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Hey guys I have a ...well ...lets say something I need advice on...who want to talk about it? |
Bye Angel :)
oooh let's see, my favourite pair is like a lilac colour but it's kinda sparkly but not too sparkly like it shimmers! However my favourite bra and I say this loosely as I hate bras is cream with an orangy brown lace trim and fits nice and snugly, although Charm spilt his red baby food on it so maybe a little bit stained. I working on it though! |
Trinny, I'll help you. Sisters are good for advice!
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Trinity I'm here for a listen. <3
I've been a little depressed on the boards today so I could use something else to think about. *nods* |
thank you so much
@secret why? ;_; and Heart no it is not blue, I dont even have a blue one I wish but no. @Angel...well the thing is this....there is a user...who (please if you know who "it" is dont say it just say oh I think I know who he/she is ok? well this user is obviously very very sad....and hurt...I think....and has written several different depressing sad good bye phrases on the siggy.... It breaks my heart to see it and so I have pmed this user twice ...."it" never answered back.....that makes me think he or she doesnt want to talk to me/hates me or ....idk.... and I feel sad...idk what to do....if there is something I could do ....and today I read something he or she wrote about not wanting to remember his or her childhood and being naked in front of parents....that made me think he or she could have had an abusive childhood....I feel sad....idk... |
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*nods* Yeah I did wonder about that post too. Not as thoughtful as to go and ask though. I'm sure un named user doesn't hate you. Maybe they just don't want to talk about it you know? Sometimes talking about things that hurt...hurts. I know there's a few subjects I've had to ignore responses too because the simple mention of them has had me in tears even after years have elapsed.
Are your PMs about the sadness? Maybe just a casual hey how are you will get a response? |
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It's hard for me to ignore it because I am the type of user who likes the forums to be blank and only have orange on threads I want to read or pay attention to. So constantly clicking on this one thread to make it blank over and over makes me upset each time my attention is drawn to it. :?
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There's a little clicky thing on every forum that says mark all posts as read. Use that instead :P
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thank you , well yeah my pms were something like "Hey hun I noticed about your siggy ..makes me sad I wish we could talk and maybe I could help, if it is about some people bothering you I have this cool place...etc..." but ...well yes I understand the user feels sad ...maybe so sad he or she doesnt want to answer at all...I sometimes worry too much...but when I see something like that I cannot simply igore it...a person that writes such message is actually crying for help and attention...some people will think "oh it is an attention seeker" I would think..."maybe he/she needs a friend...it is an oportunity to help someone" ...I'm silly...I know
@Hearted sweety we both need to let go them...you know we have friends now right? |
Jayms - Good point ^^;
TrinTrin - Yeah, I know...I just continue to feel unsettled about it. If I am given a fresh start then why am I being treated like a criminal? :cry: |
Yeah, I'd avoid sending messages like that. Just try and be friendly. If the user wants to open up they will do, but only once they feel they can trust you. Like there are some things I'd tell some users but wouldn't tell others because I don't know them like that. Like I've known lady umbra longer and I wouldn't confide in her about some things whereas if you asked I'd tell you.
I'm kinda the same way but with some users they've already made me pretty pissed at them so I really can't be bothered to help them. I mean if they're going to go out of their way to cause trouble for me why should I go out of my way to help them? |
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I thought about that but then it looks like I have something to hide and I don't. Plus, I have been telling my friends who I am so it would have been known anyway.
I just gave someone an offer on a v-belt. I hope they like it. It requires them holding the item for me a little but I'm hopeful someone will do it. ^^; |
hmmm not really. IP addresses change anyway. Basically whenever your router get's shut off you get a new IP unless you're signed to a static. Routers go off a lot. Mine went off a few weeks ago due to not paying the lecky bill :P one of the sites we moniter has like 10 different ips a night.
I would have still changed it even if I was going to tell people who I am. I don't know, I guess I'm just a little too cautious. I don't like the thought of someone knowing who I am by IP. |
I don't know too much about IPs and internet stuffs....my friend is better at that then me. She's had to teach me how to resize pictures lol :lol:
Well it looks like I have a tentative offer going on a valentine's belt. They already have put it in a few offers for other vday items but if none of those are accepted they will try to hold it for me for 2 weeks and I will try to get 6.8k by then. O_O lol |
If you need to borrow some hit me up I'll lend you some.
Well there has been a computer in our house before there was children...So I'm pretty computer literate :P |
Awwww thanks I will keep that in mind. <333 I might do that in the end if I need a boost and my energy or the forums are waning. ^^; And of course, I always repay my loans quickly. *nods*
Lol I've been around computers for a long time as well, I'm just not good at doing technical things with them. XDDD |
People I have great news I finally got my beloved picture!!!!!!!!!
have a look!!! OMG Im so happy!!!! <3333 http://i24.tinypic.com/280jz91.jpg |
Wow trin, that is nice. Who did that for you??? :o
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Hehe well the offer is there. Take it if you need it and pay back when you can :)
hehe well my dad is literate and now I work with web based security :P Awww so pretty trinity! Hey guys, can anyone work something out? If someone hates you so much that they refuse to post on your threads why on earth would they lurk in them? Isn't it kinda sad? I think these people have no life.... |
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@Angel thank you <333 brb |
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