Originally Posted by Neora

It took me some time to learn how to talk with ppl here ;)
hummy You are always most wanted person :)

once you realize most people will be kind it's all good
i'm happy you feel comfortable, Neora
*hug*
ps. i'm having perrogis tomorrow!

@Hummy: Omg. I wants!

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

@Neph: Haha. XDD
Maybe we've been breathing too much oxygen.

lol it could be. Wow that reminds me of a convo me and a friend had about if we were Aliens and Oxygen made us high because our Physiology was so different. XD

((Not really here.))

I'm just tired of feeling like I say something and I get attacked for just speaking how I feel... Like how I feel is wrong. Just makes me sad. Real sad.

@Neph: Lmfao! Maybe that's why aliens come here and do weird stuff. Got a sniff of the oxygen and started drawing symbols in the dirt and stuff.

Originally Posted by xuvrette

In real life,the only few fat person that I am with are all my aunts... and I said right in their face if they ask me. I use the word 'fat'. And even friends. Then, the lesser close acquaintance, they won't ask this type of question so, I am limit to that at first.

So in online, I was like... oh, this is a western dominated site! and western/US are all about freedom and openess... little do I know... obesity is a big issue in US. and then, people tell me fat sounds rude even though it is true.
Another reason why I don't want to look at real pictures. Because I don't like to lie, in case the person genuinely is fine with the word fat, but if I lie, they could thought I am a liar of some sort.

I don't do courtesy praising, I know it is polite... but... I am too honest for it. So now, after a few years, I only picked the things I really feel fine to talk about. x.x

You don't have to say all in that case. I agree with You but some ppl don't accept the truth because its too hard for them.

Originally Posted by Velvet

It depends on what not to say, really. Different words mean different things to people. It can be difficult on what to say sometimes. I offended someone when I was joking around with them before. Didn't know I would hurt their feelings.

with not knowing the 'tone' of a word it's easy to offend/hurt someone
i try to understand before getting hurt feelings
my grandmother speaks broken english
so i kind of have a leg up

Originally Posted by hummy

once you realize most people will be kind it's all good
i'm happy you feel comfortable, Neora
*hug*
ps. i'm having perrogis tomorrow!

I want some to!!!! I love them

@Rette: See, you get it though. You're just very direct in the way you speak. Just how you are~

Originally Posted by nemo.love_22

((Not really here.))

I'm just tired of feeling like I say something and I get attacked for just speaking how I feel... Like how I feel is wrong. Just makes me sad. Real sad.

*erases the not here part and puts in is fully present and Lurved*

It's to easy to mis communicate in text. I'm sure they didn't mean to make you feel that way.

Also...is that the right type of present? *scratches head*

Originally Posted by nemo.love_22

((Not really here.))

I'm just tired of feeling like I say something and I get attacked for just speaking how I feel... Like how I feel is wrong. Just makes me sad. Real sad.

Attacked? When? I was offline for most of day but I am trying to understand

ooh perrogis sound delicious. i've never had them before.

@Nemo: I don't think people are attacking you. We all just want you to be happy.

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

@Neph: Lmfao! Maybe that's why aliens come here and do weird stuff. Got a sniff of the oxygen and started drawing symbols in the dirt and stuff.

They blame it on tha Oh oh ohoho OH OXYGEN!

Originally Posted by Nephila

*erases the not here part and puts in is fully present and Lurved*

It's to easy to mis communicate in text. I'm sure they didn't mean to make you feel that way.

Also...is that the right type of present? *scratches head*

I'm more lurking. It is - I agree. But it's more in the grand scheme of things. I've not felt welcomed on Mene for awhile now. This isn't just about what happened.

@Hummy: Is English not her first language or just old age?

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

@Nemo: I don't think people are attacking you. We all just want you to be happy.

Really, that's not how I saw things.

@Neph: Ahaha. XDD They do!

Originally Posted by Neora

Attacked? When? I was offline for most of day but I am trying to understand

Not really attacked. But I feel like I'm just not free to speak my mind in here at all, because people tear apart what I say and flip it around on me...

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

@Rette: I think it's the fact that you're very direct in the way you speak. Some people aren't used to that.

Well, actually, this is not badmouthing/backstabbing, this is also a fact.
She had talked about this problem before, a few times.
I really TRIED hinting softly. I happened to see Nemomo in other threads before, for me, being someone online for longer hours. At first, I have a feeling that if I continue the conversation, it could be end up bad. So, I didn't really focus on her issue at that time and let others dealt with her.

then second time, I try in my most possible way put on a kind mask(that is not who I am). Then kind of have to go and leave at that point for other things.

I just want to express that I am a person that tired different styles of methods.
Anyway, so, I thought she didn't get my hint, so I just be bold.

Besides, even before she had this issue raised, I was with her in NaNo. One of the active Nano writers that one can have. I really hope she would recover her mood.

Originally Posted by nemo.love_22

I'm more lurking. It is - I agree. But it's more in the grand scheme of things. I've not felt welcomed on Mene for awhile now. This isn't just about what happened.

I used to feel this way very often or I'll feel like staff was being to nannyish. I think I've mostly stopped caring now...mostly. Takes a lot to annoy me to begin with.

It is much easier to offend users on here since the tone of voice cannot be heard. Sarcasm can't even be known unless told.. x)

Originally Posted by Nephila

I used to feel this way very often or I'll feel like staff was being to nannyish. I think I've mostly stopped caring now...mostly. Takes a lot to annoy me to begin with.

I try to stop caring, but it's happened in multiple threads now, over a period of time - not just today...

Nemomo~
Again, I am NOT saying you are at fault.
I am just speculating what could have been happening. That is not meant to be a blame or accusation. *slapped forehead*

and by the way. I had my hiatus too. But not because I am overlooked.
It is mainly my old batch of friends just... inactive... and me, having problems with real life. and also, Menewsha was kinda starting to slow down....

Nemo i love your avi.. she's so cute.