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@ Dead Angel: Its hard when the society you are born into or raised into (I am from the US) focuses all its energy on looks. There is so much more to a person, and I am so happy that you love him and I hope it continues to be a wonderful relationship
@ B1ack0ut: Well there are a couple of things you can do. You can search through the different forums and find a thread you like, and hop in. Don't be shy, people are wonderful here. Look for one of your interests. There is everything from books, comics, and anime to discussion about real issues and debates. Make sure that you read the thread/forum rules about posting. Or you can go play one of the games that is features. I like the fishing one myself. ^.^ |
Honestly guys, its hard to believe that when I've been dumped, out of conviance, laziness and or dumped for the better looking man or, J you know this problem im sure.. be like a brother to her.
because in the end, people are material, and superficial, we try not to be and few people actually are. it's the sad fact that reality is what it is and it isnt exactly pretty |
Well you are right about tht 1 i give u tht Al....BUT ITS LIKE I SED 1 day therell be a girl tht loves you for you not for wat u look like but how u treat her
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its true though Angel but yea here in the US is a pretty hard for the most part but as they say in Forrest Gump lol
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If you're a chivalrous gentlemen these days, women think you're a homosexual or something and angel, i do know. and I remember how small everyone was in america... i got the GODZILLAAAAA look every other minute but yeah. like i said, people who truely dont care are far and few between
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i noticed u always go about ur height dude and by the way u look.... but noone ever sed Eve Loved the way Adam looked lol
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@ Alkyrius: It is a sad fact. I had been dumped for the the convenience reason. I think it was the worst one of all because I honestly felt that I had found someone that I truly connected with. :Shrugs: I think that he has seen the error in what he had done, and we're friends now and it'll probably remain that way
@ Dead Angel: See that's what makes me sad and angry. That at that age you are thinking like that. I'm all of 5'3" and I weight something like 145 and feel fantastic. I am so happy that you have a guy who can tell you that, and please remember that. :) Forget those other people, they will learn in time about the things that truly matter. |
thx panda... i was wondering how my money went up lol
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@ Alkyrius: I got different looks when I was in Japan, and it wasn't the "Crap :mouth starts moving: Its God:mouth stops moving: zilla" looks either haha. Tall people are the best though, more fun to climb
@ B1ack0ut: No problem, glad I could help you out :) |
Best thing is to have someone that you look at as a friend and a lover.
Best they love who you are, faults and all. Same with you loving them. I hate how sometimes i see shows where people tell each other they will change for them. When in fact that's not the answer, is doesn't solve anything. Wouldn't they want to be loved for who they are? People today tend to lean on sex being the bridge for what is held in relationships, but really it is kinda a down fall. Yes you love the person, but don't let sex be the only thing. Sorry i am ranting. |
Awesome point Ramen, and no there was no ranting that I could see.
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@ super-panda
because what, you like leaping tall people in a single bound ? I just have the problem I look far to intimidating. Veterans always think im a vet too, I was in chicago during last verterans day when a guy who was in 'Nam asked, where did you fight your war ? or when i was at an army base, picking up a cousin who fixes the helicopters, by the gatekeeper. Here for the reunion sir ? |
lol u r not ranting ramen u have a point it shudnt be the answer tht u shud change for someone it shud be tht ppl like you or love you for who u r not wat u look like like i sed before my baby girl ses
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and sex shudnt be the answer for a good relationship either and Al not really aproblem for height and the way u look i have ppl tht look at me and think im 14 or 15 yr old teens tht need to go skool thn a 20 year old graduate |
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@ Alkyrius: You saw my cape didn't you!?! Man, I thought I was being all sneaky about it. From your picture I didn't think you look intimidating. Kind of impressive that people would be asking you those questions though. You should give the most random answers and walk away before seeing their reactions. Make them really think about it
@ Duble J: I get carded all the time, and I mean all the time. I even got carded for buying glue at Wal-Mart. Everyone behind me started giving looks that were none to nice lol. Silly people, I really only wanted to glue things together haha |
Al: honestly i dont think thts true bc me and my baby are together for almost a year now and we still havent had sex
Panda: lol its true though get carded for everything by the way u look |
@ caped-panda : It helps that im making a face, my friend, who was with me today always points out when people are staring andd i have done shit like that, problem is communities here work differant. Like i said earlier, in Turnhout(a city) they know me as fish man..
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My friend i have known for 5 years, he got this one girl he been having a crush on for a pretty good while. Things started going alright, Until one night he called her to come to bed but she said she wasn't sleepy.
So he just went ahead and went to sleep, while she was busy on his computer. The coming morning she went to work and he got up getting ready for work too. He looked on his computer and found that she was talking to his friend last night, and it kinda went into a cyber type of deal. *if you understand* He got pissed off and wanted to wait when they are home again to ask why was she doing that last night with his friend on the computer, she didn't say anything and left the house to go to her mothers home, and she stayed there. He then started blaming himself for fussing at her, and started begging her to come back. but she started rumors about him with her friends, they was all lies. But he didn't care he still loved her and wanted her back, and he did get her back after a while, but things wasn't the same. I told him he was a fool, and i tired helping him see the light. But when a person is blind, how can you help them? I don't even like the bi...girl My relationship wasn't great either but i learned from them. |
such is life. learn from the fools, for they are the greatest teachers.
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or just learn from your own mistakes
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@ Alkyrius Fair enough, I think people stare at me only because I am usually smiling. Even if I shouldn't be. I can't help it though, it kind of comes naturally. Though in most pictures of me I am always making goofy faces haha
@ Ramen: Its a good way to look at relationships, and a good way to find what you really want in someone else too. @ Duble J: Definitely. Sometimes the best person to learn from is yourself. I say sometimes only because there are people who just can't take that extra moment to stop and take a step back to get a better look at the way things are. |
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