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I know. Thanks for listening and trying to help either way. :)
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Hey there. So I just wanted to update you, since you asked me to. Hmm nothing much has happened yet. We've been talking, but we've been pretty distant from each other. I think we're both taking some time to collect our thoughts and figure out what we're feeling. We haven't really been working things out or talking about them as much as I would like and it's getting to be a little frustrating for me. :-/ I kind of feel like we're taking things too slowly because we're not talking about them enough, but I also don't want to rush things. Right now I'm not seeing that balance between good and bad because...although we did have one face-to-face conversation about things, that's the only one we've had. I don't know. I think...I just have to be more patient. I'm tired of bringing things up, but I also know that if we don't fix this...it won't ever get fixed. Things don't just randomly get better you know?
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No, it really helps to have someone understand what I'm thinking right now because so many focus on their own experiences and tell me that I should leave him, without really knowing what is going on with my situation. Right now I am hoping for the best, even after what happened. I hope it can work out, but I also don't want him to think I'm letting him off the hook for anything. I'm not sure how to walk that balance....hanging out with him and trying to fix our problems while letting him know that what he did was wrong and he needs to give me reason to trust him again. It feels....contradictory. I don't want to focus so much on the bad stuff because then we don't have time to focus on the good things and we'll never be able to work things out that way. So I'm just not sure. Any opinions on that?
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You are such a sweet person! And thanks! It'll be nice to have a friend on here! I'm not on the comp as much anymore, since the busy season at work has arrived and the anime con I'm helping organize had a small bout of drama that needed to be worked out, so maybe that's why i haven't many buddies here. :D
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You seem like such a nice person. I think I was looking for a comment like yours. Most people will go on and say "once a cheater, always a cheater." But because people aren't in and don't see what goes on in the relationship....I mean, I'm not sure if he is actually capable of that. And that's the real reason why I've been so confused. I think...we're just going to give it time and see what happens. :)
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Thanks for posting in my thread :) I haven't logged onto Menewsha for a while...I replied there if you wanna go read.
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Hey. Just wanted to say thanks for the comment you left on my post (Unlovable??). :)
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