Top hats are sexy~ I wanna get one so I can impress my gf. xD (Watch out, they'll get more popular with Johnny Depp having decided to play the Mad Hatter in the new Alice in Wonderland movie next year.)
I've been trying to bring my friends into Menewsha recently to. You don't appear to 'kicking and screaming' too bad... so relax. It's not like she's throwing you into a lake and you don't know how to swim. It's really not so bad. ^^ Check out the General Discussion forum and see if there's anything you find that you can yourself opinionated on. Chatting is one way to get yourself gold so you can get yourself some clothes~ (though I'm sure that if you're gf is here then she'll work for gold to dress you, too. xD)