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xuvrette 12-30-2015 06:18 PM

Lavivi, I hope you could strike a balance life, your boss is a considerate one?

Velvet 12-30-2015 06:18 PM

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I'm addicted to Rune Factory...

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salvete 12-30-2015 06:19 PM

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I have a friend who was taking oral contraceptives and she became super emotional because of the hormones. so at one point she just stopped and they just used condoms

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Lavinia 12-30-2015 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by xuvrette (Post 1773543945)
I have particular sleep habit... difficult sleeper I am. I have to be in lying down position, with pillow AND prefrably my bolster pillow or dutch wife.

Lavivi, go rest. If that work is that important, you better be prepare for it.

I'm a bit of a comfort fiend too, everything has to be in the right position or i won't sleep, and having somebody laying next to me doesnt help, i usually like to sleep with one pillow between my legs and another behind me (memory foam for sure), but then i like to curl up the duvet under my chin to hold my arm still and yeah, then my pj's might have rolled up my back and i can feel the crease and ARGH I NEED TO START OVER. NOW IM GETTING TOO HOT TO HAVE THE DUVET THERE.

/example of me every night

LiviInLove 12-30-2015 06:20 PM

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Being a full time mummy to under 5's does sound much harder than what i'm going through atm for sure!

I have started wearing earplugs yeah, they do help a bit, but i've lost one so i need to order some more cause the normal foamy ones don't fit me properly.

I need sleeping pills really cause i can't settle and i get hot and bothered when i can't get to sleep and then it's impossible. I got up at 3am this morning to have a cry about the fact i couldn't sleep, while the mr was snoring away happily after being in bed for 5 minutes (he left me to sleep alone and played a game, didn't help though i was still awake when he joined!)


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Anyway enough of that haha, where's happy Lavi gone D=

Relationships are hard when you're an anxious insomniac that can't seem to find the right contraceptive. God help us if i ever get pregnant xD

It's why I rarely get on anymore - they are with their grand parents at the moment which is why I've got a bit of time to get on - when I should be cleaning.

I hate hate hate sleeping pills. I hate having to drug myself - personal reasons.

I'm an insomniac - I have 2 under 5, and I love my sleep. Which don't really work well at all together. Thankfully my contraceptives are working - MY BODY NEEDS A BREAK! It's just everything else right now not fully cooperating. But I just push on. [yes] Somehow.

salvete 12-30-2015 06:21 PM

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such strong people <3

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Lavinia 12-30-2015 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by salvete (Post 1773543956)
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I have a friend who was taking oral contraceptives and she became super emotional because of the hormones. so at one point she just stopped and they just used condoms

Thats me right now, only been a week or so since i stopped so i guess i need longer to let it leave my system.

It's just too busy at work right now for anybody to take a few days off but she is aware i am going to be asking in the new year. Lets see what happens i guess.

LiviInLove 12-30-2015 06:21 PM

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I have a friend who was taking oral contraceptives and she became super emotional because of the hormones. so at one point she just stopped and they just used condoms

Haha! My hubby would throw a fit if we had to go back to those again. [lol] xD I have threatened him with a box of them a few times when he keeps pushing - he doesn't anymore - for Baby # 3... I told him we're waiting. [lol] And I mean it! :P

salvete 12-30-2015 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Lavinia (Post 1773543965)
Thats me right now, only been a week or so since i stopped so i guess i need longer to let it leave my system.

It's just too busy at work right now for anybody to take a few days off but she is aware i am going to be asking in the new year. Lets see what happens i guess.

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alrighty hope it works out! <3

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Lavinia 12-30-2015 06:24 PM

Haha aw. My partners the opposite he doesnt want kids yet, and i guess im in no rush but i do worry at times he won't change his mind. He's one of those guys that cringe at the sound of a child crying or playing loudly xD

I'm sure it'd be different if it was happening though. Just got to sort my head out first before he starts expecting me to be like this forever D=

salvete 12-30-2015 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by LiviInLove (Post 1773543967)
Haha! My hubby would throw a fit if we had to go back to those again. [lol] xD I have threatened him with a box of them a few times when he keeps pushing - he doesn't anymore - for Baby # 3... I told him we're waiting. [lol] And I mean it! :P

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aw hehe maybe when the other kids are older

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LiviInLove 12-30-2015 06:26 PM

Alex wants a gaggle of kids. XP But my poor body needs a break - not no from me, just a not now for the time being.
Of course if something happens and we do get pregnant -- we'll love him or her, but we're not actively trying to get pregnant.

I'd say it's something that you two need to sit down and talk about - and figure out where things are going for you two. With you possibly wanting kids in the future and him not wanting kids. Just figure out what you two both want and make it work for the both of you.

