Originally Posted by ClockReject

Seriiii<3
I struggling with not liking certain people, and they frequent a lot of threads that I usually post in, so I tend to disappear once they come around. I know that sounds bad, but it's really hard for me to be around them and not say anything.

Clock! <3 <3 <3

That's understandable, and it's probably for the best that you don't engage the people you don't care for. Getting out before hard feelings can brew tends to be a sensible way to go about things.

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

Stop all these bad feelings!

Corn gives Clock good feelings?

Originally Posted by Seridano

I'll do as much helping as I can but, unfortunately, this is not a good week for me. There's much to be done and not nearly enough time to do it.

i hope you breeze through things you need to get done, Seri
are they fun things to do, at least?

@Rette: Ewww! I hope not!

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-hands a roasted corn to Clock- ;D

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

Stop all these bad feelings!

Personally, I think it's good to sort through these things every now and again. It tends to show folks that they aren't as alone as they might have thought. A good many of us share some of the same feelings, troubles, and insecurities.

I know I tend to forget that sometimes.

Originally Posted by ClockReject

Seriiii<3
I struggling with not liking certain people, and they frequent a lot of threads that I usually post in, so I tend to disappear once they come around. I know that sounds bad, but it's really hard for me to be around them and not say anything.

*blinksblinks*
Considering the amount that you disappear on me! O__O
T___T

-LOL-

Originally Posted by Kat Dakuu

most people don't want the item or HATE large threads. I got my 100 posts and I'm only here in class because no other hangout of mine is active at this time. I don't like threads like this.

i'm sorry, Kat

Originally Posted by Seridano

Aww, sweetie! -hugs- You kinda sound like me. Most of my socializing is done online these days because I am still looking for work and thus without a car. Makes it rather difficult to get out and about (that and x amount of rejections can get a person pretty down, so I've not wanted to go out and play the socialite). I've been at my wit's end more than a few times and the bf is the accidentally insensitive at the worst times sort, so most of my encouragement and support has come from the net (which probably sounds a bit sad).

I don't drive period, I don't even have my license, but that has never been an issue for me, because I do have friends who drive. But I've been dealing with crap from my parents about being more social and mom is determined something is wrong with me because I'm not more active and blah blah blah.. I'm not depressed... although if she keeps on saying things like that, I will start believing it. >.< *sighs* I just hate it, because I'm sick of trying and just having it feel like no one wants to talk to me. It's a surprise, even to me, that I keep on trying - especially when I just expect to be rejected now. Just with everything combined... doesn't make for a very happy me right now, and I have to pretend like everything is fine, because my parents will start to question everything... and that'll just make everything worse.

And sometimes guys just don't understand that they actually need to work on trying to be sensitive. *hugs* But I can see that, and I know how that is - needing support and encouragement from people online. That's how it is for me too. I mean my parents are supportive, but lately, they've not really been helping any. :(

Originally Posted by Seridano

Clock! <3 <3 <3

That's understandable, and it's probably for the best that you don't engage the people you don't care for. Getting out before hard feelings can brew tends to be a sensible way to go about things.

I mean, they are who they are, and that's completely okay, right. but who they are doesn't mesh well with who I am. And I definitely wont be rude to them or anything. I just find it hard to stay in a thread once they show up. is that bad?

Originally Posted by hummy

i hope you breeze through things you need to get done, Seri
are they fun things to do, at least?

Not at all, they're loaded questions asking for one page essays. Trying to answer the questions and confine them to such a small space is trying to say the least. It'd be far simpler if each question didn't have four to five points they wanted me to touch upon in my writing. That and they're all rather generic/stereotypical questions to boot, so the motivation factor is lacking. ^.^;

Originally Posted by nemo.love_22

Kat: I'm the same way. Honestly, I don't even know why I'm here... I hate huge threads... and I'm prone to disappearing.... Without notice.

i'm happy to see you nemo
*hugs*

Originally Posted by xuvrette

*blinksblinks*
Considering the amount that you disappear on me! O__O
T___T

-LOL-

o no
nuuuuuuu!

95% of the time I disappear cause I get distracted!

Originally Posted by spunky

we are trying our best. i hope Seito will cut us some slack.

me too, spunky, me too

@Seri: It was ... a joke... orz

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

@Rette: Ewww! I hope not!

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-hands a roasted corn to Clock- ;D

-munches corn-
thanks Iku.

thanks for roasting corn for us Iku!

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

Stop all these bad feelings!

I'm sorry. I can just leave... there are times that I need to find a way to get the bad feelings out of me. And I'm tired of having to hide who I am from my parents... so I have to act all happy and joyful at home... because I live with them. But I can just leave and take the bad feelings away. I'm sorry.

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

@Rette: Ewww! I hope not!

Like you know the taste of poo?

hmm, I wonder if ClockGram has corn.
-goes on a corn search-

Originally Posted by nemo.love_22

Not saying it's a big crowd. You have the people you're comfortable with. Which I understand. And I do understand that. And I think that's why most of the people who've been here for ages are hesitant to branch out, because of that. But I think that's why I see the 'groups' - abet smaller in some circles - as being less welcoming to me. But that could be because I just feel like I get told off for speaking my mind at times, and sometimes I feel like that just needs to happen - being straight and to the point. Plus I've just been dealing with personal issues offline which haven't been helping my mindset... *shrugs*

I think it's just fine to be honest and blunt. speak your mind. It can be a little hard to join a new place, but you have to be persistent and just keep coming and suddenly you're a part of it. That's what I have to do when I join a new site.

Originally Posted by Kat Dakuu

it would make more sense to do it by how many people you need to post 100 times. that math is more realistic.

actually that is what i meant
it is 750 people that we need to post 100 time
my mistake, i'm sorry, Kat

You're welcome Clock and Spunk! :D

@Nemo: You took that way too personally.

Originally Posted by HIM_ROCK

HIM currently owns two of those poo sweets. You can make the poo container into a money box after.

very cute, HIMmie!

Originally Posted by Kat Dakuu

I think it's just fine to be honest and blunt. speak your mind. It can be a little hard to join a new place, but you have to be persistent and just keep coming and suddenly you're a part of it. That's what I have to do when I join a new site.

Oh, I am persistent when trying to join a new thread, but I don't want to seem like I'm being pushy, so after a few times of posting and people overlooking posts... I sometimes just give up and leave.. because I seem to feel like I'm being rejected, and it makes me sad and then clouds how I feel about a certain thread.. Blah, whatever. >.< *shrug* That's just me.

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Originally Posted by hummy

i'm happy to see you nemo
*hugs*

I'm here for a bit at least.

[QUOTE=nemo.love_22;1771754796]Exactly... because I tend to hide and I've not been feeling all that great about Mene lately - (I've almost quit a number of times in the last month actually). I do have a small handful of threads that I do talk in, but that's rare.[/QUOT

i hope you don't leave us, nemo