Aww why are you stressing?

my boyfreiend is currently in the hospital :(
but hes getting better and my friend tom says that he is practically his same old self :)

oh wow. i hope he gets better soon!

Oh wow, what had happen to him?
Hope he keeps getting better. :3

umm well a long story short (mainly because half of it we dont know) he had a concussion the other night from somehow hitting his head and when we took him to the hospital they fouind out that he had kidney damage.
\buuuuut because they found it now they said that he should be better soon :)
at one point they said he might need a kidney transplant but idk, hopefully it doesnt come to that

holy crap! that sucks! thats completely horrible news...I am so not making it any better... umm... would a hug help? maybe some tea? i can make tea!

(yeah thats the best i got.. sorry)

hahaha its all good babes :)
I was a mess yesturday and the morning it happened, didnt get a wink of sleep and almost started crying in front of him haha
and I had the worst rage! I swear, like everything people did annoyed me!

but he is getting better :) I'm going to go see him in a few to spend the arvo with him even though he is still there
but a hug would go nicely thanks hahaha.
nobody has thought to give me one and ask if i'm okay or anything which I'm pissed about :/

Damn... well he's a very lucky guy. Doctors found out about a problem that could of gotten worse over time.
May he have a full and healthy recovery. :yes:

yeah i know .. they still dont know whether it's something that's just happened randomly in a short time or if it's something thats been there for a while.
I'm suspecting it's been there a while only because a few years ago he used to binge drink heaps!
but yeah ..

Ah well that could of triggered it. :/ He should be more careful now. Binge drinking/ eating is never good for you.
You should playfully scold him when he's feeling much better.

hahaha well I did yesturday morning when we found it but I dont think he remebers it. he had the worst short term memory, like it was that bad it was actually getting on my nerves.
i now cant handle people with concussions -.-

well he hasnt done it for a few years which is good. mainly because i told him not to hahaha and he loves me enough to not ;)
and also he doesnt have enough money to drink anymore hahaha

Oh gosh, yeah I'd get annoyed too. xD;

Aww, well that's sweet. :3
Yay for being broke? :lol: No, but seriously that's good for him.

haha yeahh he would ask the same questions like 30 times in an hour
he even said to me that we should get married and when i asked why he said cause I have awsome hair :D
thats literally the only reason he gave me hahaha
and then a few minutes after that we should have hospital sex hahahaha

yeah I know <3
hes a cutie and i literally adore and am in love with him!
it was so funny yesturday when the doctor asked how long e and him had been serious we looked at each other and burst out laughing. his parents had to say it's been on and off for a fw years now :D

and yeah i know it is .. but hes getting better with that sort of stuff. like he doesnt at all practically now and hes trying to eat really healthy to lose a bit of weight and get healthy

Well geez, sounds like he's definitely getting better. :lol: Even when in the hospital all guys think about is sex. xDD

Aww, hahaha.
Well that's good! I love that feeling!~
Oh really? :lol: Well at least you're together now.

Good for him. :yes: Eating healthy is really good, and not all healthy foods are gross either. Sometimes they end up being the best thing in the world. Lol.

Hummus is fairly healthy and it's DELICIOUS.

I'm glad he's feeling better though. Hospitals are really boring places. I hope he gets out soon.

Originally Posted by CrimsonShadow

Thank you Suona:hug:!!

You're very welcome! ^^

Originally Posted by sweet_serender159

haha yeahh he would ask the same questions like 30 times in an hour
he even said to me that we should get married and when i asked why he said cause I have awsome hair :D
thats literally the only reason he gave me hahaha
and then a few minutes after that we should have hospital sex hahahaha

yeah I know <3
hes a cutie and i literally adore and am in love with him!
it was so funny yesturday when the doctor asked how long e and him had been serious we looked at each other and burst out laughing. his parents had to say it's been on and off for a fw years now :D

and yeah i know it is .. but hes getting better with that sort of stuff. like he doesnt at all practically now and hes trying to eat really healthy to lose a bit of weight and get healthy

lol My boyfriend says random stuff like that all the time. :lol: But that could also have to do with him being a total stoner, maybe. -__-

But the marriage thing is pretty funny. My bf all the time will randomly say "we should make a kid together," just totally out of the blue. I always ask him why, and his general response is that it'd just be so cute. :lol: And once he said that he'd totally marry me if I'd just continue giving him back massages all the time. :roll: I told him that was a terrible reason to marry someone.

Oh yeah, I can definently imagine a guy saying they want hospital sex, though. :yes:

Thats almost a good thing he got a concussion, then. They found out something potentially rather dangerous that was wrong in the process. Kind of like how you hear of those stories of people having to go to the hospital for something that happened, and then they discover someone major and are able to fix it before it turns into something that could have killed them. It's scary sometimes to think things like that are possibly going on that we dont even know about. Makes you realize life shouldn't be taken for granted.

But I hope that he recovers super quickly and is back to his old self in no time. ^^ And i'm sorry people aren't considering your feelings too much in this. If that happened to a rl friend of mine's bf, then thats definently one of the first things I'd be asking them, and trying to be there for them so that they'd have somebody.

Wow, that is a nice nom of Crim :)

Rozzie ; hahaha yeah well he is feeling much better and is looking so muc better to!
I had to remind him of alot of things he didnt remember doing hahaha.

haha yeah i love him <3 hes my gorgeous special man!

hmm well I think he is going to ask about what he should and shouldnt eat before the send him home sometime tomorrow.

