@Sera
yeah, I've heard that. But I don't think that's true for all men. I mean my step dad doesn't mind.. Hmm..

@Keyori
really? Yay ^^ I don't mind lol.

hmm.. I personally don't think I would mind if my future husband had kids already..as long as it wasn't like 20 and he wasn't paying child support for all of them and was some sort of dead beat dad..then I wouldn't even date him in the first place.

happy new year everyone!! how are people?

Kay gets called fat by our adoptive mom... :gonk: It makes her feel horrible and sad!

@Flish
Oh that's horrible!!

lol awesome! This place is going fast!

Okay Hello to everybody that said hello!

And to those of you who saw the pic, funny huh!

aww, how cute flick!!

My dad calls me fat...

I have polycystic ovary syndrome, and he refuses to understand that my weight won't disappear overnight even though I'm on new meds ;_;

>.< Flish: KEEK HER IN THE SHIN.

Keyori: -clings to her Cyster as those scary women on a support forum Flink's on call eachother- O_

Welcome d2hiriyuu, to a crazy fast thread.

Hey riyuu!! How are you?

@Flish: Aw really, that sucks!
I know lots of moms that call their daughters fat though, but it is in a way where you know they still love their daughter and just care about them.

Originally Posted by d2hiriyuu

happy new year everyone!! how are people?

Happy new year to you too

How are people? Lol people are cool?
J/k I good, yourself?

Hi Chiku! I hope you win MVP for this thread! :D

Originally Posted by Flink

Adopting irks guys because if the kid's GOOD at something, it'll bruise the male's ego because he can't claim it's HIS genes.

Instead it's his kid... but he did nothing to give the kid natural talent in it.

Hmm.. that's true.. still, male's should learn to control there precious ego and not let it get to them. >.>;

Originally Posted by Sera

Ari, that is mostly what is thought.
For some reason, they don't like raising other men's children. Women on the other hand...guess it's just in us.

Maybe it's just some maternal instinct that females have when they're near a kid?

Originally Posted by Keyori

I think I'll make one first, in case I have twins.

That way I can just stop at two xD

And if I have triplets... I dunno what I'd do. Fuyumi, I'll give the third one to you xD

XD You'd want to give away a kid of yours if you'd have an extra? D:
Then what if you had quintuplets or something? o.o;

Originally Posted by BellyButton

Hmm, you guys haven't encountered vengeful stepmothers? I think women can be just as crappy about taking care of other people's kids as men can.

Yeah, but males tend to be like that more than females. At least it seems like that. >.>;

Is Belly a male or female? And would Belly ever adopt?

Just to let you all know I won't be posting much till about half an hour or so from now. I need to eat and enter my sleigh.

Good Luck Chi!! ~ <3

If I were pregnant with more than three, I'd do selective reduction anyway so that I'm not endangering the health of myself or my future children.

good trying to finish my 3rd set before end of event.

Originally Posted by Flink

>.< Flish: KEEK HER IN THE SHIN.

Who are you telling Flish to kick in the shin? o.o

It stinks though... it's causing Kay a lot of mental issues... she relapsed into her depression for a while even *Pout*

His adoptive mom or something like that

*hugs Flish* Pass this to Kay for me please?

Originally Posted by d2hiriyuu

good trying to finish my 3rd set before end of event.

Oh thats good, I wish you the best of luck getting that set
Cool items huh

Yus, adoptive mom who hurts my sister's self esteem. >.o

@Keyori
Oh wow.. that sucks.. My dad called me fat too..in an indirect way..he also told me I had thick eyebrows..I'm so glad i don't live with him.

My mom has only called me fat once..and that was when I was in 4th grade.. Needless to say I've had a complex about my weight ever since.. I don't understand parents that insult their children. You should be kind to your children. I mean they are your kids..

I'm sure you'll be a good parent ^^

Ari, I bet you are right.

Fuy, I think there is a difference between marrying a woman who already has children and then just adopting...never know.

Passed along *noddle*