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#276
Old 11-04-2009, 03:11 PM

So he stays friends with her because...? Does he really think she is mentally challenged? Is that why? I'm kind of confused...

Sounds like she is really just looking for attention... Which in turn is probably caused by a whole mess of other things that would require a professional helping her.

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#277
Old 11-04-2009, 03:14 PM

Because if he stopped talking to her, she would freak out on me.
At least that's his excuse. I keep insisting I can take care of my self. Especially because she constantly tells me how much of an asshole she is and how much she /doesn't/ want to talk to him.
I think he likes the drama a little bit. xD;

She's not the brightest bulb.
But I don't think she's flat out retarded.
Her sister is an anorexic and living at home with mom and dad who she is obviously really close to, and from what I saw over the weekend, every chance she had to show off, she did.
So I do think its all for attention. She isn't getting much with Matt no longer fawning all over her. And mommy and daddy now focused on Kristen.

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#278
Old 11-04-2009, 03:21 PM

I'm not thinking he should just flat out stop talking to her. Easing out of any sort of relationship is difficult and requires the utmost care. I really think, if he wants to get out of it, that he should slowly ease up on the conversations. Don't talk to her as much. Just small, gradually increasing amounts. I know if I don't want to talk to someone/do something, I give the excuse that I have school work or something.

She should probably see someone about all this. Frequently, when say a sibling is going through a tough time, it seems to affect everyone. I know that sounds like one of those commercials for anti-depression meds or something but it's true.

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#279
Old 11-04-2009, 03:26 PM

I know, he has started talking to her a lot lot less since we started dating. And I don't let her hang out with us if it's just Matt and I. I make her bring other people along or make sure Matt has JP with him.
Matt's excuse is usually me. Me or he's in class.
He takes a lot of classes. x.x </3

I know, I suggested that to her and she blew me off. She's like, "I don't even take my medication anymore why would I see a therapist"
"Because it's obviously not working."
"Yeah whatever Abbi go hang out with Matt. K BYE."

@___e;; <3;

Sorry for all the ranting.
I think it's also in part my nerves that are making me sick.
Talking about it in a coherent manner really helps me. x.x

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#280
Old 11-04-2009, 08:28 PM

Hello everyone.
I've been a bad captain and haven't been around since the last event.
and i don't know how much i'll be here for this one either :(
i'm no longer a lazy student with time to spare. I have to do things like find a job lol

i want to be a kid again XD

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#281
Old 11-04-2009, 08:50 PM

Hi everyone. Sorry if I'm slow, I'm playing a different game at the same time. Dx
Hi anyway =D

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#282
Old 11-04-2009, 09:15 PM

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Hi everyone. Sorry if I'm slow, I'm playing a different game at the same time. Dx
Hi anyway =D
Hi iZennon

what other game are you playing?

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#283
Old 11-04-2009, 09:45 PM

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Hello everyone.
I've been a bad captain and haven't been around since the last event.
and i don't know how much i'll be here for this one either :(
i'm no longer a lazy student with time to spare. I have to do things like find a job lol

i want to be a kid again XD
Ya, me too. Job hunting sucks massively >__<

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#284
Old 11-04-2009, 10:09 PM

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Ya, me too. Job hunting sucks massively >__<
doesn't it just *cries*
all the xmas temp jobs are pretty much gone, and because the economy is down the toilet, there are no other jobs here either.

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#285
Old 11-04-2009, 10:20 PM

Hahaha. Heya Captain. O:
Supppp? :3

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#286
Old 11-04-2009, 10:34 PM

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Hahaha. Heya Captain. O:
Supppp? :3
Hi monstahh` :)

i'm good. it's starting to get a bit cold here now. I love the UK, but i wish it wasn't so wet and cold here lol

oh oh oh! i just got a shiny new phone ^_^
It's the new Sony Ericsson with the 12 megapixel camera :)
it's lovely and shiny =3

how have you been?

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#287
Old 11-04-2009, 10:45 PM

Oh my, seems like quite a few pages have gone by today. ^_^

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#288
Old 11-04-2009, 10:47 PM

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Oh my, seems like quite a few pages have gone by today. ^_^

Hello Dae :)
Long time no see. I've been a very bad captain >_<

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#289
Old 11-04-2009, 10:53 PM

Hello captainsavvy! And that's ok. I haven't been a very good thread keeper for the past two weeks. ^_^; Way too busy with classes and stuff... Should actually be working on my excel project now....

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#290
Old 11-04-2009, 11:07 PM

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Hello captainsavvy! And that's ok. I haven't been a very good thread keeper for the past two weeks. ^_^; Way too busy with classes and stuff... Should actually be working on my excel project now....
I've been job hunting since finishing uni. There just isn't anything anywhere :(

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#291
Old 11-04-2009, 11:10 PM

It is a terrible job market right now... Terrible. That's why I'm thankful that I've kept my part time job till now so I don't have to look for something.

Edit: Oh my... appears as though I've killed the thread for a bit...

Last edited by secretdae007; 11-05-2009 at 01:44 AM.. Reason: for killing the thread apparently...

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#292
Old 11-05-2009, 02:22 AM

It was sleet/raining a little today. P:
(Well this evening.)

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#293
Old 11-05-2009, 02:51 AM

Hello all, would've posted here yesterday but couldn't find the thread...^^;

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#294
Old 11-05-2009, 03:03 AM

That's why you subscribe. <3333
;DDD <3
doitdoitdoit

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#295
Old 11-05-2009, 04:08 AM

*pokes her head in*

I found you, monstahh! :'D <3<3
*hugglesquishes*
^^

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#296
Old 11-05-2009, 04:19 AM

OH GO ITS A RY. SHE'S TRYING TO EAT ME. <3

*snuggles ry.*
cute avatar. :)

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#297
Old 11-05-2009, 04:28 AM

*noms on your rose*
>;P
xDD;;
<3<3

And aww, thanks. ^^;;
I don't like it though. D: </3
Third avatar in a few hours. @[email protected];; </3
I'm at an avatar rut. ;~;

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#298
Old 11-05-2009, 04:29 AM

My poor rose.
<cries>

wow, really? D: I've had this one for a few days now.
*so proud*
...with minor alterations.

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#299
Old 11-05-2009, 04:32 AM

hellloooooooooooooooo!!!

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#300
Old 11-05-2009, 04:37 AM

Hello Austen. lol!

 


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