Given what you told me before, you'd probably like the music forum, though I could invite you to a few nice threads to chat in as well if you'd like ^^
Umm yeah one, hit view conversation to make the message show on my wall :) that way I get a notification for it.
Umm... basically you post in the forums for gold, gold gets you cloths and cloths makes you.... umm... look spiffy? XD
For me I just see it as, this is a PG13 site, so I just chat with people according to those rules and have fun chatting with some really friendly people.