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Clarisant 01-22-2008 05:27 AM

I'm sorry Jayms. That has to be very hard to go through.

Yes. I am now. I moved out of my parents house. The sad part is no matter how terrible a man like that is you still love him. I guess its just as a child you don't understand why these things are happening, except that you know you love your parents. I think that's where a lot of children get really confused when they are in that sort of situation. They don't want to say that this parental figure is doing that in fear of never having them in their life. A child is so vulnerable and loving. That's why I hate to hear of things like that.

Amo_Angelus 01-22-2008 05:32 AM


I'm glad *huggles* I'm glad my parents are the amazing people they are.
Children are beautiful! I hate everyone who's mean to them. I swear if I had the ability to I would kill every last child abuser in the world. My girls don't understand why daddy is being so mean, or why he's stollen all their toys or why he's doing anything, only that he's daddy.

*is really crying now*
You know though, I'm still glad sue met him. As much as I HATE him, I love my girls and can't imagine them being any different. It's so strange that such Angels were produced by such an evil man.

Clarisant 01-22-2008 05:40 AM

-Huggles Jayms.- Aww..don't cry. Think of what you can do for them now. When they have someone that is loving and caring they'll be so thankful for that love given.

I know. It's horrible to hear of things like that. I always have a really hard time going around a family that is arguing. It could just be a typical family argument, no abuse whatsoever, but it gets my blood pressure up and takes all I have to not run away from it. I think it's why I avoid conflict.

Amo_Angelus 01-22-2008 05:43 AM


*snugs* Thank you.

*hugs* I can understand that. Your mene family will probably never argue. That make you feel beeter?

*is eating candycanes now*

Clarisant 01-22-2008 05:45 AM

No problem.

Yes. That makes me feel tons better. -Hugs tightly.-

Candycanes? You still have some left? I could use some chocolate right now.

Amo_Angelus 01-22-2008 05:47 AM


*cuddles* And if ever you have a problem in real life or on mene come to me. I try to help. *nod nod*

hehe we only bought these boxs on Saturday :P This is my first one. yum.
*inspects her stash* no chocolate though sorry.

Clarisant 01-22-2008 05:50 AM

Thank you, sweetie. The same goes for you. If you ever need anything just let me know.

Aw..it's okay. I was trying to think if I had anything, except for those cupcakes. They do sound really good.

That reminds me. I have to babysit tomorrow, so that means I have to get up early. Ugh.

Estrella 01-22-2008 05:50 AM

My father-figure I mentioned earlier was a horrible person -- to boys. He spoiled me and was really cruel to my older brothers. My mom wasn't with him for very long though and she then bounced from guy to guy so I guess that's why when she happened to me I was able to tell my mom or someone else. Though, most of my childhood is blocked out.

Clarisant 01-22-2008 05:52 AM

Oh no..you too? -Hugs Estrella.- We could have a weekly support group here. It's horrible that you hear of abuse so much.

Amo_Angelus 01-22-2008 05:52 AM


nooooo early! I get a lie in, no work tomorrow ^_^

Got anything else?

*huggles star*

Rad Lionheart 01-22-2008 05:52 AM

Almost at 1,000 pages now, very nice.

Estrella 01-22-2008 05:53 AM

My mom was a drug addict and always chose horrible boyfriends (obviously they'd be drug addicts too) but I'm glad most of it is blocked out because I'm sure if I'd be twice the bitch I already am if I remembered it.

Amo_Angelus 01-22-2008 05:53 AM


A support group? Now that's an idea.

*doesn't think star is a bitch*

Clarisant 01-22-2008 05:55 AM

Hm..I don't think I do, unless I want to make cookies and it's a bit too late for that.

It is almost 1,000 pages. Nice. :3

Estrella - Oiy..that's just as bad. I'm sorry you had to go through such an ordeal.

Estrella 01-22-2008 05:55 AM

XD I'd probably come to just to whine about the stuff I do remember. I'd never go see a counselor, though, because I have this huge fear that they're going to drag up some memory that would make me suicidal.

I lived in this house for over a year and literally don't remember a day of it.

Edit: I'm really excited for 1k. xD -does a happy jig-

Amo_Angelus 01-22-2008 05:57 AM


Never too late for cookies!

I had to go to a councilor, you're best never seeing one, useless! Absolutly useless! I don't hate myself any less and I don't trust people any more!

Rad Lionheart 01-22-2008 05:58 AM

What does a happy jig look like?

Clarisant 01-22-2008 05:59 AM

Lmao! That's so true. I think a counselor doesn't do anything. I tried it once and the lady just sat there and asked questions then she'd ask "How'd they make you feel?" Well, I can ask myself that.

Estrella 01-22-2008 05:59 AM

Guh, I remember going to one for awhile, when I pulled a knife out on my cousin and brother. (Who, incidentally had thrown a chair at me.) My aunt was worried I would kill them but I was like half their size and they always knew how to push my buttons. I did have a terrible temper but they knew how to set me off.

My brother had to go to anger management once and apparently he doesn't make me angry, I choose to be angry. :roll:

Amo_Angelus 01-22-2008 06:00 AM


Mine said "Now what would you like to talk about?" We spent half an hour in silence!

LMAO Thats a good one

Estrella 01-22-2008 06:01 AM

xD I hate that, she gave me some dumb books about "not feeding the monster," and I drew pretty pictures with sparkles and whatnot. xD

Clarisant 01-22-2008 06:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rad Lionheart
What does a happy jig look like?

Um...I think that means to just do a dance of anything. It's like spur of the moment. If you look up happy jig on youtube you'll see that everyone has their own idea of what happy jig is. XD

Amo_Angelus 01-22-2008 06:02 AM


Wooo page 1k!



Estrella 01-22-2008 06:04 AM

Yay, congrats Angel. ;D

Haha, I use to use the word "jig" all the time.
I use to enter into anywhere -does a little jig to quaint little jam-" XD

Clarisant 01-22-2008 06:04 AM

Yay! Hehe. 1,000 pages!

I did that once too. The first time I saw my counselor I sat there and said nothing. The second time she would just ask a question and how did that make me feel. I got tired of that real quick.


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