Originally Posted by Amane

Don't even get me STARTED on straightening curly hair. My hair naturally makes tight, spiral curls (the joys of African hair…) and tangles a LOT. It takes a long time to brush, comb, and straighten it, on top of it being a painful process. I wouldn't dare cut it, though. It almost reaches my waist, and I've never, ever had it cut.

Oh, your hair sounds beautiful though! I've cut mine for trims, and then two major cuts in the last 7 or so years, the last one was 10 1/2 inches to donate to Locks of Love (about 15 months ago or so). ^_^ But I'm re-growing it back out again.

Originally Posted by ClockReject

sure sure

Why you no believes me?

Originally Posted by nemo.love_22

Yeah - doesn't help that no one believed me when I was younger with certain things - and so I ended up acting like someone I was not because I saw myself as not normal, so because of that my mom believes the lie and hasn't taken the time to get to know the real me, and she says that she's trying, but I don't think she is. :(

she probably is, its just hard for parents to understand their children sometimes. you have to understand, she may see you as the person you were when you were a toddler. people change as they grow up and that can be hard to understand for parents. they also have an idea in their head of who they want you to be and subconsciously or consciously push their children towards that image. they do it because they love you and want you to be the best you can be at all times. but sometimes that can be pushy and lack the understanding that a child needs.

i really have been through this and have talked to lots and lots of councilors. no parent is perfect and they all try to be, but there are things that people just cant get past sometimes.

see you need to be just as understanding as you need them to be with you. its hard to do though. specially when you have to start it or be the grown up in the relationship. but its worth it.

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oh my gosh long posts... :S

Originally Posted by Mystic

I am back for a bit...hopefully.

Hello! :D

*hugs thread*

I've never had my hair cut in Glasgow. It only ever gets cut if someone drags me to a hairdresser when I'm home.

Originally Posted by nemo.love_22

My photo has been uploaded and shared, it's on this page, I think, or the previous page. :)

I found it. You have really nice hair :)

Originally Posted by ClockReject

I should just always be naked.

XD that would be hilarious

Mmmm lollipops

Originally Posted by blueblackrose

Why you no believes me?

cause you look like you're up to sneaky stuffs.

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Originally Posted by DJ Dead

XD that would be hilarious

well not in real life, no one wants to see that shit, not even me.

Originally Posted by bloodstainedwings

she probably is, its just hard for parents to understand their children sometimes. you have to understand, she may see you as the person you were when you were a toddler. people change as they grow up and that can be hard to understand for parents. they also have an idea in their head of who they want you to be and subconsciously or consciously push their children towards that image. they do it because they love you and want you to be the best you can be at all times. but sometimes that can be pushy and lack the understanding that a child needs.

i really have been through this and have talked to lots and lots of councilors. no parent is perfect and they all try to be, but there are things that people just cant get past sometimes.

see you need to be just as understanding as you need them to be with you. its hard to do though. specially when you have to start it or be the grown up in the relationship. but its worth it.

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oh my gosh long posts... :S

Which I do totally get. I just am tired of her acting like I'm supposed to be someone that I'm not because that's what she expects of me, but it's not something that I'm comfortable with. If that makes sense. I am trying to be the bigger person, but when she repeatedly does what she says she won't do... I start to get a bit short fused. And long posts are ok. They don't bother me.

Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster

Mmmm lollipops

I got really big one lollipop in my room :P

Originally Posted by Nephila

My hair needs a volume thingy. It's not thin just flat and boring.

Swapsies? :D

Originally Posted by Neora

I found it. You have really nice hair :)

Thank you! =] I swear sometimes it has a mind of it's own. *laughs* It is very good at being annoying - so I usually always have it back in a pony tail and out of my face. :P

Originally Posted by Neora

I got really big one lollipop in my room :P

I have a bunch of small ones xD

Originally Posted by Neora

How its possible? Usually my hair is straight, sometimes wavy but they tangled up really easily...

I have no clue, my hair is just crazy and it used to be really curly, like Shirley Temple curly. Now it is just crazy. My hair tangles really easily and it sucks when my fiancé wants to play with my hair and it is just in knots

Hello, Nemo ^^


I wish I had curly hair then I'd be tempted to grow it out or dread it. I have plain straight hair though.

@Nemo: It can look pretty. It reminds me of Cleopatra. From a distance it looks like thick braids, but it's not! It's so painful to straighten, though. D:

I saw a Wrennajenna!

Originally Posted by ClockReject

cause you look like you're up to sneaky stuffs.

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well not in real life, no one wants to see that shit, not even me.

Clock! Love your body!! And I will ignore my hypocritical comment :P

Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster

I have a bunch of small ones xD

I couldn't eat it for 1 month because I didn't have time xD Now I still don't have time ;)

My hair is curlier when it's shorter but at this length it's just wavy.

Originally Posted by Amane

@Nemo: It can look pretty. It reminds me of Cleopatra. From a distance it looks like thick braids, but it's not! It's so painful to straighten, though. D:

I saw a Wrennajenna!

Sounds like a pain to straighten!

Originally Posted by Amane

Don't even get me STARTED on straightening curly hair. My hair naturally makes tight, spiral curls (the joys of African hair…) and tangles a LOT. It takes a long time to brush, comb, and straighten it, on top of it being a painful process. I wouldn't dare cut it, though. It almost reaches my waist, and I've never, ever had it cut.

That sounds so beautiful! Im amazed that you've never had it cut!

Originally Posted by Neora

I couldn't eat it for 1 month because I didn't have time xD Now I still don't have time ;)

So...do you just sit there and look at it!?!?

Originally Posted by KatMagenta

Straightening hair seems like effort. -_-

It is *_*
Which I really should go do now if I want to be ready to go to uni in time.