being adopted means that you get a mentor, and they show you around, explain things you might not understand,
chain you, so that you don't leave us again
help you set up, be your friend, unless you discover you have absolutely nothing in common but this is why there is the agency, normally you would fill out a form, and then find matches, in interests or time zones and all.
but the person who opened up the thread is a mod, and has a real life, which is why we people act on our own, old enough and all

and adopt anyways, officially or not.
essay over
