Originally Posted by salvete (Post 1773055571)

Can you go to a professor or the dean? There's always higher-ups who will listen.

Originally Posted by CloudDreamer (Post 1773055574)

With the roommate situation... it would have to be someone here at the dorms, not the dean... but even then - as I have already said... moving rooms, no matter when it happens. is just UNBELIEVABLY stressful for me. No matter when. And the girls will get away with how they have been treating me... which is not ok with me.

Originally Posted by CloudDreamer (Post 1773055567)

I just know that going to someone above them will just result in me being moved and nothing else happening so they 'get away with all of it'. Which I know shouldn't matter but they should not be allowed to treat anyone like this.. EVER.

Oh, that's why I've not mentioned anything to them because I do not TRUST myself at all to say anything... Because I'm just so upset and peeved at their behavior in general.

The one time I got upset and did something they didn't agree with I got told "Well in my family we don't raise our voices or slam doors..." WELL SWEETIE... WE DO NOT LIVE WITH YOUR FAMILY DO WE?! That's what I told her, well I said it calmly... she was like "Oh, I know but..." And one time we had a TWO hour long talk about how I was going to change and not how we as a room were going to work together.. Because clearly how I've been doing things for SEVEN YEARS... is just wrong, and everything I do is wrong. -.- Sure since the girl that was in my bedroom with me moved out, it's not been something they've been getting on my case but basically I got told that "I will never change. It's a lost cause." And that I need to start changing EVERYTHING I do because they don't agree with how I've been doing things on my own for years. -.- *sighs*

*sighs* I'm just over immature selfish people. -.-

I've got enough stress on my plate with classes - I'm to the point where I don't even know if I can get myself to finish the semester and come back next semester... I don't even feel welcomed in my own home. -.-

Originally Posted by Amane (Post 1773055556)

Originally Posted by salvete (Post 1773055580)

Are there any support groups/clubs or student centers where you could go at or near your school? I'm trying to think of other authority figures at your institutions who would be able to help you out.

Originally Posted by Kenome-Chan (Post 1773055581)

You have a 3DS?
/did I know this before?
I feel like we don't have the same games..

Originally Posted by CloudDreamer (Post 1773055582)

I'm not sure that I can fit anything else into my schedule - plus I'm not a super social person and after classes, I'm so worn out that it takes me days to recover only to do it all over again the next week. I hardly even go to the one club I'm a member of because it just mentally exhausts me. (I don't handle noise well, and I get very easily over stimulated which exhausts me).

I've had people tell me "If you have time to get online, you have time to go and talk to someone..." but what those people don't get... is that I Do not socialize well because of the fact I do get over stimulated VERY easily... and I go online because it doesn't require me to socialize face to face with ANYONE...

Originally Posted by Kenome-Chan (Post 1773055581)

Hm that is true..
I can see that now.

And ya know I would just keep doing what I was doing.
Boo hoo on them if they think you're going to change just for THEM.

And yeah I know hoe you feel.
To the extreme.

You can do it!
I know you can!
I believe in you!

Originally Posted by salvete (Post 1773055585)

How do you feel about talking to people over the phone?

Originally Posted by CloudDreamer (Post 1773055587)

Yeah... I'm to the point where I want to start leaving post it notes EVERYWHERE because if they do that to me, because they have... I will do it to them as well...

And when people get on my case like that.. and accuse me of making excuses... etc etc etc... -.- IT MAKES ME 1) want to scream and 2) keep doing things how I want to... because they even got the FREAKING RA involved basically to tell me that there are things that are set and established guidelines (YES I KNOW THIS... I've been dorming for SEVEN YEARS NOW...) and that these things can't be changed... I KNOW. Basically treating me like a child... and I'm OLDER THAN BOTH OF THEM -- I'm even older than the RA!! D: I'm sick and tired of being treated like a CHILD! D:

Because according to them and the RA, I need a schedule for when I do my laundry, when I take my showers, when I do my homework, when I clean... I JUST NEED TO FREAKING SCHEDULE MY LIFE AROUND WHAT THEY THINK I NEED TO DO... I can tell you right now, schedules really don't work for me... -.- Regardless of what people say.

I honestly don't think I can. D:
I really don't.

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It depends on the person. [yes]

Originally Posted by salvete (Post 1773055596)

I was thinking a student center hotline of some sort, if your institution has one.

Originally Posted by Imagination (Post 1773055607)

Ello Fuu :)

Originally Posted by CloudDreamer (Post 1773055602)

But I don't see how that'd help with this situation... because it's nothing that they can fix.

*shrugs* Just forget I said anything, I've survived situations like this over the past seven years... I can somehow survive this one...

Originally Posted by Fuu-Chan (Post 1773055611)

Originally Posted by salvete (Post 1773055615)

Usually, the people in charge at student centers (not student clubs...like actual centers at the institution) are administrators themselves and willing to listen and help students figure out ways to address and solve issues. At least, that is my personal experience. I'm not sure if it would be the same way at your school.

Originally Posted by Imagination (Post 1773055618)

Doing pretty good, just watching Supernatural at the moment :D
You?

Originally Posted by Amane (Post 1773055584)

Originally Posted by CloudDreamer (Post 1773055587)

Yeah... I'm to the point where I want to start leaving post it notes EVERYWHERE because if they do that to me, because they have... I will do it to them as well...

And when people get on my case like that.. and accuse me of making excuses... etc etc etc... -.- IT MAKES ME 1) want to scream and 2) keep doing things how I want to... because they even got the FREAKING RA involved basically to tell me that there are things that are set and established guidelines (YES I KNOW THIS... I've been dorming for SEVEN YEARS NOW...) and that these things can't be changed... I KNOW. Basically treating me like a child... and I'm OLDER THAN BOTH OF THEM -- I'm even older than the RA!! D: I'm sick and tired of being treated like a CHILD! D:

Because according to them and the RA, I need a schedule for when I do my laundry, when I take my showers, when I do my homework, when I clean... I JUST NEED TO FREAKING SCHEDULE MY LIFE AROUND WHAT THEY THINK I NEED TO DO... I can tell you right now, schedules really don't work for me... -.- Regardless of what people say.

I honestly don't think I can. D:
I really don't.