Fairy ; Thanks :) I dont think i've ever had Hummus :s
haha yeah he was complaining today that he was bored and shit and just wanted to go home :D

Suona ; hahaha yeah when I told all this he's just alughed and said yeah that sounds like me :D
and he kept poking my boob and stuff lol

yeah he asked me again today what i said to the marriage thing. like yeah i'd loooove to marry him, but one day in a few years. not right now and not just because he was in hospital. but yeah i would like to marry him.
umm I think cause of my hair is the only reason he has asked me :s although he did make it up to me afterwards by being all cute and saying i was the girl for him and that he loved me lots and shit hahahaha <3

yeah thats what he said today. if he hadnt have had this happen to him then who knows how long his kidneys and shit wouldve been failing for before they found it :/
its terrifying to think that if he hadnt been hit in the first place that he could be so far worst later on down the track :/

thanks so much for the support guys :)
Its actually really good to talk about these sorts of things to people who arent actually there.
as for people not considering my feelings, I had a huge go at a friend of mine about it because he was saying that I was trying to make this all about me and that I need to get oer myself because he will be fine.
but seriously. You can't expect me to not be worried and shit because my bf is in hospital! It's ridiculous!

@ sweet - lol Yeah. Guys sure have a way of being silly, dont they? :lol:

lol Your hair must be amazing. xP I'm not ready for marriage yet. Especially not with how my bf is right now. I mean, if he gets his act together and starts making better life decisions and stuff and thinking more straight, showing signs of more maturity, then maybe it could be a possibility. He makes me laugh and happy, but we haven't been together very long. We've only know each other for the same duration that we've been seeing each other. :lol: And we're craaazy different. But we're young, so I dont think that marriage is really an issue right now, you know? Thats something to really think hard about and do down the road when you know you're ready. Also, thats good that he made it up to you and was cute. ^^ Its always great when you get sweet little compliments and what not like that. :)

Definently. Who knows what could have happened. But its very good that it got noticed before it got out of hand.

You're very welcome. ^^ I know exactly what you mean. I generally feel so much better talking to everyone on here about things than my rl friends, because they dont seem to be as there for me when it comes to listening sometimes. And their opinions are generally more biased.

Aah. I had a feeling that might happen. There is always one of those that is like that. I mean, sometimes people are like that with such situations, but I dont think that there is anything wrong with wanting a little comfort when something like that has happened. If someone very close to me was in the hospital and hurt, then i'd be freaking out and paranoid, too. I'd also expect and hope for some comforting and support from the people close to me. If its a boyfriend/husband/significant other then you definently have that right to be frantic and worrying! Same with super close family members and what not. Its not something you can control.

haha yeah they reall do :3

hahahaha well this is a pic of what my hair looks like right now (click the word pic) and ik if its so amazing that it warrents a proposal hahaha
but yeah I know what you mean. Ive known troy (his name) for about 3 years now maybe even 4 and through that whole time we have been not only best friends but a couple to many times for me to count. it's weird. We will go out for a few months, something will happen and we will break up but something just attracts us to each other and we always find a way to make things right and just fall in love all over again. like yeah I will admit there have been other guys, not many but others, but it's just one of things that when you truly love someone they are all you think about, even if you try to change it.
He makes me smile, he makes me laugh and he has even made me cry on numerous occasions but idk, something about being held by him and only him just makes me feel warm and safe.
I am so glad that i could actuallly find that. Whether it stays for the rest of our lives and we grow old together like we want to or we only last a few years i know that we will always be friends. Hes my best friend and always has been and i can see that he always will. the amount of boy troubles he had to quietly sit through just for me is ridiculous but he still did it. even if we still continnue our on again/off again relationship I know that at thevery least I can always turn to him for love :) <3
(and now i'm crying hahaha)

It;s just really scary seeing someone that I love and adore so much be like that ... Ive already had to many people i my life spend their last days sick and dying in a hospital bed, to sick and tired to even hug me.

yeah I agree with you on that! the amount of times Ive had fights with the same people because i dont talk to them. Just because I dont talk to them in particular doesnt mean I dont talk .. 9 times out of 10 i will turn to people i have become close with on Ernya or even here on mene ... Ive found the people on here are far more understanding and willing to listen then my real life friends sometimes.
as for him .. hes just a sook and a nobody because, even though he wont admit it I know its true, hes alone and desperatly wants what i have but because hes so fucked in the head he cant get it. I have gone out with him and he broke it off with me ..

haha I havent realised how mammoth my posts have been on this topic haha

well it sounds like you have been through a lot and that it cant really be explained in smaller posts. i think larger posts are great. I also find that people on mene are more understanding and willing to listen then real life friends at times. and there is always someone here who can tell you exactly what you need to hear. when my grandfather died, mene was there for me more so then my own family. so i definitely understand that.

Originally Posted by Roxxxy

Wow, that is a nice nom of Crim :)

Roxxxy!!!!!!!!!!:hug: I've missed you girly!!

Hi Crimson :hug: How have you been?

I've been good! How have you been?:)
Gotta go grocery shopping. See ya later Roxxxy:hug:

I've been sick :( Getting better though!