Personally, I would get rid of one of your anti-virus programs. Having more than one can cause them to start conflicting with each other and reduce performance on your machine. Like Kasumi said, get a spyware program or two instead (I like Malwarebytes, and I've heard good things about SuperAntiSpyware), keep them updated, and run them regularly.
I found
this to be an interesting read, as well. It may have some information that could help you.
That article also has a story or two of people who have successfully tracked down and reported their hackers. You could try to do the same, since your local police department isn't helping. Since you know who he is, you can file a report with the
Internet Crime Complaint Center (assuming you're in the United States). If you're able to find his ISP, you can also file a report with them.
Good luck to you and your friends, and I hope you're able to stop him.