but how would she know where to ping others too?

You do it in the thread that you want whoever you want to come to go to. So you'd ping her to your art pricing thread. [yes]

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That is a very good point there, hummy. [yes]

btw i worked on making my profile nice
what do you think?

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hummy did you get the ping?

you are so populair in here

Mum just gave me a call to let me know that Alex just picked up Becca and they're on their way home.

livi are you feeling a little better now?

Desi: Not really, but I can't let the sadness rule my life. Doesn't mean that I am ok though.

I hope so too. We'll see how this all goes.

maybe you can talk to your husband after you but becca to sleep? so you can atleast get it all out and maybe feel a little better

I can try, I just am afraid of the nightmares again.
But what else can I do.
Still just taking this one day at a time.

What commercial hummy? I don't watch TV.

have you ever tried to change a dream

do you know its a dream/nightmare when you dream it? ifso try to change it by thinking of a nice memory about him

i know this sounds weird, but i am a ludic dreamer, well i used to when i was smaller, not so much now anymore though i always know i am dreaming

Desi: I have tried - this is almost 7 years of it - and every time, even when I try to change it... it still gets worse than it was... and I ALWAYS wake up sobbing.
Nothing like a normal nightmare here, it's almost a night terror.
And I have tried to get rid of them, but nothing I'm trying works.

well for night terrors you might need other kind of help
like hypno therapy or something

all i know is that a nightmare is a dream but a night terror is something that is not comming from just a dream, that pure fear
so you should see a doctor about it who can send you to the right help that you need to get these terrors out

i just read on wiki that its a disorder if you get night terrors, so help is needed

You don't think I've not tried therapy for them... I have, and nothing works.

You try losing your better half, who was there from you from birth till he was taken from you at too young an age, and you'll get why I have them. Oliver was always there for me, he was my listening ear, my shoulder to lean on, the one who'd drag me out of the house because he was the more social of the two of us... and then to have him just gone...? Like that. *snaps fingers* It's rough. Even years later.

I know that the doctors will make me take medication, and I refuse to take meds. I will not take them.
That's why I'm normally up at night, because lately they've been worse than they normally are.

this from wiki might help

Well, it's not really night terrors, what I have, but close enough that I consider them that. They're just REALLY REALLY REALLY bad nightmares.

And I REFUSE to take any meds at all. I am one of those people who won't even take meds for a headache (unless it gets so bad that I can't really live with it), because I hate relying on meds to get through something... I used to be on a bunch of meds, after Oliver's death, and I hate how they make me feel.