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aw hehe maybe when the other kids are older

Oh that's what I've told him. It's not a no - it's a 'we're waiting until Sophia is a bit older'... Like 3 or 4 older. :P HAHA! But if something does happen, accidentally -- no biggie. We'll live. [love]

Lavinia 12-30-2015 06:27 PM

I think he'd be happy to adopt but i haven't the slightest idea about any of that, ah well i'm only 25 he's 30 next year maybe by the time I'M 30 he will start thinking more seriously xD

LiviInLove 12-30-2015 06:29 PM

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I think he'd be happy to adopt but i haven't the slightest idea about any of that, ah well i'm only 25 he's 30 next year maybe by the time I'M 30 he will start thinking more seriously xD

I still think you two should sit down and talk about what you both want... Because assuming what the other wants - isn't good in a relationship. Just sit down and talk about what both of you want out of the relationship.

Lavinia 12-30-2015 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by LiviInLove (Post 1773543979)
Alex wants a gaggle of kids. XP But my poor body needs a break - not no from me, just a not now for the time being.
Of course if something happens and we do get pregnant -- we'll love him or her, but we're not actively trying to get pregnant.

I'd say it's something that you two need to sit down and talk about - and figure out where things are going for you two. With you possibly wanting kids in the future and him not wanting kids. Just figure out what you two both want and make it work for the both of you.

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Oh that's what I've told him. It's not a no - it's a 'we're waiting until Sophia is a bit older'... Like 3 or 4 older. :P HAHA! But if something does happen, accidentally -- no biggie. We'll live. [love]

Aw thats cute. Yeah he did once say that if i ever got pregnant by accident he would support me 100% whatever i chose to do, im sure he'd be a great dad once it happened but obviously i'd rather he wanted it as much as me so im happy to wait a few more years =3

Our jobs and pay arn't stable enough anyway yet, our shift patterns change every week it'd be so hard to get babysitters. And above all that we're in a third floor flat with no lift so buggies would be a HUGE problem.


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Yeah Livi i intend to do that once my heads in the game again, we will just have to survive oldschool for a while till i figure out what to try next, only thing i've not used yet is the coil, and i'm really not sure haha

LiviInLove 12-30-2015 06:33 PM

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Aw thats cute. Yeah he did once say that if i ever got pregnant by accident he would support me 100% whatever i chose to do, im sure he'd be a great dad once it happened but obviously i'd rather he wanted it as much as me so im happy to wait a few more years =3

Our jobs and pay arn't stable enough anyway yet, our shift patterns change every week it'd be so hard to get babysitters. And above all that we're in a third floor flat with no lift so buggies would be a HUGE problem.

I never let my brother forget I was the one who gave mum her first grand kid- despite me being younger. [lol]
And that is understandable - have you talked to him about how you feel about this? Or does he not know?

I can relate to that - we're on the second floor with no elevator... Outdoor stairs plus icy weather during the winter -- not fun! XD Scary!

Lavinia 12-30-2015 06:33 PM

Right i think im gonna start getting ready to go to mothers. Wish it would stop raining though argh.

I'll be back in a bit if i don't fall asleep xD

Thanks for listening to my moaning haha, i'm sure i'll be fine in a week or so!

Roxxxy 12-30-2015 06:33 PM

Vanilla double dirty chai with soy and cinnamon [drool]

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Velvet 12-30-2015 06:33 PM

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It's moving nicely in here.

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LiviInLove 12-30-2015 06:34 PM

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Yeah Livi i intend to do that once my heads in the game again, we will just have to survive oldschool for a while till i figure out what to try next, only thing i've not used yet is the coil, and i'm really not sure haha

Sounds good to wait until you've figured out what you need to do for you. :] Could you talk to your doctor about how it's affecting you and what they'd recommend?

Amane 12-30-2015 06:34 PM

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Salvete, there is
no flipping fun to be had when it's family.

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LiviInLove 12-30-2015 06:35 PM

Haha, no worries hon!

Amane 12-30-2015 06:35 PM

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Thank God for other posters showing up.

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salvete 12-30-2015 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by LiviInLove (Post 1773543979)
Alex wants a gaggle of kids. XP But my poor body needs a break - not no from me, just a not now for the time being.
Of course if something happens and we do get pregnant -- we'll love him or her, but we're not actively trying to get pregnant.

I'd say it's something that you two need to sit down and talk about - and figure out where things are going for you two. With you possibly wanting kids in the future and him not wanting kids. Just figure out what you two both want and make it work for the both of you.

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Oh that's what I've told him. It's not a no - it's a 'we're waiting until Sophia is a bit older'... Like 3 or 4 older. :P HAHA! But if something does happen, accidentally -- no biggie. We'll live. [love]

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I'm glad! :) positive outlook on things!

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Amane 12-30-2015 06:36 PM

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LEET POSTING.

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