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07-12-2015 04:35 AMVenoIt was a pretty crappy situtation at the end, but I'm honestly over it. I wish her the best in life with her new wife and her wifes three boys. What's done is done, the past is in the past, and even though I'll never forget and I learned some major valueable lessons, I've forgiven her. I'm not holding onto a grudge, that's just too much poison in my life.
My parents were there for me, but I think mainly because they had hopes that since I wasn't in a gay relationship anymore they could "sway" me towards guys. Mom tried hooking me up on blind dates with guys and that whole 9 yards. They just don't understand how "such a pretty young lady like you could be gay" They aren't exactly closed minded to it, and don't appose it really, but they just say they expected different for me, which I mean I understand that. We have this expectations for our children and of course that never happens. Lol They've never been nasty about me being lesbian, just always tried to "push" me to the straight way. In a way I've had it easy with all that, but it gets very annoying after awhile. Well actually it'll be across the street >.< But that'll probably be the end of next year or beginning of 2017 before that even happens. Lol and I figured I would fix up the lot and trailer and everything(they wont make me pay "rent" since the property has been paid off for years) I just have to pay the trailer payment for buying it and all the utilities and etc. But I figured once i pay that off I'll give it over to them, and then I'll invest in buying my own house somewhere. I would prefer not to have my son in this counties school system *it's one of the worst school districts in Florida* I mean I went to the schools here and tons of people do, but I would rather drive him or live in the next county over that has some of the best school systems LOL It's pretty much night and day between the two and it's only a 25-30 minute out of the way drive.
^^ I appreciate it and I just can hope the cards fall in the right direction. But I don't foresee anything too horrible happening with jerk-face. Lol Which I mean that kills me because he was my best friend - like knows everything about me and what i thought was vice versa -thankfully I don't have any big bad secrets he could tell haha I'm basically an open book anyways. But it's like I lost a really good friend in all this because he's immature, when we both could be adults about this. -
07-12-2015 03:25 AMVenoLOL well I did live out on my own from 17 until 22. Then me and the ex fiance split and she ended up kicking me out of the house we had been paying for *unfortunately didn't have a legal leg to stand on there because I wasn't on the mortgage so even though I had been paying half the mortgage and lights and water, I still had to abide by the 60 day "eviction" notice she gave me, which I packed my shit and left soon as I got it squared away with my parents about me moving back home* But that was almost 2 years ago. I moved back in with my parents, been paying off the massive amounts of credit card debt *me and the ex had just remodeled and bought things for the house after a year of living there, we were suppose to split the cost of it all after I charged it to my cards to build more credit -which is why I wasn't on the mortgage in the first place because credit wise we wouldn't of qualified for it* But finally got all that paid off, and now just having to pay off the car I had to buy last year - thank you shitty insurance and a wreck that only replaced 1,100 of my car. >.< I actually have been working on a plan to move out on my own. Well technically it'll be on my parents other piece of property. But right now there is a condemned trailer so I would have to remove the trailer, update the septic tank system and buy a trailer to put on the land, which is still SUPER cheap as apposed to trying to buy a house or to rent somewhere. *cheapest rent here for even a 2 bedroom hole in the wall is like 650 a month not including electicity* BUT for right now since I'll be working part time and school full time we are staying with my parents. But they are fixing to add on to the house we're living in *which has been wanted for years now, but she feels she has a reason since the grand babies stay over alot and we only have a two bedroom house right now lol* anyways haha so they are adding on two bedrooms, a bathroom and re-doing the kitchen and adding a den. @[email protected]
I haven't even argued with him about diddly squat. I told him my side of everything, and how I am willing to deal with this and how I would like for it to go - him being in my sons life and everything and that I wont keep him from his son unless need be - but I'm taking it all legally through the courts. I'm not even telling him when and where his son's going to be born at. I am not dealing with that level of immaturatity and everything when I've just went through labor and delivery. Wont have it. Men like him really bother me too and honestly I never ever saw myself in this position - being lesbian and all. But we will see how the pieces fall and land. And of course I'll keep you all updated. <3 -
07-10-2015 10:57 PMVenoOh. Haha gotcha! You had me totally confused there for a minute. And I actually live with my parents right now so that makes things... harder and easier at the same time. Like I know my mom is going to be all up in my business and telling me how to do this and do that *which it's great to have advice* BUT I don't want someone over my shoulder at the same time. Then it's like I know I could ask her to go change his diaper or whatever if I was in the shower or something, but I just don't want to impose either. So it's really a double edged blade. Once i go back to work which I'll only be working part time because of school and baby it'll be 4 days a week of 5 1/2 hour shifts. And she will just take him to work with her (since they own their own business she can do that. haha)
