a pain -.-

Well do you wish they did, HIM? I prefer when people aren't attracted to me. I just knock it to sexual tension and tell them to lose interest, it's their heart on the line, not mine, and I don't want that guilt on my shoulders.

My dad has a girl kitty, though they got her fixed. Thank Jebus!

@Ophelia: That sounds like me anyway. I literally have the same attitude to sex as men have. :lol:

@HIM: I lub yew!

Cats in heat are just... ugh. So bad. The exact situation usually goes that I'm petting them and legitimately enjoying our little cuddle session, then I get an angry cat vagina in my face. It makes me... uneasy to say the least.

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Men and I have an understanding when it comes to sex. It's just sex. Unfortunately I favor women, and they don't usually have the same opinion.

I've only had one relationship, long distance, with lasted 4 years and went down hill and well know I have to put with pokes at never going to get anyone and having friends go on about their relationships.

Relationships just don't seem worth it to me. They usually end in heartbreak and despair. Once in a while something "special" happens when the real concept of love is fully bloomed between two people, but that is rare and divine.

same with me havin the same mindset as a man atm xD

Even sleeping with that ex was just sex to me. It was years ago we dated, and only for a few months.

But again, i don't do one night stands, if i sleep with somebody, its usually a friend i've known a while. Or somebody from my past. I can't get attached to them that way then, cause i dont wanna ruin the friendship xD

Infact, i'd much rather the father of my kid be my best friend than just my boyfriend.

The way i am right now that makes more sense xD

I wanna be free and independant, but have the dad there for the kid all the same.

True. I've never just walked into a coffee shop and suggested sex to someone. I tend to sleep with my closer friends for the sake of comfort. I've become familiar with them and know their body already, but we rather call it a "one-night romance" than a one-night stand, we don't leave each other standing, we cuddle until morning (if we feel like it) then and go on our normal days. Haha.

I just really don't fit in

Hah yeah thats what i did with a friend when i first moved back.

Another reason i didnt think i could concieve. We were always unprotected and nothing happened. We got together a couple of times a week sometimes and cuddled all night then just went home the next day. It was like a part time relationship without all the complicated bits and emotions xD

I think i actually helped him want a relationship though, cause he ended up getting with one of his old "F--k buddies" and they're still together and really happy now xD

With me though it helped me realise i don't need a relationship to be comfortable :)

I just need to find somebody else i can do that with now!

Do you need to fit in, HIMMY?

Oh? That doesn't sound fun, HIM. If I could hug you and you wouldn't just cringe, I would.

It depends on how old you are. If you're anything younger than nineteen you shouldn't worry about "fitting in," from what I've seen, people that age are superficial and too quick to judge, it's not worth trying to impress them. If you're older, though, you're probably just hanging out in the wrong spots.

HIM's too weird for everyone apparenlty because I don't go out and get pissed or do or have ever done drugs.

Sounds normal to me O_O

I don't go to the bars, I hate them. They're no fun to me, and I stray from people who need to hide their past by using drugs, that's all they're doing. They aren't worth anyone's time unless they're seeking rehab.

I'm twenty one and I am bored with alcohol entirely.

Thats good HIM!

I did those things for a while because i wanted to fit in, and ive never felt so stupid for doing that.

I disgusted myself when i finally woke up and realised what i was doing. I was only doing it so i had people to hang with.

So i stopped, dropped all those "friends", and now im considered a loner again, but im never happier xD

I tasted fakeness, and i hated it, No thankYOU!

@HIM: I know lots of people that don't drink or do drugs. It's not weird at all. C:

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The only person I've ever slept with was my ex, so I can't really comment on one night stands.

Awww, Cass needs a rebound!

Lets meet up in Edinburgh and find ourselves one! :P