Hee I feel proud about my stalkerness. XD

@Rette: I think it's the fact that you're very direct in the way you speak. Some people aren't used to that.

Originally Posted by Velvet

It would seem so...even though I have been apart of the Mene community since '09..

sometimes it just takes awhile to feel comfortable
i left for 4 years because i felt so unwanted

My siggy looks different for some reason. O.o

Originally Posted by Nephila

Hee I feel proud about my stalkerness. XD

and you should!
you are the Queen of stalking!
i'm just creepie about it

Same. I left for a year. Well, I just didn't stick around initially because I didn't know what to do, etc...

Originally Posted by xuvrette

It kind of gets to me when I am a person that don't use f word and still get the remarks of rude. O__O

What I said is a fact, so now, some people told me saying the word 'fat' is rude. What other vocabulary should I add that in the 'rude' list?
Because, I really don't know.

It depends on what not to say, really. Different words mean different things to people. It can be difficult on what to say sometimes. I offended someone when I was joking around with them before. Didn't know I would hurt their feelings.

@Neph: How different?

Originally Posted by hummy

rettie you are gonna sleep all day long

No, just the morning.
Noon is too hot to sleep in. D:

Originally Posted by hummy

sometimes it just takes awhile to feel comfortable
i left for 4 years because i felt so unwanted

4 years? Here? Whoa. Though maybe it was in my lurky days so I didn't talk to anyone. I'd just play on the games and comment on new CIs. Except for events...which I used to dread because GASP! I had to post in them. Wow how things change. XD

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Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

@Neph: How different?

Like how it's spaced or something. *pokes it* How'd it do that.

Ooh, Rette wakes up later then. Afternoon?

Originally Posted by hummy

sometimes it just takes awhile to feel comfortable
i left for 4 years because i felt so unwanted

Yeah, it does seem to take awhile to become known. I mean, everyone is of course so involved in their own personal lives that sometimes it can be hard to be noticed by them.
Though, if I am in a thread such as this and am having a conversation with one or two people at a time, I know I will/have overlook(ed) new users coming in..

@Neph: Maybe it's centered?

I just roll with it >_> if people ignore me, I either come back later or go find someone else to harass.

Either way, there's a lot of elbow use XD I think. Once I find a spot I tend to stick with it.

Pretty much what Citrus said.

Originally Posted by hummy

sometimes it just takes awhile to feel comfortable
i left for 4 years because i felt so unwanted

It took me some time to learn how to talk with ppl here ;)
hummy You are always most wanted person :)

Could be. I have to update it actually... I can't get my site map to work because I can't figure out how to get just the code online. All the free providers I seem to find are for pre-made tables and then you enter in the text. >.<

@Neph: Ooh lame. D: I wonder what Seito uses... P:

jeez i look at the clock and the day is almost over. there was huge stampede of people coming in and it finally calmed a bit.

Originally Posted by Citrus Hammer

I just roll with it >_> if people ignore me, I either come back later or go find someone else to harass.

Either way, there's a lot of elbow use XD I think. Once I find a spot I tend to stick with it.

In a thread like this that's when my crazy random things come out. Shout enough random things and people eventually pay attention. Even if it's just to say "What are you smoking"

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Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

@Neph: Ooh lame. D: I wonder what Seito uses... P:

I'm not sure. I think Sei mentioned it to me a while ago too now that I think of it.

@Neph: Haha. XDD
Maybe we've been breathing too much oxygen.

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

Same. I left for a year. Well, I just didn't stick around initially because I didn't know what to do, etc...

i tried to break in,
but each time i was just ignored.
then when jelly sent out the boardwalk event notice
i finally remembered my password and thought i would give it a try
Seito-san welcomed me and made me feel comfortable so i never left
blame Seito-san, it's all her fault!
that's one reason i wanted to try to reach her goal
kind of to pay her back for all her kindness

i'm like jello. i squeeze into each threadie and just lay like jelly. lol

Originally Posted by Velvet

It depends on what not to say, really. Different words mean different things to people. It can be difficult on what to say sometimes. I offended someone when I was joking around with them before. Didn't know I would hurt their feelings.

In real life,the only few fat person that I am with are all my aunts... and I said right in their face if they ask me. I use the word 'fat'. And even friends. Then, the lesser close acquaintance, they won't ask this type of question so, I am limit to that at first.

So in online, I was like... oh, this is a western dominated site! and western/US are all about freedom and openess... little do I know... obesity is a big issue in US. and then, people tell me fat sounds rude even though it is true.
Another reason why I don't want to look at real pictures. Because I don't like to lie, in case the person genuinely is fine with the word fat, but if I lie, they could thought I am a liar of some sort.

I don't do courtesy praising, I know it is polite... but... I am too honest for it. So now, after a few years, I only picked the things I really feel fine to talk about. x.x

@Hummy: Aww, that's nice.