that just means he knows what he wants in a girl and he's waiting for her

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i agree with you hummy. everyone knows what's best for them.

IS BACK!!!! Done with the reading for today...MY brain is almost goo....loaded a documentary and get back to being the fatty in front of the computer....I will start working out in 20 minutes :)

I just don't like how people consider not sleeping with anyone being bad...

Poet considers that if you go that far with someone, as far as poet is concerned you're married (not legally but emotionally). Because that is sharing absolutely everything.

Originally Posted by D.J. Dead

I see no point in saving yourself till marriage. Now divorce is over 50%, but that doesn't mean I am going to slut it up either. Marriage scares the shit out of me

Although I completely agree with the divorce thing, I'm still waiting. But to each their own, right? I believe in the old-fashioned "divorce only allowable for cheating" thing.

I agree with you Hummy

@ Nobi - I agree with that, however I forgave twice before divorcing. Not recommended... forgive once, dump the second time

i don't understand how a partner can lie to your face and say that they are not cheating on you.

Queen Bee that's true and that is just me but like I said, I am not going to go slutting it up just because that is what I believe I think you should be completely comfortable with a person before you have sex with them not just because you want to get your jollies off

Poet I agree with you and you just never know what disease people have now and they might not even know they have it too because of someone beforehand.

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I don't even forgive once. I just leave, I got tired of being lied to and cheated on by one ex who shall not be named

goo
*pokes goo*

Oh my exwife told me the next day she was cheating on me... second time she didn't feel bad and wanted to sleep with him (so after I left she slept with him all the time)...
Wasn't so much a lie as it was a betrayal.

betrayal is so difficult to forrgive

*strange noise comes from closet* ..........O.O let's go see what it is!!

Originally Posted by D.J. Dead

*strange noise comes from closet* ..........O.O let's go see what it is!!

NOOOO!
take a weapon!

yup exactly hummy. it's so hard for me to trust in people again once they lie to me.

Originally Posted by spunky3

i don't understand how a partner can lie to your face and say that they are not cheating on you.

I know it is a small relief but it is better than hearing it from the other party and then having your partner say "I'm sorry hun, you know I love you. But, honestly I do not remember sleeping with him" honestly I think it would have stung a bit less if it was a girl but no she had to go crawling back to her ex boyfriend 4 ^$&*%(# times....If you want someone to talk to feel free to talk to me hun

Unregretted betrayal is impossible to forgive.

thanks ana. i'm single and i've never been married. it's difficult for me to go on dates now after meeting so many horrible guys.

Hummy I will be all right *gets attacked by a monster* okay maybe I won't...

Originally Posted by The Wandering Poet

Honestly still being a virgin I'd say go him, because finding people that are capable of waiting is rare in this world.

I'm waiting until I find the right one.

Date friends that you develop romantic feelings for... they already like being around you and if the feeling is mutual then it's not starting from "who are you?"

Hun, when the time is right I am certain you will find the one you are meant to be with. It could be something as odd as a concert or as ordinary as visiting the library and seeing someone and hitting it off.

Spunky I had sworn off men and I was single going on 4 years and then my boyfriend showed up and literally flipped my world. Now I am not going to say that it has been all hearts and roses 'cause it hasn't at all, but it has been worth it. So don't give up completely, hold onto just a shred if you have to

I'm shy, though, so I'm not into talking to guys.

ofie falls in love too easily.

How has Ofi's love life been?