Oh there's also a Charity, her name is gizzmo but we call her gizzie. She has a newbe charity. Check the hangout forums, if u post in her charity thread she will give u something to wear. She's awesome!
To make gold, posting in forums. An u can make a memory jar for gold too. The longer ur post the more gold u get. But trust me, it's not alot of gold. Sorry to hear that ur wifey here an won't give up her Un. That's sad tho.
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