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I don't do very well if I can't control a few of the variables.
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I feel like dookie :/
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Awww, I'm so sorry Roxxxy!
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My tummy was bad all day, then my breathing and heart rhythm got all wonky.
Took a nap, and woke up with a headache. And now the ex-bf called and wants to come over - I am in no mood [stare] |
Did you tell him that? Seriously, you're sick and miserable. Tell him now is not a good time and then refuse to answer the door.
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He lives about 40 mins away, but he happened to be in the area. Plus, we had stuff to give each other, and he didn't stay long.
I miss him. It's strange to not be together anymore :c |
maybe it's a good thing? give him what he deserves!
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He deserves a swift kick in the babymakers!! [yes]
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What did he do? Besides the breakup, which was clearly unfun.
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i was thinking more of a 'bobit' kind of dealio =3 Quote:
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While he was in Vegas for the EDC concert thing, he (1) took Ecstasy, and (2) made out with some chick - a friend, who was there with her husband... he just happened to have wandered off, and they took advantage of the situation. So 5 yrs, down the tubes.
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OH MY GOD! I would break up with him just for taking the ecstasy. Wow. What in the hell was he thinking?!? I am so so so sorry hon. And yeah, I'm with hummy. Just cut his junk off. Cause clearly he can't run a brain and a penis at the same time.
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what did her husband think of that
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She opted not to tell her husband. Nigel and I had promised each other from day 1 that if anything happened, we would be honest about it. I'm glad he told me, but I can't see forgiving him for it. What really makes me mad, is that he tries to hide behind the fact he was on E. I'm sorry, but the intent was clearly there before the drugs were introduced.
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as for me, i would tell her husband. i mean a friend?!! sorry i would need to get back at that bitch!
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Haha, I'm so glad to see hummy is as vindictive as I am.
But seriously, if I were her husband, I would want to know. Let's be honest, even if the ecstasy MADE him do it....his dumb ass took a drug known for lowering sexual inhibitions while away from his girlfriend in the first place. There was no way that was going to end well. |
What happened is between her and Nigel, and me and Nigel - not the 3 of us combined. I feel the honorable thing to do would be for her to tell, but she is clearly not an honorable person. She broke a vow, and it would be her duty to come clean about it. My involvement would just make things more painful to me.
---------- Post added 07-15-2014 at 10:35 PM ---------- To clarify, it was a friend of his, not mine ;) |
i do see your point, Rox. is he your friend, too
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Well, we definitely don't want things to be more painful for you. I'm pretty sure that's enough pain for a while. Jeez, I am so sorry girly. I just don't understand that kind of behavior at all. At least he was honorable enough to come clean about it.
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I don't know this woman or her husband. They are friends of Nigel's from a trip he made to California last year.
He admitted to me that he kept in touch with her, and that through all of their conversations over the past year, he had developed feelings for her. That's what hurt the most. I always feel so dumb for trusting people. I am completely open and honest to a fault, and the sentiment has never been returned. ---------- Post added 07-15-2014 at 10:44 PM ---------- Plus, this comes on the heels of putting Nikki (my cat) down a few months ago. She was my baby for 20 yrs, Nigel was mine for 5 years. It's a lot of loss to take all at once. But if I am nothing else, I am a fighter. I will get through this, and come out stronger for it ;) Maybe it's time for a girlfriend. No more boys for a while :P |
*sobs with Roxxxy* Quote:
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And I have you girls to keep me strong! [hug]
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You should NOT feel dumb for trusting a significant other. You absolutely SHOULD be able to trust them. He's dumb for being such an asshat. *hugs*
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Awww, no tears please! I am doing much better than even I expected. I still have my whole life ahead of me, and now I can open myself up to new people :D
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