It's not just you - the only people able to see inside threads (without using the "Go advanced" option and viewing the post-history thing) are staff right now... We're working on it. >_<
Once I got into avi sites usually someone told me about new ones right away which was nice. I joined solia on like the first day haha...if only I were active ;>_>
Mm I have but iunno, think I might be done joining new sites, haha.