I appreciate all the kind words and cheerleading words for me. And the single parent part doesn't really bother me. It's not that I expected him to be much in the picture seeing as how he lives 3 hours away, works out on the boat for 4 weeks and back for 2-3 weeks but he's basically being a total butt munch about the whole thing, saying he doesn't want anything to do with us one day and then the next is throwing a fit because I'm giving my son my last name - which I'm doing for one very big main reason, my son will be the only person and only male to be able to pass on our genetics and last name. Otherwise they would die out with me and my brother. So that's important to me - plus come to light he's already a sperm donor to another son that he knocked up a girl while we were in high school THAT ABSOLUTELY NO ONE KNOWS about except for his parents and her/her family. (she doesn't live here I guess, I have no idea) but even as his "best" friend he never told me that and I've known him for 9, almost 10 years. Never once knew about the fact he had a kid. His family has kept it really hush hush. But he hasn't seen his other son since like right after he was born. Pays child support monthly but never sees the kid and the kid lives in the same city as he does now. So that's not an excuse. I just hate it for my son. "sorry your mom is a lesbian and your dad is a hunk of junk that doesn't have time to see you" kinda story >.< would NEVER word it like that of course but just ugh. -
07-10-2015 09:35 PMVenoYikes! That's a crazy time difference between you and your mom. Dx I've lived 5 hours away from mine and in the same time zone and I HATED IT. I mean I loved it at first of course. Freedom and not being told what to do and all that jazz, but then it was like "I wanna just be able to go see my mom" We finally after many many years have a pretty decent relationship.
^^ I really really appreciate that, I'm a nervous wreck about being a mom, but I mean I know I wont be a horrible parent, but I want to excell ya know? But thank you. <3 I've never really been around newborns or even taken care of a baby under like...6 months so it's a little scary. I have totally watched videos and googled 999 things LOL.
They had a little girl. Totally adorable. They are the cutest little family. I think I'm more nervous about the fact I'm going to be a single lesbian mom, ya know? With a pretty much joke as a "sperm donor" suppose to be my best friend for the past 9 years, get drunk, things happen and now wants diddly squat to do with me or his kid. -
07-10-2015 06:55 AMVenoLol oh I totally understand with the not super long replies. I just don't have anything going on right now. Usually once I'm tinkering around on the computer my day is for the most part over or I don't' have anything else I can do at that time. xD Like it's 2:30 am so not much I can do being this early/late.
I can totally bed you don't have any hair left. I actually thought about giving him up for adoption to one of my best friends. - REALLY LONG story there- I'll fill you in on it another time. LOL and in a PM. but short sweet-super sweet- version is she found out she was pregnant (after 6 years trying with her husband and numerous miscarriages and fertility treatments) about 2 weeks after I found out. She ended up being due a week after me. She had to have a c section 2 weeks ago but they are doing all fine and dandy now. I really love Finnley's name and both are Irish/Scottish which is my heritage. It goes with my last name Scruggs. LOL we're just kinda hoping he doesn't come out to be a red head. He's already going to have me as a single lesbian mother so he doesn't need anything else to be picked on. -
07-10-2015 04:38 AMVenoHaha I've got two nieces 3 and 5 (well almost 4 and 6 but yeah) and they are balls to the walls. Haha I appreciate it, I'm hoping it'll be a smooth delivery, it's been a smooth pregnancy thankfully. I do have a name picked out. Finnley Reid. What's crazy is that SOOOO was not on my list of names ever ever in my life and even when I was choosing names. But one day I just clicked on that name. So now that everything is monogrammed and has been for quite some time, hopefully the day of delivery I wont change my mind (haha jk I wouldn't do that) two girls is just crazy though! I know you've got your hands full! I had my fingers crossed for a little boy.
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07-09-2015 10:22 PMVenoAwww that's really really sweet of you. :} Thank you. I'm just awaiting his arrival. Midwife said anywhere between now and 12 days after his due date. xD So basically sometime before the 1st of August. <3 Hope all is well with you.
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07-06-2015 11:42 PMDaisyKeehlLivi! My dear Livi!
I am leaving Mene for good. Hopefully we are still in contact on FB.
I just wanted to thank you for making Mene so enjoyable over the past few years. -
06-05-2015 06:54 AMMousyGrrlI suck at email, but hit me up sometime... mousygrrl[at]gmail.com <-- me.
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05-26-2015 01:04 PMMousyGrrlMwahahahaaaaaa~
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- Hello there everyone! I'm Livi, and I'm 31, married with 4 kiddos (3 daughters, and a son). :)
I love meeting new people, trying to teach myself to crochet, and knit (both of which I'm rubbish at), my family and friends. I really don't like mean people or people who put themselves down, and random bits about me... hm.... Talk to me and get to know me! I love chatting - whenever I find the time to get on. :) - Location
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